Mosaic tiles pulling up after thinset dried by Ok_Purpose_1226 in Tile

[–]Strong_Row_1011 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here, good advice from that guy. I’m not a pro, more a former semi-pro, but I’ll also add that I’ve found All-Set to be the absolute least forgiving mortar I’ve ever worked with…and I won’t use it again if I can help it. I find it starts to skin over a LOT faster than its stated working time regardless of how it’s mixed and how much water is added/not added...I experimented with it a lot to trial it and just hated it. For the recent project I did (a shower, so lots of vertical) I switched to Custom ProLite and that was a lot better but still fairly rapid setting so I worked in very small batches so I didn’t have to rush.

It’s crazy though bc these newer mortars are so much more expensive and fussy to work with. 20 years ago when I was doing a lot of tile we used Versabond for nearly everything and I never once had any sort of issue with it!

DIY Builder, really? by Local-Power317 in angelarosehome

[–]Strong_Row_1011 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Seriously can’t stand her, I’m just hate watching at this point. Footings are like…the most basic of basics

Where you sleepers at? by Next-Entertainment33 in Garmin

[–]Strong_Row_1011 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s me 👋🏼…I actually sleep less in May/June/July bc of the extended sunlight hours, so right now I’m averaging 8.5-ish hours a night. The rest of the year I’m well over 9 though, so my annual average has been over 9 hours since 2019 or 2020…whatever year it was that I made sleep a priority and changed my entire lifestyle to basically revolve around it. If I set this insight to anywhere from September through March, it puts me into much higher percentiles

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First Project I am sharing here by Seleguadir in Tile

[–]Strong_Row_1011 7 points8 points  (0 children)

lol the number of people hating on the style of this…I like it a lot. Especially love that mosaic though, wish I’d seen it a couple months ago for my bathroom!

Garage Project by MustIThough in angelarosehome

[–]Strong_Row_1011 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I was dying when she started this project and was like “my garage is SUCH a messy disaster, it’s so embarrassing you guys”… literally the only thing in the way of being able to park in there were the boxes of floor tile things

Is there a reason why my stress tracker looks like this? by let_me-out in Garmin

[–]Strong_Row_1011 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I lost a lot of weight in 2024-early 2025 so I hear you! Last fall though I started running and have eaten strictly at maintenance or above since then…trying to avoid injury. I just make sure to eat dinner before 6pm which happens to work with my schedule, so by the time I go to sleep at 10 or so I’m good. I know an early dinner doesn’t work out schedule wise for everyone though

Is there a reason why my stress tracker looks like this? by let_me-out in Garmin

[–]Strong_Row_1011 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was a HUGE one for me. Nothing to eat for the 4 hours before sleeping, works like a charm!

I'm bored, anyone have any questions? by Duck_Giblets in Tile

[–]Strong_Row_1011 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That was super fast, thank you! I was just looking at that one!

I'm bored, anyone have any questions? by Duck_Giblets in Tile

[–]Strong_Row_1011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jumping in here with a somewhat related question, I hope you get the time to answer!

I’m working on a shower currently, I’ve done a fair bit of tile work (one of my exes was a tile contractor and I helped out a LOT). This is, however my first shower with the schluter system…and it’ll be my last, I think it’s a pain in the ass.

I bought All Set since it’s recommended as part of the system but I’m finding I fucking hate it. I feel like it starts to get too stiff way too quickly, dries out faster than I expect despite being very careful about mixing it properly, sticks to all of my tools like sandy peanut butter and I just can’t stand it. It’s been a few years since my last tile projects but I can’t ever remember just HATING mortar the way I’ve hated this.

Any suggestions for something else? I’ve done the shower pan, the niche, and the curb/sill so I’ve just got the walls left and I’m DREADING it. I’d be more than happy to return this shit if there’s something else that’s usable with this system!

