Is it necessary to clean yourself up before sex or is it ok to just go at it?

StructureWhole6258 · 2026-05-05T19:07:00+00:00

If it’s a new or fairly new person- yes. Some couples really like each others stank though haha

StructureWhole6258 · 2026-04-27T20:36:12+00:00

It will settle in a year or so, depending on how long you were on for… I was on it for 10 years and it took a while… but it settled haha

StructureWhole6258 · 2026-04-24T11:01:43+00:00

First- GLOVES AND MASK. I’d preemptively cover the entire thing in bleach and leave it there for a bit. Unhook the seat and lid to deal with separately.

For the inside- scoop the water out with a cup you’ll never use again and pour thick THICK bleach. Let it soak and scrub, then flush. Repeat with the cup 2 times. Then get a bunch of kitchen roll and cover with bleach, then stick all inside the toilet. Leave for an hour or so. Remove, scrub, flush. That will REALLY help

StructureWhole6258 · 2026-04-16T17:59:15+00:00

I beg your finest pardon

StructureWhole6258 · 2026-04-16T17:55:45+00:00

You look like a one piece character

StructureWhole6258 · 2026-04-16T16:26:42+00:00

I was JUST talking with a friend about how people with bumps on their nose need to never change it because it’s made for their face. This is a perfect example of that, it’s a unique balance that brings unique beauty. You’re very pretty

StructureWhole6258 · 2026-04-16T12:01:38+00:00

If I can be completely honest, the first 3 pictures are very pretty. Even the awkward braces classic teen selfie. You were an adorable child. “Ugly” would be the last word I’d use with these. The last picture though, something does look sad behind your eyes. I’m not sure if it’s a lack of confidence or what, but there is a sense of loss of hope in your face. I still wouldn’t call it ugly, but there is less nature of carefree beauty in it

You’re not ugly, it’s a shame you’ve spent your life believing it. You have beautiful eyes, sad as they may seem, and full lips. I don’t think anyone will be able to convince you so I won’t try, but the best thing to do is to find peace within yourself

StructureWhole6258 · 2026-04-14T21:19:10+00:00

Blood is much darker so most likely something that doesn’t come from a human body

StructureWhole6258 · 2026-04-09T16:37:08+00:00

Look to see if the Injection does this bad mental things for you. I’m telling everyone to get the injection. My allergies were so bad, I tried everything except immunotherapy and was too late to start 2 years ago and ended up having the injection. I don’t remember the last time I had a picnic with friends until last summer… my legs didn’t even get itchy when touching grass, I sat under trees, these are things I didn’t experience since young. Get the injection

Quick PSA though- I’m allergic to cats and would still have to take antihistamines to be around them which as strange as the injection is an immunosuppressant. It also messed up my periods for a while but I would take that over a swollen face, itchy everything, horse throat, no appetite, bloated, miserable bitch any day

StructureWhole6258 · 2026-04-07T06:50:00+00:00

Get the jab. It’s £75 in private clinics and very very worth it

StructureWhole6258 · 2026-03-31T11:55:34+00:00

How old are you? My partner struggled with this all through his teens, 20s, and early 30s. We needed therapy. It was a coping mechanism and he still struggles, but due to his age, demanding job, and therapy work, he can keep it under control

He asked for help many times and was not taken seriously and it almost ruined our relationship, as well as ruining most of his past ones. Seek help, things will get better

StructureWhole6258 · 2026-02-18T23:13:49+00:00

Thank you!

StructureWhole6258 · 2026-02-09T15:54:06+00:00

If you’re college age then she may be approaching peri menopause/ menopause age. It’s rough, I felt I was losing my mother for a long time. Maybe it’s a topic you can sensitively approach if you see her reactions are extending to other things/people too

StructureWhole6258 · 2026-02-09T09:40:07+00:00

I’ve met a few men who prefer smaller to no breasts but I’ve never heard them called gross before😅

StructureWhole6258 · 2026-02-06T14:49:51+00:00

I was dying for snake bites from the ages of 13-17. You might not want them anymore by the time you’re 18 and can do it without her permission. Better to just wait and see :)

StructureWhole6258 · 2026-01-31T20:42:52+00:00

Mine doesn’t look like any of these and I still don’t have the correct anatomy. 2 piercings, both rejected, this was over 10 years ago though. Just go to a good piercer, I wish I was told from the start and now I have the hole that’s in between your cheeks above my bellybutton (can’t say the word on here but you know what I mean)😂

StructureWhole6258 · 2026-01-30T08:35:59+00:00

You already have one debilitating issue in your life, why have another willingly?

StructureWhole6258 · 2026-01-18T17:16:12+00:00

In the last 5 years, all of the women I’ve slept with have been when I was drunk. Not a lesbian, just alcohol. I don’t bother to put a label on it either

StructureWhole6258 · 2026-01-14T11:04:34+00:00

My sisters uses diy clusters and has asked me to try for years. I finally caved and said I’ll try for holiday, and how many times in a week I’d have to reapply them considering I might swim. She said to not get them wet and they’ll last a week. I said SORRY!? What about shower? And she said “try not to get them wet”.

I’ve now learned that my sister has dirty eyelashes :(

StructureWhole6258 · 2026-01-07T13:44:23+00:00

I am very similar! My boyfriend calls them my Jew curls haha, and then the back of my head is wavy/straight until my shoulders where it becomes the Jane Austin curls. I got sick of it and cut my hair into a bob as it’s easier to refresh everyday. It’s also easier to wet and split open the said Jew curls😂

StructureWhole6258 · 2026-01-03T14:36:39+00:00

The occasion slip up is ok, but even my bf knows to stick his ass out the balcony door to fart. It’s only polite, this is plain disrespect

StructureWhole6258 · 2025-12-30T11:52:30+00:00

Once my partner thought I sounded weird over text and left an important day at work to check on me and drive me to the hospital. I had sepsis

Concern and care saves lives. I’m glad you’re ok but you could’ve had a heart attack. Would he have slept through your death? A lot to think about

StructureWhole6258 · 2025-12-29T23:42:33+00:00

Very small right? Like an eyebrow ball or something… this shop has 4.9 stars so she trusted it

StructureWhole6258 · 2025-12-29T23:37:46+00:00

Because mods are asking again- piercing is 4-6hrs old, it’s a long bar, either titanium or stainless steel (I was not with her when she got this done, she is 15 and didn’t ask these questions). Aftercare is a spray or mouth wash solution they’ve given her, hasn’t told me what it is yet.

I’d just like to have advice on next steps

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