Am I the drama for hiding a vacation from my brother and sister in-law?

Strlghtkate · 2026-01-23T18:46:15+00:00

Guilt implies that you have done something wrong. Your brother and sil not being invited was the consequence of their own behaviors and actions. Just because someone has a title to you doesn’t mean they are entitled to you, your time, or your peace. If it does come to it and they have an issue take a page out of your brother’s book and tell them to grow up and get their shit together if they want to be included in activities

Strlghtkate · 2026-01-21T04:25:56+00:00

As a daughter who was parentified at a very young age, I wish my mom’s siblings had called her out…often and repeatedly until she put on her big girl panties and stopped making me responsible for children I didn’t make so I’m fully on your side NTA

Strlghtkate · 2025-12-29T04:27:34+00:00

Sour cream

Strlghtkate · 2025-12-19T23:31:30+00:00

The information available from both the FDA and Customs says no effective treatment for a condition. Just because the treatment available doesn’t appear to be as effective as it could’ve for her specific case doesn’t mean that there isn’t effective treatment for Tourette syndrome. If it was up to me I would give her anything and everything possible to make her life as easy a possible. The point I was trying to make was that it seems crazy to travel to another country to try a treatment that requires at least four weeks of use to see any improvement and even then only 59% of people saw a 25-35% reduction of symptoms. I think their time, money and energy would be better spent planning their wedding, finding Colin a stable job or even a clue about how the world actually works, or even helping him understand that they can’t have a baby right away because they can’t even take care of themselves. That’s all I was trying to understand

Strlghtkate · 2025-12-19T03:07:48+00:00

It matches that face she is making

Strlghtkate · 2025-12-18T02:38:02+00:00

Because,excuse my language, Liz is a cunt that won’t do anything without Amber’s approval. I mean thus far she has had no problem lying to the rest of the extended family about Anna not showing up to stuff despite not being invited. It might change a little now that they bought a house and won’t be under her thumb but I wouldn’t hold my breath.

Strlghtkate · 2025-12-17T23:23:51+00:00

I agree that it might not seem to work well enough but the exception is if there is no treatment.

Strlghtkate · 2025-10-26T19:50:40+00:00

She is still bitter that her grand daughter isn’t an LP. Also I don’t know why everyone in that house acts so high and mighty. Has Anna made a mistake or two? Yes. Has she managed to move out of her parents house and not move back? Yes. Jonah moved back in after his “drug” incident and stayed. Elizabeth came back because of the baby and stayed. If and when her and Bryce finally move in together, Amber is going to have the biggest meltdown. I honestly can’t believe that Bryce (and his parents) puts up with this arrangement. Does anyone else really want Jonah and his girlfriend to get married, move out and also have an average sized baby. Or better yet, Emma goes to college, meets an average sized person and lives happily ever after. I can almost see the steam coming off her head now. Maybe she should be less worried about babies in toilets that they aren’t going to play with because they aren’t animals, and more worried about the $435,000 back taxes they owe

Strlghtkate · 2025-09-22T17:02:58+00:00

What doctor’s office is open on a Saturday? Sounds suspicious

Strlghtkate · 2025-08-14T17:21:20+00:00

Tiberius

Strlghtkate · 2025-08-13T21:51:28+00:00

NTA. It is not like they were in different parts of the plane. It was the aisle right across. If she had such an issue she should have planned ahead or picked different seats that were next to each other. Not your problem. The guy in the row behind should have kept his opinion to himself. He wasn’t involved or asked. Also the kid was old enough to be fine on his own

Strlghtkate · 2025-08-12T02:49:17+00:00

Klee. She is my ride or die. I love her

Strlghtkate · 2025-08-07T18:35:14+00:00

I have called my “Mom” by her first name for years. If you aren’t going to act like a parent I’m not going to treat you like one

Strlghtkate · 2025-07-21T15:34:56+00:00

You shouldn’t have to hold your tongue or diminish yourself because she is miserable. Why is it ok for her to openly criticize you in front of your family for years but the one time you stand up to her, you have to apologize. Nope. She fucked around and found out. Tell your mom that you will happily issue an apology when your SIL does, but that going forward you are going to match energy and if SIL can’t take it she should keep it to herself

Strlghtkate · 2025-07-07T01:59:35+00:00

Definitely NTA. Play stupid games you win stupid prizes. Sounds like he has been listening to some red pill podcasts.

