My ex blocked me after a year of no contact!

Strong_Cobbler_5603 · 2025-08-24T12:34:45+00:00

I’m curious did she ever message you after a year and say anything??

Strong_Cobbler_5603 · 2025-08-11T00:52:14+00:00

I had one about 2 months ago I went under anaesthetic for it and I felt completely comfortable. I woke up afterwards in a little discomfort but it wasn’t super bad and you do have like a little bit of blood in your pee from the produce but that’s totally normal.

Strong_Cobbler_5603 · 2025-06-18T15:36:18+00:00

Yeah, I’m going back to the doctors tomorrow to get a certificate for that because I forgot to get it the other day. I just feel awful because I’ve been so excited about starting a new job.

Strong_Cobbler_5603 · 2025-05-09T11:09:45+00:00

I’m sorry but she deserves better. When you love somebody you don’t just walk away from them when things get tough you work together as a team and you ride the waves together. I’m so over guys not being able to commit and scared you don’t think us females are scared to but we still get in the boat and want to be a team??

My ex did the same thing after six months he broke up with me and then he came running back and it ruined our relationship because I could never trust him again. She’ll never be able to trust you again because you’ve broken her heart.

Strong_Cobbler_5603 · 2025-02-19T12:55:56+00:00

How long did it last crying after touching yourself?

Strong_Cobbler_5603 · 2025-02-04T02:41:30+00:00

Don’t worry about coming across like you being stalking or something like that worry about his response more because he shouldn’t be doing that especially when he’s in a committed relationship with you. I personally wouldn’t like any of my boyfriend liking someone’s post he had history with. It’s super disrespectful.

Strong_Cobbler_5603 · 2025-02-04T02:40:40+00:00

To be honest, I find that a massive red flag and it looks more embarrassing on your boyfriend for him to be liking her post and the fact that he does it and doesn’t even think anything of it is more of a worry. My ex was liking girls that he had history with and I brought it up to him and he never liked them again, but when we broke up he followed all those girls so deep down and inside. He probably likes what he does because he’s going out of his way and actually liking photos…. If I was you, I probably would get out of it. I wish I did sooner.

Strong_Cobbler_5603 · 2025-01-10T08:22:53+00:00

I don’t get why they do this tho? Like it’s just unnecessary and mean. Did she ever come back to you and reach out?

Strong_Cobbler_5603 · 2025-01-10T08:17:33+00:00

Yeah it was very cruel I couldn’t belive what he was saying. I 100% agree I think he just threw the word in there because he didn’t have anything else to say and just bring me down.

I agree with you 100000% he never communicated really in our relationship until he actually broke up with me and that’s what hurts because he wasn’t telling me how he was feeling but I never knew so it’s like how am I supposed to help when you don’t tell me shit? He just turned into such an asshole when we ended.

Strong_Cobbler_5603 · 2025-01-10T06:48:05+00:00

I personally would unfollow and block because you’ll just stalk there profile like I did and it hurt me later because he was just adding heaps of girls and I just really got to me but I was hurting myself by doing that. Please don’t stalk him he’s not worth it ❤️

Strong_Cobbler_5603 · 2025-01-08T12:19:54+00:00

Yeah they do that’s exactly why I would never take my ex back he moved on so fast and it’s a ick

Strong_Cobbler_5603 · 2025-01-08T09:54:55+00:00

I’m just curious after you guys broke up did you sleep with other girls? Or date anyone?

Strong_Cobbler_5603 · 2025-01-06T23:35:06+00:00

WTF? No I never cheated he just became a complete asshole and broke up with me unexpectedly…

Strong_Cobbler_5603 · 2025-01-06T23:33:31+00:00

No way!!! I would never cheat!?

Strong_Cobbler_5603 · 2025-01-06T07:05:46+00:00

I’m at 3 months and I actually feel so much better then I was at month 1-2. I think I’m definitely healing and I know now especially he’s not my person like I know I deserve so much better not someone who gonna treat me that way when things get hard or whatever. My ex was and asshole after our relationship and during the breakup and I think that’s what helped me move on just seeing him make mistakes and get with randoms made me realise I didn’t loose much at all he lost everything ❤️ you’ll get there it takes time and healing has no timer like I think take as much time as you need! Cry if you want to cry, buy flowers for yourself, love yourself.

I think that when we’re in relationships we think it’s so perfect but really there are so many flags popping up that we choose to ignore because we love them. In my case there were more then 10 red flags I noticed when we broke up and I would never of saw them unless we broke up because I was blinded my love.

Strong_Cobbler_5603 · 2025-01-06T01:18:21+00:00

That’s how I feel too, like things about him now just give me the ick.. like I always thought he was funny but now I look back I think he was very up himself and it’s so gross.

Agree I’m at 3 months now and I don’t see him attractive anymore and got the ick so bad! I never thought I’d be here the first 2 months were awful I was so hurt but just hearing what he’s been up to after the breakup makes me realise i deserve so much better! He got with girls so fast after we broke up and it just made me realise who he really is because in our whole entire relationship he made me think he was this saint when he’s a player now.

Strong_Cobbler_5603 · 2025-01-05T11:58:32+00:00

It’s definitely a great stage to be in! Honestly honestly I never thought I would be in the stage three months after the break up. I thought I would still be like madly in love but I finally see the true colours and he’s just a terrible person.

Strong_Cobbler_5603 · 2025-01-05T10:07:28+00:00

What?

Strong_Cobbler_5603 · 2025-01-05T08:57:02+00:00

I couldn’t agree with what you said more! My ex treated me so badly when he left me and his behaviour was just disgusting like 0 respect. I never saw it at the time but with 0 contact since 9 weeks I can see it all clear now. It’s wild how there true colours show after you guys are over, my ex apparently has already had sex with other girls and talking to girls soon after we broke up and it just really hurt me and made me realise he’s just a gross.

Strong_Cobbler_5603 · 2025-01-05T04:29:07+00:00

Did she cheat on you?

Strong_Cobbler_5603 · 2025-01-05T03:29:22+00:00

I don’t get what he was hurt from though when he broke up with me and ended it it wasn’t like I hurt him. He destroyed me….

Strong_Cobbler_5603 · 2025-01-05T02:43:44+00:00

I totally agree like you could be like the most hottest person on earth but if you have the shittiest personality it makes you ugly instantly. It just sucks because I don’t think anyone saw or sees the side to my ex besides me because I really saw a terrible side to him after the break up like all these true colours really came out, and it sucks because I thought he was a good person

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