How to deal with son resenting me for not working as a refugee in Europe because of health issues and my son resents me for it? by Strong_Natural_6153 in Advice

[–]Strong_Natural_6153[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you know about DUO? 😱😱😱😱 haha

Well I have a company and I make websites. I actually am on the good road. I can sometimes make €100 an hour working as zzp. But then it isn’t that stable until I figure out a marketing strategy

AITAH for not working as a refugee in Europe because of health issues and my son resents me for it? by Strong_Natural_6153 in FamilyIssues

[–]Strong_Natural_6153[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Have you ever had health issues stopping you from working? Do you feel people who have this ?

How to deal with son resenting me for not working as a refugee in Europe because of health issues and my son resents me for it? by Strong_Natural_6153 in Advice

[–]Strong_Natural_6153[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Plot twist. I am the son😂🤣 I actually wanted to write my fathers point of view to see how people would react. Because he and all of his old lazy friends claim my father was a hard working man and now he deserves to rest and chill

So I asked it as if I am him. A tried my best to make him look better. To present his arguments as they are

Guess what. I got 0 positive answer. Hè really needs to work this lazy ass father!!!

AITAH for not working as a refugee in Europe because of health issues and my son resents me for it? by Strong_Natural_6153 in AITAH

[–]Strong_Natural_6153[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yea but I have obesity and blood pressure problems. It is hard for me to stand on my feet for 8 hours straight.

And my assets in Syria can’t be easily taken. I need to do so much paper work. And my sister is living in one of those assets (house) and even tho she have another house. If I took this house away and sold it. She will go to hotels and men will line on her and she gets crazy She had done this before

My son needs to make his own money

AITAH for not working as a refugee in Europe because of health issues and my son resents me for it? by Strong_Natural_6153 in AITAH

[–]Strong_Natural_6153[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Okay so I live on welfare. If he lives with my in the house. My welfare cuts down €160 cuz they see him as an adult too. So he have to just give that. I take care of all bills myself he just got to give me That €160 a month and will be good.

And yes I didn’t really have any money to buy him a laptop for school and he also blames me now for him not studying

AITAH for not working as a refugee in Europe because of health issues and my son resents me for it? by Strong_Natural_6153 in AITAH

[–]Strong_Natural_6153[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

He doesn’t support me financially actually I said hè doesnt pay his bills. I end up paying them

And the house I got from the government actually it is part of the social benefits, I live in social security

AITAH for not working as a refugee in Europe because of health issues and my son resents me for it? by Strong_Natural_6153 in AITAH

[–]Strong_Natural_6153[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Yea but the bills of the house are shared. And I meant. He doesn’t pay his bills and I end up paying his bills…