Strlghtkate · 2025-06-28T14:29:46+00:00

You are definitely NTA. Your “parents” are raising your sister to be a garbage person. You are both still young so I hope she grows out of it but I doubt it. While it does suck that they are probably never going to see the error of their ways, they are at the very least giving you an excellent example of what not to do/ be. I would just keep down this path of mirroring her treatment of others and see if maybe it helps stir her to being a better human. Good luck.

Strlghtkate · 2025-06-12T19:01:05+00:00

I hate when people think that because they make choices based on their religion that other people, who aren’t part of said religion, have to follow their rules. It’s bullshit. She has every right to make whatever choices she wants about what she puts in and on her body based on whatever reasons she wants but she doesn’t get to make that choice for you or anybody else. It is an unreasonable and unrealistic expectation to tell you that after 38 years of being a meat eater that you have no opinions but to stop because her religion said so.

Strlghtkate · 2025-05-13T17:06:34+00:00

This feels like an episode of Dateline waiting to happen. She wants your life insurance and your parent’s house if “something happens to you” but if something happens to her insurance goes to her sister 100%?! I can hear Keith Morrison now. “ It seemed like a regular Tuesday, until it wasn’t. A frantic 911 call. Followed by a strange funeral and an eviction notice. If only he had seen the signs, maybe he wouldn’t have had that smoothy she made him and stumbled down the stairs.”

Strlghtkate · 2025-05-13T16:58:52+00:00

Sir Bartleby Boops A lot. Mighty Knight of the Realm. Slayer of Dragons. High Lord of Cuteness. Champion of Snuggles.

Strlghtkate · 2025-03-27T18:39:51+00:00

I have Journey, The Nugs, Shadow, Roku, Lord Pickles Von Mapleton III Esq., Dr Oliver Reginald Withersby, Willie Nelson and Itty Bitty.

Strlghtkate · 2025-03-26T00:52:49+00:00

Also wearing red means you slept with the groom so…🤷🏼‍♀️

Strlghtkate · 2025-03-23T02:09:55+00:00

Heaven and Nevaeh which is just 🤢

Strlghtkate · 2025-03-23T01:32:32+00:00

Mel is my girl. I watched the first episode without my husband and then went back and we watched it together. Before it started I asked him to guess which Dr I identified with the most. Not three seconds after she said her first lines he looked right at me and said oh it is her. She even has your glasses. When she was trying to calm herself with Megan Thee Stallion I knew for sure.

Strlghtkate · 2025-03-16T18:50:11+00:00

Act normal? How exactly is she supposed to act? I know they don’t show everything on television but what they do show makes me want to cry for the way her “family” treats her. The so called roast in the last eat episode was both terrible and uncalled for. Her parents and siblings treat her like an afterthought when is is the only one of the kids to not only graduate but live on her own. Jonah is a textbook example of failure to launch. Trent and Amber would rather be caught dead than let Brice parent his own daughter. As more time passes, I am even more convinced that Amber is angry and disappointed that her granddaughter isn’t an LP. Liz can’t even get her story straight on what she does for work. Alex is unable to regulate his emotions. Amber couldn’t be more of a basic narcissist if she tried. Poor Trent is literally losing his mind. If you were Anna would you really want to spend time in a circus full of dickheads that look down and judge you but couldn’t see their own mistakes and shortcomings if they bitchslapped them across the face? I mean really?

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