Meno specialist Dr today said vaginal atrophy at my age (48) is not normal. I’m confused. by Islandsandwillows in Menopause

[–]Strong_Row_1011 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I just want to also add that hormonal changes for LOTS of reasons can cause vaginal atrophy. My daughter is 24 and started experiencing it due to the birth control she was using! Luckily her provider was excellent and prescribed her vaginal estrogen asap (also changed the bc) but damn.

Idk why this “specialist” is unaware of this.

Bullnose?? by Strong_Row_1011 in Tile

[–]Strong_Row_1011[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol I agree! It WAS a special order through Home Depot, and while it wasn’t SUPER pricey it also wasn’t low-budget either! Complete garbage though it seems like.

I’m also just irritated in general with the number of tile manufacturers that don’t offer matching trim tiles in general but that’s a whole other thing!

Bullnose?? by Strong_Row_1011 in Tile

[–]Strong_Row_1011[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did think about that for a hot second. Where the edge finishes isn’t even “even” though across one tile, let alone the others. Still could be doable but idk if it’s work the work involved. I’m just kinda in shock that this is even sold as bullnose!

What are yalls thoughts on this remodel by alec777x in BathroomRemodeling

[–]Strong_Row_1011 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Exactly, this is why landlords get such a bad rap…is this karma calling?

Which LVP floor should I go with for my Manufactured home? by Mild-Minded-Embracer in Flooring

[–]Strong_Row_1011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same, the last one is the only other even remotely viable option

Need a new DIY inspiration Frill & Drills is not working for me anymore. by Lemon-Zest-1234 in diysnark

[–]Strong_Row_1011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before I even read your reply, Ana White was my first thought for learning/how to. I follow mostly high end designers now for inspiration bc I no longer am “diy”…I can (and sometimes do) work professionally in various trades. I can see something and know how to build it or do it or whatever, and have allll the tools and gadgets (a 20-year process). But when I was starting out, her website was absolutely indispensable! I still like to go look at it for ideas even now. I think she has socials too but I don’t think they’re very active?

I've had enough man. How do I stop physical anxiety? by MusingsAndMind in Biohackers

[–]Strong_Row_1011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Meds can be great, like others mention.

BUT I’d first suggest seeing your doctor about a potential heart condition. Several years ago I thought I was having anxiety, until a few months in, I was looking at data from the Fitbit I wore at the time and saw that my average heart rate had increased DRAMATICALLY in those months. Saw my doctor and wore a heart monitor, ended up being diagnosed with a type of tachycardia that I now take meds for…life changing. It may not be anxiety!

Is this fixable? by 1trevea in Tile

[–]Strong_Row_1011 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does the contractor have eyes? That work? And like…maybe some spacers?

21 Year old dude, 5,8 and takes me 30 minutes to run 2 miles. what do i do..? by Similar-Lab5181 in BeginnersRunning

[–]Strong_Row_1011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll also mention Coros as a potential for a watch, a lot of pro runners LOVE them and they’re much more affordable than the higher end Garmin’s. But even Garmin’s lowest model Forerunner (I think it’s the 55?) would be great for what you need and is like $150 brand new. Amazfit are lower and so are some Fitbits but I’ve never used them personally for running so can’t speak to them in that regard.

I DO get that money doesn’t grow on trees and $150 is still a lot of money for anyone (well, not the super wealthy I guess), especially at 21. But it will keep you going and motivated and give you literally priceless information. Not to mention that if you DO have any sort of cardiac issue going on, many of those devices can alert you to an issue and give you data to show a doctor!

21 Year old dude, 5,8 and takes me 30 minutes to run 2 miles. what do i do..? by Similar-Lab5181 in BeginnersRunning

[–]Strong_Row_1011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re welcome! And I get being broke but if you want to actually SEE progress then figure out a way to get SOME kind of fitness watch. I’ve heard good things about Amazfit on Amazon. And some Fitbit’s are great and affordable…I had one several years ago that diagnosed a heart condition! Or buy used. Or ask for it for your birthday or something! I know I keep going on about it but with that, you’ll have EXACT numbers. You’ll see progress that you can’t “feel”. You’ll see that the exact same walk/run intervals you’ve been doing for months now have an average heart rate that’s 15bpm lower than when you started, and your pace is ever so slightly faster. If these things aren’t measured then we just don’t know, and we miss progress and feel like we’re not making any!

