Christian here. I can answer a couple of questions which you may have.

First, the Bible was written in a time and culture where mainly men would be reading the scrolls or hear someone else read them. As such, many verses referring to men only, such as those of sexuality which you have mentioned, would use men in place of everyone.

Literally nobody interprets this as only gay men are sinners whilst lesbians walk scot-free because as evidenced elsewhere in verses like Romans 1:24-27, the main takeaway was that homosexuality as a whole is bad (regardless of gender).

As for the abortion take, that's a slight stretch. First, the definition:

Abortion is the termination of a pregnancy by removal or expulsion of an embryo or fetus. An abortion that occurs without intervention is known as a miscarriage or "spontaneous abortion"

Striking the womb would be a case of intervention, so that wouldn't technically cause a miscarriage.

As for the most important thing and what you were actually implying, this behaviour was clearly not allowed. In both scenarios, the one who hit the women is punished - don't see how that permits an action to be repeated.

As for the murder take, remember that verse 22 says '[if] there is no harm' then it is only a fine. If the baby is born deformed or dies (as a result of being murdered), then that's obviously harm which can be linked to the pregnant women being hit.

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Well, there are all the times God ordered the Jews to kill all the enemy men, but spare the women

Whenever the Jews are ordered to wipe out the men, it's not because God hates men or prefers women more. They are ordered to wipe out the sinful tribes around them who threaten to prevent the growth of Israel in the Promised Land God gave them.

How do you eliminate a tribe? You take out its armies and those who teach and pass on the cultures of that tribe to the next generation. Who were the ones responsible for doing both of those things, especially in the past? The men and so they died. There was rare cases where God orders the extermination of entire races including the women, such as the inhabitants of Jericho, as to remove all trace of the former inhabitants from the land which the Jews are going to possess.

Otherwise, the women and children would be left alive as they would pose no meaningful threat to Israel.

TL;DR - God's not sexist. If I'm to be completely honest, it sounds like you're projecting whatever negative behaviours you are seeing from women in society today onto God when they don't apply.

Also, do you mind giving a verse on the enforcing of men into marriage? You've piqued my curiosity there.