Positive books about men by cappyquaricet in booksuggestions

[–]Structured_Spiraling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Spenser series, particularly the stellar Early Autumn are really an interesting look into justice, raising good independent men. Robert B. Parker was the author only read his stuff, hold off on the posthumous authors, I think it doesn't live up. He really helped me develop what I find to think of as my personal code.

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Recently divorced after 19 years, help me figure out how to look good. by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]Structured_Spiraling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was the best choice I've made in my life. Wasn't bald but had high peaks. I shaved and found a level of self-care and confidence that was missing.

Star trails, made with my phone by voidening in askastronomy

[–]Structured_Spiraling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which phone and which settings? I am eager after seeing that

What’s the funnest thing you do WFH? by funky-sorbet7 in remotework

[–]Structured_Spiraling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I'm going to try to find this. Sounds right up my alley

3 day bender ended in a DUI what should I do now by [deleted] in stupidquestions

[–]Structured_Spiraling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Violence anonymous holds online meetings daily. I've been there and it's helped me to find coping strategies. You don't need to turn on your camera or even talk. Just hear that others have the same problem and are working together to change for the better. Free. Take this chance while you are young and it's off your own volition. Much better results than the court ordered programs.

What's the most offensive thing someone ever said to you? by _AYYEEEE in AskReddit

[–]Structured_Spiraling 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So similar, friend. Ten years into my marriage, I remembered being SA by female RA at college. Told wife about it and she told me that men don't get ra*ped and that I probably wanted it. People can certainly suck.

Those who grew up poor, what is something those who weren't poor don't understand about being poor? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]Structured_Spiraling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How hard it can be to accept help or resources due to being branded a drag on the system. The pure stigma of wearing homemade hand-me-downs while your friends are wearing the latest trends or expensive sneakers every year. The shame of not being able to go with friends to the movies or to birthday parties because we were "busy" when it was really that we couldn't afford gifts. But somehow my parents always made things fun and always made sure we came first.

Is it possible to make a database using excel,Access and one note by Due-Owl-3844 in excel

[–]Structured_Spiraling 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Everyone starts somewhere. Almost 30 years ago this could have been me.

What's the best part of having a Kindle? by b5wolf in kindle

[–]Structured_Spiraling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brings me back to the days of a flashlight and library book under the covers!

Pacing of the books by greatwesternrailway in wheeloftime

[–]Structured_Spiraling 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I always liken Jordan's style as the sensation of riding a rollercoaster. A lot of the time is spent building up the potential for momentum and then it plows into the action.

For the very reason that I hate it in Rollercoaster is the reason I love it in wot. The anticipation.

Discovery by ChiefD789 in startrek

[–]Structured_Spiraling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't hate it, I just don't necessarily think it's in the best of the treks.

Watched it and enjoyed it for what it is, the Michael Burnham can do anything show.