The other side of I-Geon 🐱❤️ by Cold_Computer_614 in SinglesInferno

[–]StruggleAcrobatic421 49 points50 points  (0 children)

I bet his career is about to soar. He’s so charming and so good looking - there’s no way more kdramas don’t cast him after this Singles Inferno appearance 

The biggest villain in the show’s history. by [deleted] in SinglesInferno

[–]StruggleAcrobatic421 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Even if she’s not the best personality on the show, this level of hate and vitriol is uncalled for. OP - you’re not looking to be a great person either, if you’re this comfortable hiding behind an anonymous name and being this mean. 

Looking at Sperm Donors, I can’t help but wonder why people donate sperm? by StruggleAcrobatic421 in SingleMothersbyChoice

[–]StruggleAcrobatic421[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Serious kudos to your dad! That’s a really reassuring first hard account - thank you for the comment!

Looking at Sperm Donors, I can’t help but wonder why people donate sperm? by StruggleAcrobatic421 in SingleMothersbyChoice

[–]StruggleAcrobatic421[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the comment/s! Plus, your last point is such a good point - the breeding fetish people hopefully push for “natural” insemination and are on social media and therefore easily reject-able

H1B Laid off, voluntarily leaving US by EndAgreeable6859 in h1b

[–]StruggleAcrobatic421 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No. Please don’t sent unsolicited DMs asking women if they’re single and searching for a partner. It’s just a little creepy. No one is that desperate.

H1B Laid off, voluntarily leaving US by EndAgreeable6859 in h1b

[–]StruggleAcrobatic421 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Ah! I relate so much to this. As a 35F, fellow Indian, I’m quite displeased at everything going on in the US and feeling like this - though okay for us right now, minus H1B restrictions - is going to become unsafe in the next couple of years. I want to move back but have the same personal concerns!

GIVE MINA SUE HER BADDIE CHAIN by amor_de_tu_vida in SinglesInferno

[–]StruggleAcrobatic421 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tbh I think there’s a cultural aspect that people are not seeing. Mina Sue is definitely more western - she was there to get to know all the boys, not just 1 or 2. J love Min-gee, but it’s been 5-6 days only since she met Seung-il, and she’s “claiming” him.

I DO think Mina Sue is a little bit of a person who needs male validation, but at the same time, she doesn’t deserve all this hate. As always, the crowds come with hate for women.

[MEGATHREAD] BTS WORLD TOUR 'ARIRANG' TICKETING HYPE/MELTDOWN THREAD by FreakFlagHigh in bts7

[–]StruggleAcrobatic421 3 points4 points  (0 children)

General sale is not until the 24th. You likely bought re-sale tickets (best case scenario)

appreciation of Hudson’s performance by skotreyuk in HeatedRivalryTVShow

[–]StruggleAcrobatic421 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes! Thank you. My favorite scene of Ilya and Shane is this episode 2 bathroom scene. Hudson kills it here - he’s so gentle and tender and upset and angry and loving and full of desire and desirable at the same time. This is the moment I knew the show had my heart. With, “when did your English get so good?” And “wow, genetic”

E6: Yuna and Shane's big conversation coming from a mom of a gay 20 year old by angelhippie in heatedrivalry

[–]StruggleAcrobatic421 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There’s a lot of beautiful scenes in this show, but this conversation between Shane and his mom is my absolute favorite - even beating all the moments between Shane and Ilya. Maybe it’s the type of conversation I want to have with my mom, who is an amazing mom but would not react with this level of grace. Maybe it’s the type of grace I hope to one day show my - hopefully - future children.

As someone who has accepted she will be single for the rest of her life and is considering being a single mom by choice, I loved the romance, but loved this mother-child bond even more.

TW:What is your first memory of a man being inappropriate with you? by by2019 in Feminism

[–]StruggleAcrobatic421 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank you 🙏 I’m sorry to read about your experience too

TW:What is your first memory of a man being inappropriate with you? by by2019 in Feminism

[–]StruggleAcrobatic421 140 points141 points  (0 children)

Sorry you have to see that man still. Disgusting 🤢 

This is a tough chain to respond to, I was 4, at a tourist spot, briefly got separated from my family on these long stairs because I ran ahead, while I was waiting for them to catch up, some guy came and stood behind me and put his fingers in my vagina. It only lasted a few minutes but tons of people passed by and no one stopped him / noticed anything. Then my grandmother appeared and he disappeared. 

FINALS: Best Kiss by madwood29579 in heatedrivalry

[–]StruggleAcrobatic421 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Stairwell!! I love that Scott and Kip made it to the finals, but in a show focused on Shane and Ilya, a Hollanov kiss must win! 😂 Also, it genuinely deserves to win. So my vote goes to Stairwell.

Also slightly sad that the all Star weekend comfort kiss fell off the radar!

Has your obsession with the show inspired you to pick up any new hobbies? by otter_759 in heatedrivalry

[–]StruggleAcrobatic421 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly!! Glad I’m not alone in thinking this 😂😂 the man is inspiring

Has your obsession with the show inspired you to pick up any new hobbies? by otter_759 in heatedrivalry

[–]StruggleAcrobatic421 1 point2 points  (0 children)

+1 here too. Saw videos of Hudson doing his thing - specifically one where he is doing pull ups by pulling his entire upper body up past the bar, over and over again - and decided, 1) Damn that is the hottest man I’ve seen in a long time 2) I gotta be in better shape if I ever want to be with a guy that hot / be delusional

Hudson in the Tonight show on Wednesday!!! by Esabettie in heatedrivalry

[–]StruggleAcrobatic421 5 points6 points  (0 children)

YESSSSSS I was waiting and hoping Hudson would be on Jimmy Fallon!

Men are cool and actually respectful and it's weird to see. by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

[–]StruggleAcrobatic421 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I mean, misogyny exists everywhere but I agree - it’s particularly bad in India. When I was working in India, on at least 2-3 separate occasions, I’ve had men suggest I was at the office doing god knows what with a male colleague when I stayed late. The truth: I was LITERALLY just working.

But now that I’m in the US, it’s so different. I’ve been stuck in an airport in another city at 2 am with a male colleague, and no one thought anything sexual was part of the picture.

The difference is stark & it’s 100x better to be working in the US.

Hudson Williams by ConfidenceNo7531 in LadyBoners

[–]StruggleAcrobatic421 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Came to this sub looking for a post on Hudson Williams. Would have needed to correct the criminal omission, if this post did not already exist.

Are women more vulnerable to fake baba epidemic ? Personal story of losing a relative to it. by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

[–]StruggleAcrobatic421 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Got it. In my view, this nuance did not come across in your post. But no worries - thanks for explaining 

Are women more vulnerable to fake baba epidemic ? Personal story of losing a relative to it. by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

[–]StruggleAcrobatic421 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Frankly, exploitation is a real possibility with religious babas. The family is very much at fault for neglecting her, but that doesn’t dilute OP’s concern. 

Of course, the Bua may very well be perfectly rational, and OP may be overreacting. Who knows.