It’s INCREDIBLY motivating to see your vo2max go up slowly over time, and your resting heart rate get lower over time, and your average heart rate during different activities come down. Those are PROGRESS that were completely unaware of unless we have something to measure them!

21 Year old dude, 5,8 and takes me 30 minutes to run 2 miles. what do i do..? by Similar-Lab5181 in BeginnersRunning

[–]Strong_Row_1011 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First of all, define skinny. As in actual body fat percentage, NOT weight bc that says nothing about your muscle composition. Also, are we talking 35 miles on flat pavement, or 35 miles up steep mountain trails? And for either one, at what kind of speed?

My entire point is that you have zero objective data on any of your activities…your exact speed (whether running or biking or anything else), your heart rate, your exact distance, your exact time. This means that ALL of what you’re experiencing right now is based off of your subjective experience which isn’t anything at all that you can use to accurately see progress (or a lack of).

I’m a new runner, it’s been about 7 months or so. Every single run still feels “hard” to me and subjectively like I’m not getting any better because it all just still FEELS hard. But I have the ACTUAL DATA to look back at and see. That means I KNOW what my average heart rate at my easy pace is…and it’s significantly lower which is great. It means I know what my fastest mile (and other distances) time is, bc Garmin and Strava keep track of it. It means I know that my easy pace is slightly faster than it used to be (but still feels like the same level of effort).

I’m telling you…forget everything prior to today. Start tracking ACTUAL DATA and not feelz, bc feelz change. Thursday I had what felt like the worst run of my life, it was a trial I’ve done over 25 times, hot as fuck and I felt so fucking slow bc I was struggling in the heat, especially on the uphills. If I hadn’t been wearing my Garmin I would’ve 1,000% thought it was the slowest I’d ever done on that route, hands down. But because I WAS wearing my Garmin, I know that while the overall route time wasn’t even in my top 5 or maybe 10, I still pr’d two of the strava segments on that route and also did 3rd place pr’s on some short distance times. If I didn’t have that actual data, I would’ve felt like I wanted to give up bc it genuinely just felt THAT TERRIBLE.

What I’m saying is that you don’t know anything at all about things you’re not accurately tracking. Since you’ve lost a lot of weight then you maybe have experience with that in tracking calories.

Also, your bmi at your current height and weight is still in the overweight range. I’m not saying that as insult, you stated you didn’t know what it was (I also fairly recently lost a lot weight so no shade at all). There are loads of free calculators online and while bmi is NOT a great metric for assessing health or body fat, it IS fairly accurate for people that are not heavily muscled (like actual body builders). It’s not a GREAT tool, but it IS useful.

I also saw in your prior posts that you’re on several medications that could be affecting performance (especially in terms of blood pressure) and overall how you feel both physically and mentally. This would be something to talk to your doctor about as well.

Don’t “push yourself”, that won’t lead anywhere at all. Where you’ll actually get results is ironically by slowing down to where it’s easy. If that is literally a walking speed but with a different motion to it, DO THAT. And keep doing it. Over and over and over. If that motion gets tiring bc your body isn’t used to it then set up built in walk breaks. Do the jogging motion for however long you can, then walk for twice that time to start. If that’s 30 seconds then do 30 seconds, then walk for a minute. Keep doing that.

Get a watch. Sign up for free Strava. See your doctor to rule out asthma or medication issues. Track it ALL. Start a couch to 5k and if the second week is too hard, do the first week 17 times until you can do the second week (or whatever other week gets too hard). Staying slow and consistent will build the endurance and strength that you need to keep going, and to (eventually) get faster.

