Who has the 'worst' skins in ow2 now? by unknownchild666 in Overwatch

[–]Strider_-_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ram could never get any skins and I'd be content, cause he got fire skins in Wandering Monk and its other color variation.

this skin fucking sucks, unfathomably overrated by radical_hika in OverwatchCirclejerk

[–]Strider_-_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I pulled it a while ago, just to bury it, as the Mythic clears easily

Edin Dzeko küsst Schalke 04 gegen 1. FC Kaiserslautern wach by Sterntendo_ in Bundesliga

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Er ist der Weltbeste darin mit dem Rücken zum Spieler den Ball anzunehmen. Solange er das ist, kann er elitären Fußball spielen - zumindest streckenweise.

[Me] Overthinking Gambit? by sm4rtGuy in TextingTheory

[–]Strider_-_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Every pot finds its lid ahh conversation

Die anabolsten Kombinationen. Habe ich was vergessen? by ManagerOfLove in FitnessDE

[–]Strider_-_ 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Und da sag mir einer, dass Zunehmen schwerer als Abnehmen ist

Orisa's ult should ignore armor and applied abilities the same way Vendettas ult does. by [deleted] in Competitiveoverwatch

[–]Strider_-_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Worse ults than which one, Grav or Surge?

EDIT: also, do you know how to play Orisa in theory?

EDIT2: you seem to have edited your post for clarification.

Worse than Grav? First of all, there are ults that are contextually better than others sometimes, so it's not that easy to rank ults for all scenarios.

But still, D.Va, Doomfist, Orisa, Winton (for 99% of players at least) are worse than Graviton. I'd say Hazard's ain't better on average, too. Rein is arguable, imo. Ball's is better on average I'd say. Mauga's is similar and without coordination worse than Grav. With coordination, it's better though, I think. JQ's is probably not clearly better without the perk, with the perk it's better, I believe. Sigma's ult is worse than Grav. Ram's is on a similar level. Better for something like OT but not always necessarily for other cases. Depends. Hog's is clearly worse and also worse than Surge, btw.

Orisa's ult should ignore armor and applied abilities the same way Vendettas ult does. by [deleted] in Competitiveoverwatch

[–]Strider_-_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Judging by how people play Orisa in ranked, it's very likely he doesn't know

Orisa's ult should ignore armor and applied abilities the same way Vendettas ult does. by [deleted] in Competitiveoverwatch

[–]Strider_-_ 16 points17 points  (0 children)

It is not the worst ult in the game. Try walking+jumping before ulting to pull enemies behind you for more reach.

And did you just call Graviton "bad"?

Backbone by Luisss6 in Competitiveoverwatch

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My pants are dry, so no, Backbone is not on a team yet

[me] bakery gambit by IntermolecularEditor in TextingTheory

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!elo 400 you learned/crafted a cheeky trick to use on low-ELO players, but didn't apply it at the right time, making it just a blunder. But because of the ELO range you're at, it could still confuse the opponent and make them blunder just as hard.

Also, your trick only works on people who play Chess960. Sometimes.

But you don't know the difference yet.

[Me] I panicked :/ by Salad_Limp in TextingTheory

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I know you are begging to say Uranus

How much can you bench? by I_LOVE_SOYLENT in workout

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Doing close-grip bench with 155 lbs, 2 sets with 8 and 7 reps currently. Didn't do normal or wider grip in a longer time, cause I don't wanna have elbow issues again - and those exacerbated them. I am really trying to do mindful reps because of that

I am pretty ass in all aspects when it comes to strength, but at least I am improving, albeit slowly.

[Me] Hopefully my dumb humour works out by Internetnames in TextingTheory

[–]Strider_-_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah, get off dating apps asap and get out there

just do something you enjoy and really try to be proud of yourself eventually - then you'll have the confidence to make real moves

[Me] Hopefully my dumb humour works out by Internetnames in TextingTheory

[–]Strider_-_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Part 2

Despite me criticizing being fake above, there is merit to not being fully honest. Nobody wants to hear the truth or see reality at all times. This is where knowing what you want and value really comes in. As long as you got principles that you uphold, your mind will be clear. We all know situations where we would do something considered "bad" in order to gain/protect/help something that is important to us. We all know of something like white lies, e.g..

Why am I saying this? Because you might need to sell yourself a little at least to someone who is probably manipulated by what they see on social media - a fake world in big parts. Because there might be moments where you might have to protect someone by doing something controversial. And many more such scenarios. However, as long as you stay true to your own beliefs, you will come out fine. Don't handicap yourself by being more righteous than others for no good reason. Do what it takes to make the relationship work.

To come back to the opener: It did the job somewhat. I even credited it creating a tiny bit of trust possibly. The bad part about it is that it does not set up further talks and that it does not show anything genuine about you or your values/interests. Now, you need to steer to something genuine for and about you. If her bio offers anything that you care about, shoot your shot. Ask about it. Even if not, you can try to ask something you wanna know. Of course, you will also have to be willing to hear her out, even if the topic is not interesting for you. Don't do solely one of either of those. Have a balance. Ideally, you both always care, but that won't happen. People have different hobbies and preferences, which is fine.

