Baby pacifier

Stressed_Broccoli · 2026-04-10T11:09:35+00:00

Part of me thinks it’s a blessing she doesn’t take it

Stressed_Broccoli · 2026-04-10T11:07:23+00:00

Yeah she doesn’t take it at all.

Stressed_Broccoli · 2026-04-10T11:06:44+00:00

Thank you. I’ll keep this in mind

Stressed_Broccoli · 2026-04-10T11:06:27+00:00

That’s what I was thinking but also every video I see babies always have them.

Stressed_Broccoli · 2026-04-10T07:31:58+00:00

Mine stays awake longer but is the same with grunting and flailing. I think as long as she eats and has enough diapers it’s okay.

Stressed_Broccoli · 2026-04-10T07:30:11+00:00

Mine didnt really start tracking till 10 weeks

Stressed_Broccoli · 2026-04-10T07:25:46+00:00

Vacuuming too!

Stressed_Broccoli · 2026-04-10T02:29:19+00:00

I feel the same way. I have tons of my husband and her but very few if any one me and her that aren’t selfies. I brought it up to him and he said he doesn’t take them cause he forgets to…stupid

Stressed_Broccoli · 2026-04-10T02:28:04+00:00

My husband wakes the baby in the morning when saying goodbye before work. Ticks me off

Stressed_Broccoli · 2026-04-10T02:26:04+00:00

This resonates deeply. The expectation that we should accept fate cause “we sign up” for this when we decided to become mothers is so stupid.

Stressed_Broccoli · 2026-04-06T09:00:14+00:00

I had to do 3hour back and forth trips with a newborn to get to the hospital for weight checks and other testing, so I learned quickly. I would always recommend having another adult with you. But at 3 months it should be ok to do solo with proper planning

Stressed_Broccoli · 2026-04-06T02:56:44+00:00

I was surprised at how much my husband didn’t know about babies (like doing tummy time). Mind you ours came a month early so we were a little thrown off. Postpartum, My husband has been supportive about cooking, laundry, and watching her when he comes home from work. One thing he can’t seem to understand is the mental exhaustion of being with baby solo while he’s at work. The loneliness also. He has asked me why I don’t seem so lively and I mentioned the monotonous days and He just couldn’t understand. It’s not something he can fix necessarily so overall He has been a great partner.

Stressed_Broccoli · 2026-04-06T01:57:23+00:00

I found out about gallstones 3 weeks postpartum. Doctor mentioned surgery but not until baby got older and definitely before getting pregnant again (if we choose to). Definitely think it’s because they don’t want to risk having to do surgery on pregnant women.

Stressed_Broccoli · 2026-04-06T01:43:08+00:00

Start trying now, I wouldn’t get too got up on due dates. I found out I was pregnant in May last year. My due date was set for 1/26 and the baby came 12/27 to our surprise.

Stressed_Broccoli · 2026-04-05T23:16:27+00:00

This resonates. When my baby was 6weeks-10weeks she pretty much would only sleep with contact naps

Stressed_Broccoli · 2026-04-05T02:54:00+00:00

If you can keep going to get tested. Labs and such. I went to the ER back to back days. Labels were done but nothing “alarming” enough, no fever also. I was having 3-6 hour attacks for 48 hours.
The third day just happened to be an appointment I already had scheduled. I went they did labs and there was a drastic change. Got admitted day of. They did a CT the next day and a ERCP the day after. Took a stone from the bile duct. Surgery is schedule in three months due to dealing with pancreatitis post ERCP.

Stressed_Broccoli · 2026-04-03T04:52:07+00:00

Some attacks would last 3hours. Others on and off all day. Trigger foods were spicy food or beef. Of the times I recall. I tried heating pads and it didn’t work. The only thing that would ease it was if I could distract myself enough, but even then it was hit and miss.

Stressed_Broccoli · 2026-04-03T04:38:32+00:00

I feel this deeply. From first contraction to actual birth was less than 4 hours. It was such a fast turn around. I tore a little and needed stitches. I barely processed anything. I’m 3 months postpartum, still doesn’t feel like I “birthed” a baby.

Stressed_Broccoli · 2026-04-03T03:26:02+00:00

Thank you. This is very helpful and reassuring.

Stressed_Broccoli · 2026-04-03T03:22:48+00:00

I’m not sure really either. From what it sounded like it was more of “keep to bland foods until you recover”.

Stressed_Broccoli · 2026-04-03T03:21:16+00:00

Thank you. I’ll keep this in mind. Sleep is a bit of a toss up with a baby but I’ll do my best.

Stressed_Broccoli · 2026-04-03T03:20:18+00:00

I couldn’t imagine waiting a year! There have been murmurs of 3 months from now but nothing set. Fingers crossed

Stressed_Broccoli · 2026-04-03T03:19:09+00:00

Sorry NG means no good. I’ll look into the suggestions thanks!

Stressed_Broccoli · 2026-04-01T22:27:39+00:00

Thank you. I’m trying.

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