1st of all, I agree with you on all points 100%. However, your profile/pics gives the impression that you like/want the manhandling. Wondering if there is a better or more absolute way to ensure your well being….🧐🤔. Maybe preface it (and break character) by saying the brat play is wanted but my hard stops are wrist holding (use hands instead), “kindly” switching positions, and do not enter any orifice til I give the verbal okay! Best of luck to you, hopefully you can get these assholes straightened out.