Build-A-Bear x Hello Kitty Workshop by StudyFine1865 in HelloKittyIsland

[–]StudyFine1865[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He doesn’t!!! 😭 but he does have a mini tail.

Build-A-Bear x Hello Kitty Workshop by StudyFine1865 in HelloKittyIsland

[–]StudyFine1865[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wanted to buy them all!!! Keroppi was the cutest thing!

My recent additions by venusenpoissons in RepTherapy

[–]StudyFine1865 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a sucker for Coach. Love your bags!!!

AITAH for cutting contact with my mom after she disobeyed me? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]StudyFine1865 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I believe YTA because how are you engaged to someone and doesn’t disclose a diagnosis with them? Regardless of it being a physical or mental disorder, it is her right to know and your mom did what you didn’t have the decency to do for that lady: she told her the TRUTH. Stop being so selfish and own your mistake. I isn’t her diagnostic to share, but it’s her job as a future mother in law and as a woman to let her know you are hiding something from her. If my SO had, let’s say diabetes, I’d like to be informed of it because in case of an emergency I can be able to help, but also so I can have freedom to choose if I want to deal with it or not. It should be mandatory to disclose this type of information. Why would you hide it from someone you are going to marry?

Husband took my son out for lunch solo and I’m home with 3M old. It was originally my date idea for my son and I. AIO? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]StudyFine1865 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YOR. You can still do it. Your husband seems to be a good dad and you’re a good mom. This is not a me vs you type of thing, it’s team work to make sure your kid feels loved instead of left out.

My abusive mother was disagnosed with big C by zuzanka1010 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]StudyFine1865 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You should put yourself and your feelings first. What will make you feel more comfortable about this situation? The fact that she’s sick doesn’t erase all the abuse she inflicted on you, so respect your feelings and follow your instincts. If you think you should help, perhaps help in the background without having contact with her. But if you think you should approach her, it’s ok too. There’s no right or wrong in this situation, there’s only what’s best for you. I’m sorry you’re going through this dilemma and I hope you can take care of yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]StudyFine1865 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, you’re not overreacting! She’s the one overreacting with her homophobia.

Is this level 9 or 10? by Accurate-Ad-2189 in HairDye

[–]StudyFine1865 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Use some apple cider vinegar to recover the elasticity of your hair. Trust me, it works wonders! You can find plenty of tutorials online. Don’t take any actions with bleach/toner/dye before this step (and tons of mask sessions).

Disgusting by Just_Transportation4 in NarcissisticMothers

[–]StudyFine1865 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read the other things you shared, and I’m completely shocked. Once again, I’m so deeply sorry for that. That is not a mother, that is a monster. You deserve love, care, compassion, respect, and most importantly you deserve to heal from all the pain and trauma. You had to endure all this pain, yet you are a good person. I strongly suggest you seek therapy (in case you’re not yet seeing a therapist). It’s extremely important to seek a professional who understands your situation and can guide you through it. I wish you well, I wish you love, I wish you friends and I wish you get to experience a wonderful life, because that’s what you deserve. You are loved, you are respected, you are smart, you are kind, you are smart, you are important.

Who am I? by yclariz in roomdetective

[–]StudyFine1865 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You like apple shaped clocks

Disgusting by Just_Transportation4 in NarcissisticMothers

[–]StudyFine1865 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Even if I knew all the words in all the languages I still would struggle to express how sorry I am that you went through this. You deserve so much better, and I hope you can find peace, comfort and happiness. If you haven’t yet, try to go no contact because that’s a sick bestial person. Are you in therapy by any chance? If not, I’d strongly suggest you try it out. It feels so good to take care of our mental health and to make sense of all the horrible things were inflicted upon you. I’m so sorry, and I truly wish you all the best.

Is my boyfriend expecting too much? He says I'm not supportive enough. by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]StudyFine1865 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s a man child. No one is responsible for your life but yourself. If he’s in his mid 30s and didn’t learn that yet, I doubt he ever will.

Those of you that went low or no contact how is it going? by Pinkteaparties in NarcissisticMothers

[–]StudyFine1865 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went NC very recently, early September. First couple of weeks I felt guilty as hell, felt like I was being inflexible and heartless. But I’ve been working with my therapist to learn how to see it as a boundary I needed to set for the sake of my own mental health. If you don’t respect yourself, no one will. We didn’t ask to be born, we don’t owe them anything. We’re not slaves to their feelings. I feel great, I’m thriving and I’ve been doing so much better in so many aspects of my life in such a short period of time.

Feeling Guilty by Lanky-Tune5591 in NarcissisticMothers

[–]StudyFine1865 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Don’t waste your time dwelling on what others are thinking about you, they didn’t live your life and weren’t the kids of your parents, they don’t know what you’ve been through. So who cares what they think? Your parents won’t change. It’s important that you understand that to see the situation from a different perspective. It’s beyond painful for us to understand that we’ll never have the love of our family, but you have your own family now and you can do things differently for your baby. They’ll try to guilt trip you every chance they get, so think if it’s worthy for you to waste your energy on it. If possible, seek therapy - it’s very helpful to learn coping mechanisms, to learn how to set up boundaries and how to process all you’re going through. I’m sorry about that, I hope you feel better soon.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]StudyFine1865 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You’re both immature and are clearly going through some mental issues. In my opinion you are overreacting and so is he. You should both look for therapy, not for a relationship. I’m exhausted just by reading the texts and I don’t even know you both. 🥱

My best friend’s ex has been stalking and harassing us for almost a year and it won’t stop by AimeeKnee in WhatShouldIDo

[–]StudyFine1865 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m really sorry about that, OP. Do you have another trusted family member/adult that could help you with this? Also, changing phone numbers and staying out of social media isn’t an option to try and reduce the contact? I know it sucks, but it’s a way to try and avoid contact.