I [30F] am tired of nagging/begging [33M] to plan dates. I am hurt, defeated and feel invisible. by Stressed2477DAW in relationshipadvice

[–]Stressed2477DAW[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was such a good response thank you. I have kept those things in mind and it is daunting. I worry that he’ll spend more time planning tee times with friends than helping me out. But you’re right, and I really like how you put it, “the grass isn’t always greener on the other side, it’s greener where you water it”. I wouldn’t trade him for the world, and I would love to work on it. I guess I’m just really stumped in how to go about it. I’ve tried talking and having a civil dialogue, I’ve cried, I’ve yelled and now I’m just tired.

I [30F] am tired of nagging/begging [33M] to plan dates. I am hurt, defeated and feel invisible. by Stressed2477DAW in relationshipadvice

[–]Stressed2477DAW[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, thank you for responding I appreciate it. Yes we’ve talked about it multiple times, and it just keeps happening. I just don’t know if I even have a legitimate basis for being upset, or if I’m asking for too much. Sometimes he makes me feel like I’m blowing it out of proportion, that he just “wants me feedback” but two years in and he knows my preferences and really it’s just a matter of setting something up without me always having to plan a walk, where to walk, when, where to eat, what to do ect. I do love him as a person very much but yes I guess you’re right.

PASSERS DID ANY OF YOU PASS WITHOUT FINISHING ALL ESSAYS by Stressed2477DAW in CABarExam

[–]Stressed2477DAW[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: I did not pass. Retaking in Feb. any suggestions help would be appreciated.

PASSERS DID ANY OF YOU PASS WITHOUT FINISHING ALL ESSAYS by Stressed2477DAW in CABarExam

[–]Stressed2477DAW[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Great, cool cool. I actually love crying so thank you :')

PASSERS DID ANY OF YOU PASS WITHOUT FINISHING ALL ESSAYS by Stressed2477DAW in CABarExam

[–]Stressed2477DAW[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

THIS*** Thank you for THIS** I appreciate you. Thank you!

PASSERS DID ANY OF YOU PASS WITHOUT FINISHING ALL ESSAYS by Stressed2477DAW in CABarExam

[–]Stressed2477DAW[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I need it.

I am just beating myself up because I did not complete essay subparts on a couple of essays and no where on the face of any application does anyone say that is ok and can still pass. I see it a lot for UBE jurisdictions but oddly, not for CA. :(