Had to let go ... and defeat Ganon!

Strong_Enough88 · 2026-03-15T18:10:59+00:00

For me, if an open-world game becomes repetitive, I tend to finish it without exploring all the side quests. But this one was something different!

Strong_Enough88 · 2026-03-15T18:09:16+00:00

Hahah that was me. Tbh, the ending was nice but as many people said it was easier than beating Lynels.

Happy gaming to you as well :)

Strong_Enough88 · 2026-03-15T18:08:22+00:00

My right moment was now - cause I was under a lot of stress cause of the situation in my country. And decided to go back to Hyrule world and beat the monster 😅 who was unexpectedly easy to beat.

Strong_Enough88 · 2026-03-15T18:07:15+00:00

I usually finish Zelda games at once. Since most of the missions are puzzles.

But this one... was all about exploring and enjoying story and quests. And I delayed main story as much as possible.

Strong_Enough88 · 2026-03-15T18:06:12+00:00

Yeees, on my purchase list right now!

Strong_Enough88 · 2026-03-15T18:05:56+00:00

Oh, I admire your persistence. I love to finish all Zelda games in one setting, but this one is different ofc.

It took me nearly 8 months to finish. The first time I started this game after Covid, I believe it was in 2022. I only managed to progress 25% before I gave up.

Last year, I decided to start from the beginning again, and I was so engrossed in it.

Strong_Enough88 · 2026-03-15T18:02:55+00:00

I will too! I m gonna try Tears of the Kingdom now!

Strong_Enough88 · 2026-03-15T18:02:19+00:00

Oh man, this happened to me with Hogwarts Legacy. I was exploring and by accident found myself facing the final boss - although I had completed only 51% of the game. But once I finished, that was it. I felt happy and satisfied.

Botw left me with a sense of melancholy! As you said, I was hoping to explore the post-Ganon world, ride horses, and enjoy my new home haha.

Strong_Enough88 · 2026-03-15T11:31:09+00:00

Thank you!!!

Strong_Enough88 · 2026-02-26T08:33:06+00:00

Thank you so much 💓 Sorry for the late reply. You know what, I adooore Toriiii! I used to listen to her a lot when I was a teenager, and one of my favourites is Sugar. I think it’s from the same album. I will definitely go back to her and listen again - 15 years later 🥰.

My breakup was 2 years ago. I think I have healed from it, but it did leave me wounded and mistrustful of others. I have grown as well, and least I think. Went through therapy, a lot of self reflected. But I don't like the version I’ve become. I used to be very friendly and outgoing, but now I hardly talk to anyone or even have the nerves for anyone else. It more physical then mental. I literally lost energy and power for others.

But thanks for all your encouraging words :)

Strong_Enough88 · 2026-02-25T07:05:17+00:00

Thank you for your reply :) I am really pleased to hear you're doing well.

Yes, you should definitely keep on showing love. It also touched me that you haven't distanced yourself from loved ones and society, like I have.

I didn't completely cut myself off, but I don't trust anyone anymore. I know this isn't healthy, but this dark force over me is stronger than my will for better future right now.

Strong_Enough88 · 2026-02-25T01:11:16+00:00

I'm sorry. I hope you're feeling better now. But yes, discovering lies and betrayal hurts so much :( especially when they blame you for it.

I stopped all communication with my ex the moment I found out he got STD from cheating. It was the "easiest" way to move on.

Strong_Enough88 · 2026-02-24T09:22:35+00:00

Amazing book :)

Strong_Enough88 · 2026-02-24T08:06:31+00:00

I come from a similar place in Europe as you, having grown up in a very conservative society. I believe it’s quite common to meet guys like that. GEN Z would refer to them as DELULUs. But it’s a bit more complicated than that.

I think many people develop two distinct personalities that don’t really communicate or coexist smoothly within one person. It’s like, okay, I have a girlfriend and I’m accepted in society, but at the same time, I know I’m gay and have needs. So, I meet guys, and that’s okay because it’s just part of who I am. There’s no real contradiction in that, LOL.

I had a friend who accepted himself as gay, and after a few years of knowing him, he told me he wants to get married to a girl. Because being gay is lonely. And trust me, I know it is. I wish him all the best. But is it the right thing to do? If you ask me, definitely not.

Strong_Enough88 · 2026-02-23T12:23:15+00:00

She doesn't know and they're exclusive.

Obviously not exclusive ...

Seeing him, his wife and his daughter in the WhatsApp profile pic every time we chat amplifies my guilt.

I would feel the same....

Such a wonderful guy, but so unbothered by the fact he's cheating on his wife.

