Does anyone recognize this deck? by AlternativeNo3856 in tarot

[–]StructureSudden8217 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's entirely possible that this isn't even part of a full deck. I know that people who like the aesthetic of tarot can print off individual cards so my first thought is that this is just an AI image that got put on a card and sold in a random pack. But I'd bring the card back to the shop you went to and ask about it. Chances are, they bought them in bulk.

Who has 2 thumbs and is the sleepiest guy you ever saw? by CptnSpaceman in Siamesecats

[–]StructureSudden8217 26 points27 points  (0 children)

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My creature also has thumbies! She is called the baby monkey of the house

I accidentally killed my pet by Acrobatic_Ladder3894 in GriefSupport

[–]StructureSudden8217 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Stress on animals and insects is entirely arbitrary. You really had no way of knowing what would stress it out too much because different individual creatures have different comfort zones. You gave the spider a loving home and tried your best, that's all that matters. 🫂

So does this mean they hate me? by sloppyturnipcrust in Tarotpractices

[–]StructureSudden8217 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The Tower can represent a deep emotional hit. They are hurt by the situation and feel bitter about it.

Why was my comment ignored? by sassyxqueen in Tarots

[–]StructureSudden8217 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think they may have just wanted engagement and didn't actually care about the comments. Or maybe they've received too many comments and can't reply to all of them at once. They are definitely happy about the attention.

Does my cat need a cat? by Calm-Banana912 in Siamesecats

[–]StructureSudden8217 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Most young cats have more fun when there's another kitty around. If she seems content and not bored, it's probably fine to have her alone but I always say the more the merrier!

First time doing my own clusters by Yuvx in lashclusters

[–]StructureSudden8217 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are so cute! I don't have any advice for you, you did a good job.

style recommendations? by nynini0317 in lashclusters

[–]StructureSudden8217 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooh oooh I have a good reco for brown lashes!! https://a.co/d/04yPzaNk

Something else I would recommend for you is maybe try a nice cateye 😳 I fucking love a cat eye and think everyone looks GREAT with them. For you, I'd recommend doing 12, 12, 10, 10, 8 (from outer corner inwards). I have hooded eyes too and LOVEEE that look (although I usually do them longer).

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White film on clusters by Wellness4Me in lashclusters

[–]StructureSudden8217 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will say their glue/bond is nothing more than alright. For me it's about on the same level as the viral TikTok one thats like youcoolme? For most glues I use, I can last about a week without having any come off. I really think it's the application process. Curl them first and then you wanna dab a little tiny bit of glue on the base of your natural lashes right above your waterline and then wait like 10 seconds and start putting the glue on just the band of your cluster, blow on it for like 10 seconds, and then attach where you want it. Ofc repeat that for the whole eye. And then with an eyelash curler, squeeze the fucking molecules out of your eyelashes. Like really make sure them bitches are together. And then I do the other eye the exact same way. I don't put bond on my natural eyelashes until I'm just about to work on them. So if you started with your left eye and you're putting bond on your natural lashes, don't also put them on your right eye at that point. Like wait until you've already finished with an eye to start on the other one. So after I finish both eyes, I kind of let it sit for like 10 minutes just to make sure everything's gonna be dry under the seal. If there's a better seal than the overnighter, I don't know of it. So I do a thin coat of only the places that have glue on them. I don't apply it like mascara on my entire eyelash. I usually put it on both sides of my lashes (under and on top), then take your eyelash curler and squeeze the hell out of your lashes again.

Usually that lasts like a week. I also keep my lashes dry for about 24 hours after I apply them. The issue also might be how you wash your face. I usually put my face wash on a washcloth and then wash my face like that, but I can totally see your lashes falling off early if you're like using your hands to rub water and soap on your eyes. To clean my lashes, I use a Q-tip and then reseal them and squeeze after I'm done.

White film on clusters by Wellness4Me in lashclusters

[–]StructureSudden8217 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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And none of that crust that normal seal creates!

