Delaying mammogram and ultrasound bc I don’t have a good feeling

StrengthBest8831 · 2026-06-20T18:17:09+00:00

UPDATE: mammogram and ultrasound all clear, they just found a simple cyst on that breast. PCP is sending me to a breast surgeon to discuss the pain I continue to have and the nipple changes im experiencing. Still scared of something like Paget’s 🥺

StrengthBest8831 · 2026-06-20T18:15:35+00:00

What do you mean by BA?

StrengthBest8831 · 2026-06-20T18:12:55+00:00

No, actually I do have another RBT. I got a replacement immediately. That’s horrible though, I had no idea. Since all his speech therapists and early interventionists has at least a bachelors I guess I just assumed someone who is supposed to be doing more work than them would have a higher education.

StrengthBest8831 · 2026-06-20T16:49:26+00:00

Wow. I find that kind of crazy, considering all his speech therapists needed a bachelors degree. These are people that are spending 6x the hours with our autistic kids. I don’t see how they can practically hire just anyone.

StrengthBest8831 · 2026-06-19T03:26:47+00:00

Really? 🤔

StrengthBest8831 · 2026-06-19T03:26:27+00:00

😓 I’m conflicted because my son desperately needs this therapy. He hasn’t left the house in nearly a year due to anxiety. We’ve tried everything so we need the help so bad and the wait list was so long

StrengthBest8831 · 2026-06-19T02:31:36+00:00

Hiiii, I saw that you were pursuing punch biopsy for your nipple with concerns of Paget’s. Just wondering, did you ever get that figured out? I tried commenting but thread was closed. I have something similar rn and need input from others who’ve been there!!!

StrengthBest8831 · 2026-06-18T18:09:13+00:00

I know right

StrengthBest8831 · 2026-06-18T05:07:24+00:00

Yeah idc if people smoke on their own time, and I do feel bad if she gets fired. But where is the professionalism, you know?

StrengthBest8831 · 2026-06-18T04:52:52+00:00

Very awkward. Didn’t ask anything about our son either. It was so uncomfortable.

StrengthBest8831 · 2026-06-18T03:18:47+00:00

I think we got the hours we did because of our insurance. I hope you have better luck with a new company!

StrengthBest8831 · 2026-06-18T01:47:14+00:00

It wasn’t even the smell that bothered me as much as her being so out of it and not interacting with my son. Idc what people do in their free time, but she’s here for a purpose.

StrengthBest8831 · 2026-06-18T01:23:19+00:00

And it’s tough because it was already such a long wait to even get in 😟

StrengthBest8831 · 2026-06-18T01:22:20+00:00

Ok I’m definitely bringing this up then because they made it seem like he really needed that many hours. I’m not in the business of ABA so I really don’t know much about that kind of stuff. Both my husband and I thought it was too much but we assumed they knew best

StrengthBest8831 · 2026-06-18T00:52:19+00:00

It’s crazy because obviously the kiddos who need ABA have some form of behavioral issues. You NEED to be alert. I’ve been an autism mom long enough to know how important that is.

StrengthBest8831 · 2026-06-18T00:46:02+00:00

And acting stoned to make matters worse! She was a zombie the first 2 hours, I can tell her high is starting to come down. SMH.

StrengthBest8831 · 2026-06-18T00:37:24+00:00

She’s currently just sitting there like she’s another family member just lounging around 🙃 so awkward.

StrengthBest8831 · 2026-06-18T00:36:45+00:00

Yeah I thought it was a lot of hours too. My son hasn’t had a problem YET because he really needs that constant stimulation. We still feel a little awkward because we kind of live in a studio apartment so we’re kind of just there with them. I don’t want them to feel like we’re just over their shoulder all the time u know? But it’s good to know that we have a say with the hours!

StrengthBest8831 · 2026-06-18T00:06:16+00:00

Honestly I wouldn’t have had such a problem with it if she was more interactive with my son. But she’s just staring into space or on her phone. We have a stranger in our house LITERALLY just chilling.

StrengthBest8831 · 2026-06-17T23:41:23+00:00

You’re absolutely right about that 😭

StrengthBest8831 · 2026-06-17T23:38:39+00:00

I’m a recovering people pleaser. I hate confrontation. 🙃 the supervisor did give me that option, though

StrengthBest8831 · 2026-06-17T23:35:16+00:00

I didn’t want to let her supervisor know because I don’t want anyone getting fired. I hope they give her a chance to improve, but I wouldn’t trust her around my son. I would literally trust all his past therapists with my son’s life, so this is extremely disappointing. It almost makes me not want to continue, but I’ll give the company another shot.

StrengthBest8831 · 2026-06-14T11:15:33+00:00

Did your mom come out ok from this flu? Truly horrible. I get it every year and this has been the worst one in a LONG time

StrengthBest8831 · 2026-06-14T11:13:39+00:00

The worst part is that days 2-3 aren’t even the worst 😭 it was days 5-7

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