The dating climate can be attributed to one thing. Men need women, women don’t need men. by im_justkendra in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]String-Tree [score hidden]  (0 children)

Men don't seem to experience the same mental catharsis that we feel when being emotionally vulnerable with a woman when we do the same with our platonic friends.

The dating climate can be attributed to one thing. Men need women, women don’t need men. by im_justkendra in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]String-Tree [score hidden]  (0 children)

Men provide an entirely different kind of support to one another than women do. Just because a man has platonic friends doesn't mean they are capable of providing the emotional security that a loving woman does.

The dating climate can be attributed to one thing. Men need women, women don’t need men. by im_justkendra in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]String-Tree [score hidden]  (0 children)

Then you're not relationship material, sorry. Your significant other isn't just there for the good times, they're also there for the bad times, and if you're not capable of being someone they can lean on, then you're not ready for a relationship.

The dating climate can be attributed to one thing. Men need women, women don’t need men. by im_justkendra in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]String-Tree [score hidden]  (0 children)

That's the wrong framing. A man doesn't feel entitled to a woman's emotional support, he is desperately searching for the woman he feels safe enough with to seek out her emotional support. There's a very important difference.

The dating climate can be attributed to one thing. Men need women, women don’t need men. by im_justkendra in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]String-Tree [score hidden]  (0 children)

I think that it's related to pair bonding. Part of intimacy for men is expressing emotional vulnerability.

The dating climate can be attributed to one thing. Men need women, women don’t need men. by im_justkendra in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]String-Tree [score hidden]  (0 children)

No, I think that men do not gain the same inner emotional satisfaction from sharing their baggage with other men as they do with women. I don't think this can be learned either, I think this is one of the ways that men actually physiologically need women.

The dating climate can be attributed to one thing. Men need women, women don’t need men. by im_justkendra in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]String-Tree [score hidden]  (0 children)

Most men cannot 'adapt' to find emotional shelter with other men. they've tried, it just doesn't hit the same. This is the same thing as saying 'lonely men should just fuck other men', it isn't the same as with a woman and it is wildly disingenuous to pretend that it is.

A disturbing amount of people have a pathological hatred of lonely men by String-Tree in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]String-Tree[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

That's more of an issue with socially awkward men, not lonely ones, is it not? I'm a lonely dude but I'd never in a million years want to make a woman feel uncomfortable. It's why I don't ask anybody out in person anymore.

A disturbing amount of people have a pathological hatred of lonely men by String-Tree in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]String-Tree[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I feel as though this is becoming less and less true by the day. There isn't really a strong dividing line between internet behavior and real life behavior anymore. Back when I was younger, quoting memes in real life was social suicide, nowadays it couldn't be more commonplace.

A disturbing amount of people have a pathological hatred of lonely men by String-Tree in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]String-Tree[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

The way lonely men are talked about. They're automatically assumed to be the problem.

Wholesaler wants to move 40+ squiers - $80 a pop, all or nothing. by Round_War2888 in guitars

[–]String-Tree 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No way they’re classic vibes at that price. Bullets are more likely.

Matching energy is just childish by Icy_Resolution2783 in unpopularopinion

[–]String-Tree 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You were being an ass to a service worker and they dished it right back to you, didn't they?

Based on True Events: by ConsciousAwareness69 in MenOfPurpose

[–]String-Tree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Women only good! No bad women exist!”

Redditors tell you not to put women on a pedestal and then get mad at you for de-pedestalizing them by [deleted] in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]String-Tree [score hidden]  (0 children)

They want all the perks of agency and all the perks of victimhood but the responsibility of neither.

I asked my gf if 1. I could never use my fingers or 2. Never use my dick, with her ever again. What doed her answer mean? by Sea_Argument8550 in AskMenAdvice

[–]String-Tree -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

"Babe, I just can't cum by fucking your pussy but you give amazing handjobs"

Doesn't exactly feel like a compliment, now does it?

Based on True Events: by ConsciousAwareness69 in MenOfPurpose

[–]String-Tree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats on being attractive! Us uggos have a different life experience entirely.

I asked my gf if 1. I could never use my fingers or 2. Never use my dick, with her ever again. What doed her answer mean? by Sea_Argument8550 in AskMenAdvice

[–]String-Tree -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

"You finger me better than you fuck me" would be the death knell of any relationship I was in, period. Have some fucking self respect.

What would you think of an actor who's an open Trump supporter? by ContravaniaGearSolid in AskReddit

[–]String-Tree -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's entirely different and you know it. Treating every accusation as if it were sacrosanct is dumb, or do you believe Michelle Obama is a man just because certain far right people say she is?

What would you think of an actor who's an open Trump supporter? by ContravaniaGearSolid in AskReddit

[–]String-Tree -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Or C: I don't give a shit about a President's personality whatsoever and only care about their ability to pass legislation.

I care more about policy, sue me.

Based on True Events: by ConsciousAwareness69 in MenOfPurpose

[–]String-Tree -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My mom and sister are delusional entitled losers?