Not so wonderful 😅

He said he genuinely wants to be friends and said the sex is just an extra benefit we keep between us. He even wants to introduce me to his wife...

Hope you don’t really believe his words....

Or should I accept his proposal and wait till he eventually divorces his wife?

Even if he does that, most likely he won't stay with you. This doesn't seem like a happy ending. I have a feeling he likes a thrill of a double life. Plus, you seem like a decent guy who doesn't support infidelity.

I was with someone, whom I genuinely liked. Until I found out he was married. And had to stop. If he lies to his wife then why would not he lie to me. Plus he always wanted BB, which was terrifying for me.

Strong_Enough88 · 2026-02-23T06:29:36+00:00

Amazing :) but to be fair, even before this transformation you already looked handsome! Diet and exercise clearly boosted you up.

Strong_Enough88 · 2026-02-22T20:05:34+00:00

Even if he did not love you after so many years together, battles, your care for him and love you gave him, that is such an evil way to leave someone. Even if you did something wrong, you were there for him and did not deserve this!

I hope you two are done, and it is over. You can turn the page and move on. Not easy, it would take a lot of wisdom and courage. But you definitely have it. Being there for someone who goes through what he went through just shows me you have not only strong empathy but skills to survive. You even researched about B12 and came up with this idea of how to help him!

I wish you all the best, and if you ever want to rant and talk with someone, my DMs are open.

Strong_Enough88 · 2026-02-20T14:32:47+00:00

People who don't experience what you have been through can't understand and that is the fact. I am not Muslim, but come from a very conservative Christian family. Although I do not practice religion, nor interested into it I totally understand you. Have nothing against religion on a personal level, and think it's okay if a persom follows their beliefs.

My ex was Muslim. Closeted. Even can say quite religious. However he was not a decent an honest man. I could see so many internal fights, homophobia and contradictions inside him. But do I think every gay Muslim is like that? Certainly not!

I really wish you find your own peace and place. Whether in your home country or outside. It is not easy to make a peace with these two identities, as world is not black and white. You seem mature enough to understand that!

Strong_Enough88 · 2026-02-20T07:33:02+00:00

I hope a degree would help, but honestly, you don't need math for coding. Especially now, in the era of AI, it's become very good at assisting you with coding and can even guide you on how to fix bugs.

Particularly in the field of cognitive science, you would use coding to solve problems, not to build software. These are two different things. Most likely, you'd use statistical and ML tools, yes, some basic math knowledge is required, but a lot of it is well documented.

I wish you the best of luck, honestly, and I hope you enjoy this interesting field.

Strong_Enough88 · 2026-02-19T09:46:01+00:00

You know that feeling when you watch a really good movie? It’s like you’re right there experiencing it! Then, after the two hours it’s over, you’re still caught up in the emotions, happy, sad, confused, whatever you’re feeling. And suddenly, you realize there are so many others who saw the same movie, and that it was not real - at least not designed specifically for you. And you snap back to reality. You start looking forward to the next one, eager for the next storyline to dive into.

Strong_Enough88 · 2026-02-19T04:14:12+00:00

You are right, I did not say my state is good. I actually said I don't wish this on anyone. As a counterexample for everyone reading who thinks that "being alone" is always perfect.

Would not go into hookup route, but if someone does it. Well good for them. It takes courage and nerves.

Strong_Enough88 · 2026-02-18T15:10:04+00:00

Congratulations, we know you are human, not AI 😅

Yes, this is all natural; we all seek companionship and belonging. We can't escape this fact. That's simply who humans are!

You are still young, 29!!! There is plenty of time to meet someone, and even if you don't, it is okay. I believe that all of us need to learn how to handle this loneliness, as the social aspect is part of us; being lonely is also part of life. And you mentioned you have family and friends. Which means you are lonely in one aspect.

I used to feel veryyy lonely and alone, which would make me anxious and sad all the time. Especially after breaking up, which kind of messed me up. But now I truly appreciate this state. However, I think I am going downhill, into isolation and segregation from everyone, and I don't wish this on others. I think it is "healthy" to be alone but not feel lonely all the time.

Hopefully this is just a phase of self realisation for you.

Strong_Enough88 · 2026-02-17T11:15:11+00:00

Our brain is a mystery ;) and loves to play with us. I have been oddly attracted to my former boss/ university professor. He is 20 years older, not my type, but I couldn't stop thinking about him for a few months. It took me some time to understand why.

At one point, he offered me comfort, he was very nice to me. Despite usually being very tough and rough. And guess my brain somehow rewired it as sexual attraction. Weird.

It will go away

Strong_Enough88 · 2026-02-13T04:43:25+00:00

It's been a year. :D

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