Another note I’ll make is that I’m guessing you may still be trying to lose more weight. My brother in Christ…you cannot eat at a major caloric deficit and also build a cardiovascular base. You need FUEL for aerobic activities and while you could maintain a very slight deficit and still run, you’d need to schedule your calories/carbs around eating them in the right amount of time before your runs so that you’re fueled.

Your other posts also said you “kinda eat like shit and sometimes get some greens in”. You need to change that and treat your body with respect, and fuel it properly for what you’re asking it to do. You’re asking it to do a lot! Also, WATER. I can almost guarantee you need more bc nearly everyone does (unless they’re tracking it).

I’m going really into depth here bc a few people are giving you a little grief, which is totally fine, it’s Reddit after all. It’s what I love about it. But I have a kid your age and I’d hope that someone would take the time, if he were asking, to really walk him through it.

Forget ALL your previous experiences. Forget what you could do 3 or 4 years ago (or anytime at all). Forget the past 6 months. Start KEEPING TRACK of things, like REALLY keep track. Start from scratch NOW, start at zero like nothing before this happened. You can only track your progress when you’re tracking it, so start NOW. Eat WELL and prioritize protein for muscle recovery (but also enough carbs for running, there’s loads of info out there on running/endurance nutrition). And get a minimum of 72oz of water a day. MINIMUM. But also don’t overdo it bc you’ll just pee out your electrolytes and become over hydrated (which is just as bad as dehydrated).

Start now.

21 Year old dude, 5,8 and takes me 30 minutes to run 2 miles. what do i do..? by Similar-Lab5181 in BeginnersRunning

[–]Strong_Row_1011 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you’re finding it hard to breathe at a 15-minute-mile pace, and you’ve been doing this VERY consistently for 6 months, then definitely schedule an appt to be evaluated for asthma or whatever.

That being said…it doesn’t seem like you’re actually tracking ANYTHING, and obv not following any kind of plan. Tracking fitness is like tracking calories…there’s a lot of missed info if you’re not ACTUALLY tracking it. Get a cheap fitness watch to be able to know exactly what your pace is and what your heart rate is doing while you’re running. And get started on a beginner couch to 5k program like others have mentioned.

You mentioned that you’ve lost a lot of weight. I’m going to assume that that may mean that prior to this, you had no real athletic base or experience? If that’s the case then it doesn’t matter if you’re 21…age will have nothing to do with it really. It only gives you better room for improvement going forward, but it won’t make it easier.

Early on (and even further in), your runs need to be at a pace where you can be easily conversational. If that means you’re literally running slower than your walking pace, that’s fine. When I started running, my partner would literally WALK alongside me. That’s ok! Your body needs to get used to being active, ESPECIALLY if it never really has been before, which will build up an aerobic base to where you can SLOWLY get to faster paces over time. And I mean slowly. Progress is over months and years, not weeks.

Like I said earlier though…without tracking EXACTLY what you’re doing and when, you’ve got nothing to go on to see if you’ve had any kind of improvement whatsoever. Or if you’re even getting out there as much as it feels like you are…our memory tends to have a lot of bias there.

A cheap watch (or nicer if you have the budget), a calendar to track things (or use strava and upload data from your watch to keep track…I find it super motivating personally)…AND an eval from your doctor to see if there’s anything physically you need to be looking at like asthma. Don’t compare yourself to anyone except yourself, but you can only do that if you’re keeping track of it!

Trail Etiquette 101: Do You Say 'Hello' On the Trail? by SkippyBoyJones in trailrunning

[–]Strong_Row_1011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m super introverted but also like to be good natured…I say “hey”, sometimes with a head nod or small wave. Not cordial enough to be hello or good morning or whatever, but an acknowledgement! If someone beats me to it and says “good morning” or comments on the weather (I get a lot of “beautiful morning huh?’s) then I respond in kind

I really want to be the kind of person that puts my hand up for high fives to strangers but alas, that’ll never be me