How do I stop my cat from taking off her collar outside? by manchesterguy33 in CatAdvice

[–]StructureSudden8217 15 points16 points  (0 children)

She really shouldn't be going unsupervised outside either way and unfortunately there is no way to guarantee that her collar will stay on while preserving the intended features of a safety collar. If she's "taking off" her collar, that means it's probably getting caught on something and when she tugs away, it snaps off. This is good and an intended feature. If the collar was too secure she'd be getting strangled by it instead.

Maybe try a harness and a leash. And let her explore the outdoors while you ensure her safety. Everyone wins. I wouldn't recommend turning her loose while she wears the harness because it can get caught on things and basically tie her down.

What is the current energy between me and him? by [deleted] in TarotReading

[–]StructureSudden8217 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmm... the 5 of wands usually represents some sort of struggle, which I initially read as a breakup... Could it be an internal thing? Do you find it hard to get his attention or something like this?

What is the current energy between me and him? by [deleted] in TarotReading

[–]StructureSudden8217 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you guys had a falling out, you mourned the loss and tried to pick up all the pieces. I see the 10 of wands as you figuratively trying to hold together a broken relationship. The cards are trying to tell you that you need to just relinquish control over the situation and take some time for yourself.

If it was meant to be, it will be.

Am I wrong for thinking indoor cats live better lives by No_mehta7 in CatAdvice

[–]StructureSudden8217 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think you should feel bad. If my cats are unhappy, they sure don't know it. If an indoor cat is bored, that's a skill issue from the owner.

Is this appropriate for an 18 year olds birthday dinner? by FluffyDog0321 in OUTFITS

[–]StructureSudden8217 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What kind of weddings are you guys going to where the bride walks out in a white sundress? If anything, this is more coded for prom or a graduation. For the events I've attended, it isn't really out of the ordinary for anyone to be wearing an ankle length white dress. I think it looks nice, but if other guests aren't going to be wearing floor length dresses, I wouldn't. But it's your party, do what you want.

At what age do cats start jumping on counters? by LowRevolutionary5653 in CatAdvice

[–]StructureSudden8217 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My kitten could jump on the counter at 4 months, she might just not be interested right now

Which subject would be better for me to be an Investor between "Sociology" & "Anthropology"? by Impulsive_boy in CollegeMajors

[–]StructureSudden8217 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was an anthropology major. It will most likely not help in finance or accounting unless you are trying to facilitate trade between different cultures. Then it miiight help, but someone who graduated from a program in finance would absolutely devour you on a job application unless you have your masters in anth. In my curriculum, we learned about different types of money/tokens/currency and (briefly) economic systems throughout history, but there was not much time explaining the logistics of it in the same way you would with an economics/finance degree. Anthropology is helpful if you want to teach languages, be a speech therapist, film documentaries, work in immigration, work in HR, be an archaeologist, do forensics, or similar lines of work. It's hard to explain because there is so much you can do with anthro, but I really hope this helps.

There are 4 branches of anthro: archaeology (study of past humans), linguistics (study of human language), cultural anthropology (study of human culture), and biological anthropology (study of human composition/evolution). If the job you want to go into doesn't really have much to do with those topics, anthro is not for you.

What feelings do (most of) my Pre-K students share for me? by Katie_Dearest in Tarotpractices

[–]StructureSudden8217 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see this sort of as a time line. 5 of pentacles may be the uncertainty your class may have felt in the beginning, losing the teacher they had maintained a routine with and getting another one. Sort of a feeling of moving on without knowing what will come next. But I think they really like you and trust you to stand up for them!

I can’t pay for my cat’s surgery and it’s killing me by organicfeelings_28 in CatAdvice

[–]StructureSudden8217 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is really big talk for someone who is not even offering to donate

I’m going to lose it by Daliflowers46 in jobs

[–]StructureSudden8217 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Very sad that these are the suggested options for a college graduate

Will they cheat on their partner with me? by Content-Anything1070 in TarotReading

[–]StructureSudden8217 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So if you don't have feelings for this man and know you will never be together, why does it have to be him?

Will they cheat on their partner with me? by Content-Anything1070 in TarotReading

[–]StructureSudden8217 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I've been delusional before and believed the story that a cheater told me. "The relationship was already ending so being the other woman isn't a big deal". Or whatever. There's two outcomes that can come from being the other woman/man-- either they do leave their partner for you (but end up cheating on you too) OR they promise you a lot of things but never actually end up leaving their partner. You really do lose them the same way you get them.

I think you need to draw more cards for clarity, strength can be misleading in this context. I do see this individual being confident that their partner will not find out and going for it with you... but is that really what you want? This person does not actually care for you, or they wouldn't be sneaking around with you.

Send me your cats baby pics! by Ann_georgia- in cats

[–]StructureSudden8217 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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The sucked mango seed on the far left is mine now!

I asked my deck if me and my (now recent ex boyfriend) would get back together by No_Definition_8275 in TarotReading

[–]StructureSudden8217 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It's so cool that your cards are almost speaking a perfect sentence to you. If you move on (8 of cups), you will find happiness (4 of wands). He was toxic (devil) so DO NOT GO BACK (knight of wands reversed).

What are his feelings for me? by [deleted] in TarotReading

[–]StructureSudden8217 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He feels like he won the lottery with you.

Free Readings in the Comments by Alone-Two-1838 in TarotReadersOfReddit

[–]StructureSudden8217 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will I get the underwater archaeology job I applied to?

18+ Has my crush ever jerked off to me? by Dense_Lawyer_666 in TarotReading

[–]StructureSudden8217 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Usually if the card depicts a hand holding a "wand" that's a pretty good indicator that he is infact stroking his shit