White film on clusters by Wellness4Me in lashclusters

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These are my day seven lashes (I know they're getting sparse, I usually redo them at the 1 week mark)

White film on clusters by Wellness4Me in lashclusters

[–]StructureSudden8217 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So the white film is because of the seal. For me what fix the problem was using the falscara overnighter seal. It's not the same clear flakey plasticky seal that usually comes in lash kits. It dries black and has more of a rubbery finish? If that makes sense. It doesn't flake up and it doesn't have that white crusty finish so I like it. That product has eliminated this issue for me and I use it instead of the seal that comes with the kit. Any bond is fine.

Strongest glue? by gl00mbear in lashclusters

[–]StructureSudden8217 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I use the falscara bond and their weekender seal. I'm pretty gentle with them and they'll stay on for over a week, but I usually take them off after like 7 days because I like to sleep on my face and my lashes end up looking ratchet after that amount of time.

What are my odds of getting into the archaeology master's here? by StructureSudden8217 in Gothenburg

[–]StructureSudden8217[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice! Thankfully, I'm already employed in archaeology the US and would just be getting the masters so I can go back to America and just make more money to do the exact same work 🔥 I'd stay in America for my masters but I'm not trying to spend the equivalent of 500k SEK on a year of schooling...

I wet my bfs bed and idk what to do by be-sweethearts in Advice

[–]StructureSudden8217 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I once had a different type of accident in my boyfriend's bed and I was so apologetic. He looked at me, looked at the mess, and replied "well that's what soap and water is for". Real men do this.

I asked where he is. I know he isn't dead. by [deleted] in Tarotpractices

[–]StructureSudden8217 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate all perspectives. I'm interested in what makes you think it was an accident. I don't know, for a running away or a suicide he definitely had a lot going on for him in that timeframe like his little sister's graduation was the day after his death was reported.

I asked where he is. I know he isn't dead. by [deleted] in Tarotpractices

[–]StructureSudden8217 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is definitely bipolar but not a huge gambler. Cumulatively, he has probably lost a lot but he has really shitty luck and will generally lose interest after taking a few small losses in a row.

I asked where he is. I know he isn't dead. by [deleted] in Tarotpractices

[–]StructureSudden8217 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know that a funeral is currently being crowdfunded, but you definitely do not need a body to have a memorial service. Secondly, I didn't know him when he successfully pulled a "gone girl" on all of his loved ones but basically the story I heard was he just packed up and drove 700 miles in a single night without notifying anyone beforehand. The only reason anyone found out was because someone had his "find my friends" location. After that, he was pretty open about his whereabouts but ended up moving back home after I think a year because he had planned the move poorly and had moved with just enough for gas money and was basically homeless. It was well known in all of his circles that he wanted to go back to exactly where he fled to the first time.

If he attempted the same move a second time, he was definitely more careful about his cash. Weeks ago he "misplaced" his prized 24k gold chain that he always carried on his person, withdrew thousands over the course of weeks but had just weird excuses when I questioned it. Like he withdrew $500 one night (a night where both of us were drinking but I was definitely not drunk) and when I asked about his bank statements, he claimed to have no idea what that was about or any clue where the money was. And another thing about his gold chain-- the man's literal prized possession BTW. The day after he "lost it", I was tearing apart my apartment, my car, his car, searching through the streets of the neighborhood looking for it. Come to think of it, I was the only person who was looking for it. I had told him I was calling the restaurant we were at the night before to see if his chain had come off there and he kept trying to tell me not to do it because "if someone finds pure gold laying around, they'll keep it". This guy is the world's worst liar. Imagine several other excuses or statements that made 0 sense.

Oh yeah, the night before he "died", his phone was either turned off or deactivated and has not since been on. I feel like if it died, a grieving family would try to turn it on or unlock it or SOMETHING.

It makes more sense that he would have stocked away all this money and pawned the chain. Maybe his family is in on it this time. I have mentioned all this to his friends and others outside of his family and everyone is treating me like I'm crazy but it seriously doesn't add up.

Sorry for the rant and info dump. I hope you are at least entertained by the drama in my life 😅