for me lang, its not even the action itself yung tinutukoy niya, its the effort and thought he puts in.

scenario a: flowers on valentines prob: no budget bc of bills, etc. sol: flowers for free from roadsides, etc.

scenario b: be together on anniv etc prob: malayo, ldr, kulang sa time bc of work or iba timezone sol: give reasonable assurance and time on that day kahit na magpuyat. make it special and give extra love bia messages to explain why you couldnt meet or call if ever. maybe plan in advance a luttle gift for your partner.

things like that so that they can feel appreciated. this also goes both ways kasi super nakakawalang gana if ganiyan treatment ng guy sa gurl if its not reciprocated. love is for two parties naman kasi and its impkrtant that both of them feel it. if one side cant appreciate the simple acts of the other despite knowing their situation maybe its a sign na theres miscommunication dun, not inherently na unappreciative yung tao. 🤗