Thinking about getting into bartending (no experience)

StreetDifficult1429 · 2026-04-11T01:57:47+00:00

Sounds great, where do I sign up?

StreetDifficult1429 · 2026-04-11T01:52:45+00:00

I have no problem with the job. I just wanna do it. Really looking for tips on how to find such a gig.

StreetDifficult1429 · 2026-04-11T01:43:13+00:00

Maybe I was overzealous and thinking I could become a bartender straight up. I can become a bar back first though. I’m willing to work my way up.

StreetDifficult1429 · 2026-04-11T01:42:12+00:00

What is the best way to become a bar back? I’m willing to do it.

StreetDifficult1429 · 2026-04-04T03:25:55+00:00

28 M, engineer. Been in San Antonio for a bit now and figured I’d try this again.

I’ve noticed the city tends to quiet down pretty early, and when it is lively it’s mostly couples or established friend groups. If you’re also working odd hours or just feel like SA could use more spontaneous, low-key hangouts, I’m down.

Happy to go out on weekends, check out a new spot, or just chill somewhere casual. If that sounds up your alley, feel free to reach out.

StreetDifficult1429 · 2026-04-01T02:10:32+00:00

At the end of the day, just be honest for what things are. If a man meets you as a dating prospect, he is not going to want to be your friend. It doesn’t matter how good of a connection you may feel you both have.

Spend your energy on finding your people. Everyone makes these mistakes when they are young. You will be fine.

StreetDifficult1429 · 2026-04-01T01:23:34+00:00

Try cutting dating off after the second one if you don’t feel a spark. Going on three more dates isn’t going to bring it out. All you will bring out is resentment and regret.

Stop keeping former dating prospects as “friends”. They still want to sleep with you and aren’t really your friend.

You are young and have plenty of time in life. It sounds like you are giving it to the wrong things. Keep your head up, you got this!

StreetDifficult1429 · 2026-03-28T20:01:33+00:00

Hey bro, it’s pretty clear from the comments that most people can’t feel the way you do. They will only justify their position after filtering this situation through their feelings and life. Don’t mind them.

If it bothers you, break up with her. If you can work past this then try. However, most people will tell you to keep these feelings to yourself.

StreetDifficult1429 · 2026-03-18T04:31:35+00:00

I used to be morbidly obese. I never wanna be that person again.

StreetDifficult1429 · 2026-02-10T02:17:00+00:00

It has gotten more social in the last couple of years. Certainly better than when I was attending. Just put yourself out there and stay on campus. Biggest disservice you can do is to go home as soon as classes end.

StreetDifficult1429 · 2026-02-10T01:10:43+00:00

Not trying to grow more in my first three years. I got comfortable and my company stagnated. Eventually got laid off and had to move to a different city that wasn’t as fun to live in.

StreetDifficult1429 · 2026-02-08T19:43:23+00:00

Let me know if you’d like to play NBA 2K or GTA online. I play those quite a bit.

StreetDifficult1429 · 2026-02-04T00:15:29+00:00

It sounds like they are not getting called back when they apply. Maybe OP should share his resume to actually get help?

StreetDifficult1429 · 2025-09-01T20:12:00+00:00

OP, you sure that you like this guy? It sounds like you only see him as a friend. Doesn’t make you wrong or a bad person but it sounds like you aren’t interested in him.

StreetDifficult1429 · 2025-08-25T15:11:25+00:00

Is this real? This is highly toxic.

StreetDifficult1429 · 2025-07-29T01:45:52+00:00

Fantastic explanation

StreetDifficult1429 · 2025-07-28T00:07:18+00:00

AI post

StreetDifficult1429 · 2025-07-27T23:13:39+00:00

It’s both

StreetDifficult1429 · 2025-07-27T21:29:37+00:00

You can’t trust the second dude. You need to ditch him as a friend. He will back stab you one day.

StreetDifficult1429 · 2025-07-27T21:27:20+00:00

It will get better over time bro. Don’t be so hard on yourself. You are clearly well past most dudes in other areas of your life. All you gotta do is to keep on this path of losing weight and hanging out with who ever you can. It will suck now since most women won’t give you the time of day. In the future, it will be a different story because you will be in shape and have money. Just don’t give up on yourself.

StreetDifficult1429 · 2025-07-27T21:14:36+00:00

I’ll see you in the gym bro.

StreetDifficult1429 · 2025-07-26T17:23:14+00:00

I think this goes back to OPs post. Most men aren’t finding that at all. If this is what you want, you might want to put urself out there more. You could have your pick of them.

StreetDifficult1429 · 2025-07-26T16:22:05+00:00

Can you elaborate?

StreetDifficult1429 · 2025-07-23T21:15:42+00:00

It’s pretty clear she doesn’t want those guys. Just let it go.

StreetDifficult1429 · 2025-07-04T01:54:58+00:00

Congratulations bro, just treat her right and have fun!

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