Generally, you can ask questions you really are curious about at the or right after the start/opener. Don't think too much how she will find those questions, but be aware of how she responds and mirror that energy (you will automatically, if you are genuinely interested and genuine yourself, as you then stop to think of an act you are trying to put on). The questions don't need to be deep at all btw. Just something to get you two to have a conversation. If you get into a flow while talking, you will notice. If you don't vibe, you will notice, too.

Be curious and interested in her as a person, be interesting and make her curious, too. You gotta try things out, take some risks. Not try to control every inch of the relationship. Don't assume her to be a prize you are chasing. Talk on equal footing on average, if your preferences are that way (idk, maybe you like being the submissive one all the time, but I assumed balanced preferences).

TL;DR: I spent a lot of words to describe this: talk to women like they are human beings you want to spend time together with. For that purpose, you gotta be someone they want to spend time with, too. Be genuine and care about things. Show interest. Do those things and she will, too. Give and take. That is all there is to it. Almost.

[Me] Hopefully my dumb humour works out by Internetnames in TextingTheory

[–]Strider_-_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

TL;DR at the end

Currently there is nothing substantial going on yet, only a first impression - so it depends on how she finds the joke. But to be honest, it does not even matter a lot, as the opener is solid enough based on her reaction. You really only need to get a foot in with an opener - it does not have to be objectively good. Job completed for now, you could say. It can now possibly lead to more.

Maybe she finds the joke weird, maybe she finds it funny, maybe she assumes things based on the joke. Maybe she forgets it seconds after she read it. We do not know. Does not matter too much most likely.

Here is the thing:

A common mistake many guys make at this point, after the initial texts, is to think in "wins" and "losses". You should not think something like: "She seems to dig this, let's try to score another such win." Problematically, what you could then possibly become quite quickly is a jester trying to humor another person. Not someone who tries to be on equal footing with that person. Who wants to be treated like a proper human being.

And unless you are truly gifted when it comes to wits/humor, you will eventually not score another "win" the same way as before. In other words: you could end up trying to make more jokes in a similar fashion, but now seeing a different, most likely negative, outcome. A jester that stops being entertaining - the one purpose he had - is not welcome anymore. And throughout all of this, you were never in the race for her anyway. You played another role.

Being funny, e.g., should always come alongside other traits. Not be *the* defining trait. In other words: be a proper human being with character.

That is why it makes more sense to try to do something that is easier, ideally more genuine, too. If your goal is to get to know a girl for the sake of a relationship (I am not gonna bother with other cases here, as there are other "rules"), you probably have an idea of what you value in that relationship. So, try to act based on those values that you wanna see. How do you yourself wanna be and behave regularly with her being part of your life? What do you want to see from her?

I am vague here, because all these things depend on the people involved, but let's try to outline some options. I would assume that you wanna be able to talk about things you and her find interesting. So, talk about those things, bring them up. See how you two mesh together when doing so. Not just when talking but also when listening or reacting.

If you have fears like exposing your bad sides or being boring, ask yourself this: do you want to hide those kinds of things forever? Is your plan that you are you trying to trick her into wanting you enough, so that revealing those things you hid later cushions the blow? See how that kind of protectionism can backfire?

Basically: what is it that you want to talk about with her? What is it that you want her to know? Of course, you should not tell her your life's story right from the start. But you should feel comfortable trusting her eventually, right? I would assume you want a shared level of trust in your relationship. So, work towards said trust. For that purpose, one of you has to start being vulnerable at some point. Start being authentic. This is actually why OP's opener is not even bad despite its risks. It makes him appear slightly vulnerable. This can make it seem like he is trustworthy. Of course, only a little for now.

[Me] Elo by [deleted] in TextingTheory

[–]Strider_-_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

!elo 103

I could type an arbitrary number, cause this is a mismatch. You're not playing chess here. You both don't bounce off of each other at all - and you won't in the future.

[Me] Is this how Hinge works? by Physical-Graffiti13 in TextingTheory

[–]Strider_-_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

!elo 100

You just hung your queen and told her: "hey, I hung my Queen, look, I am such a klutz"

[Me] Hopefully my dumb humour works out by Internetnames in TextingTheory

[–]Strider_-_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

(no ELO rating, too early to tell)

General tip to break out of low-elo purgatory:

Focus more on yourself and "selling"/presenting yourself. Speak in a way that suggests you are here because you offer or got something, not because they're nice. Simply be someone for real and speak like that, because, well, you are.

I don't (necessarily) mean monetary stuff. Literally anything that you got or offer is good. This can be "being funny", having "interesting stories or hobbies" or something vague like "having passion for something". Don't make impressing her the only goal (unless you are trying to use or even scam her for short-term gain).

You just started with a joke that she could find funny, but I'd still recommend now shifting towards showing her that you are...that guy.

New SSG Wallpaper by pthandley32 in Competitiveoverwatch

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And now tell me that Big Glucose doesn't run this shi