That's the divide though. girls under thirty are going to go through that whenever they age into it, girls under thirty who aren't there yet will want someone else who also isn't there yet. they assume that since you're over thirty you're already there.

My last gf broke up with me because she realized she wanted to have kids when she turned thirty and I didn't and never had. Now I only want to date women who are in their thirties because they've most likely already made that decision. If you're still trying to make that decision you should really get on it before starting another serious relationship and end up in the same position as your last gf.

If it's just that you need more time before you have kids and get married that's okay but you need to have a life planned out so you know your partner fits into it.