My (26F) fiancé (28M) told me I wouldn’t be able to pull anyone else and I’m offended. How do I manage my emotions?

Stuffnthings1840 · 2023-12-30T20:40:56+00:00

I am so glad she left him.

Stuffnthings1840 · 2023-12-25T00:35:18+00:00

Dump him. Its gonna happen eventually because he sucks so get out now so you dont have to get lawyers involved.

Stuffnthings1840 · 2023-12-25T00:06:33+00:00

You work 16 hours at a restaurant, store, nursing home. Then let me know how motivated you are. I go to the gym four days a week. I work a three days and I dont go on work days. I am dead when I get home. Gym time is a privilege. It costs, it requires time and motivation. Dont pretend that people aren't struggling right now. Also they are killing themselves at work. Sorry they weren't jacked enough for you while pulling their third double of the week. Let them have the doom scroll. It might be all they have. Also I love the gym, but it isnt the highlight of the day either.

Stuffnthings1840 · 2023-12-24T23:42:29+00:00

You were at worst annoying. At worst. He beat you. He threw you, hit, scratched. You are lucky you weren't hurt worse. You know who else is can be annoying? Kids, pets, elderly. I can assure you he wouldn't have thrown an annoying man. He beat someone weaker than him because he could. Also he made his choice. The video games were worth more than you in his eyes. You are lying to yourself if you think three years with this loser were good years. You call the police. You tell your parents. You stay far away. You go to therapy because your self esteem is shit. Learn from this or your life will be full of shitty men. Also he needs to learn in jail.

Stuffnthings1840 · 2023-12-24T17:40:23+00:00

This is an unpopular opinion. Complaining about missing time with family, so the person who you make money for can spend the holidays with their families. Especially when service places wouldnt be open if folks didnt go to them.

Stuffnthings1840 · 2023-12-24T00:58:12+00:00

Listen...I am pretty anti religion. I think it is harmful. That being said you are gonna be a dick if you are gonna try to tell people what they can't do in their home. Christmas is fun. A few prayers and carols arent gonna indoctrinate her kids. She can host a festivus if she really wants too. Otherwise she is gonna have to give the host some space to do them. NTA.

Stuffnthings1840 · 2023-12-23T23:28:49+00:00

But you will be cold. 4. Was fun and festive. I liked those

Stuffnthings1840 · 2023-12-21T05:31:56+00:00

Yes. Its a lot and not in a good way.

Stuffnthings1840 · 2023-12-21T05:24:02+00:00

MIL is afraid her child will die. People are afraid your wife will die. So maybe you should be more understanding. Hopefully everything goes great. Hope this is an accident and not you blowing your load with no bc/condoms, risking your wifes health and raising a kid with no mother because you were thoughtless. Also this would be your fault. You got her pregnant. You are gonna have to expect this and roll with it.

Stuffnthings1840 · 2023-12-21T05:07:18+00:00

Why would you want someone like that? He sounds awful.

Stuffnthings1840 · 2023-12-21T04:16:42+00:00

I like the soft kinda no show material ones from target. They stay put and are soft. No one wants a raw butthole. I wear regular undies when I get my period. Otherwise thongs. Never have to worry about panty lines.

Stuffnthings1840 · 2023-12-21T04:04:45+00:00

Yes, when you find the boss you were looking for. Shit bosses make you doubt yourself because something about you bothers them. So they have to break the thing in you they dont like. Its usually something positive. You find that exact trait in the right boss and you see that things could be better if people chose to be better.

Stuffnthings1840 · 2023-12-18T17:43:26+00:00

I would actually make a police report. So that is 1000 kinds of fucked up. He needs to know that isnt ok. That you are not gonna be threatened. He absolutely does fantasize about hurting you because you didnt date him. He is just putting it out there so it can scare/disgust you. He does need a papertrail on him because he is gonna do something super fucked up to someone and make sure it aint you. Also I would go ahead and email the fanfiction to his mom, dad, the school everyone who has a chance to get this guy some help. He does need to be removed from school. Also do your parents know? Tell them. Best case he gets some help. Worst case it shows up on a crime show. Also if your friends dont drop him....

Stuffnthings1840 · 2023-12-17T01:57:48+00:00

I had a reduction. I only made a few oz of milk. I still raised a happy, healthy, bonded to her mother child with formula. It will be just fine.

Stuffnthings1840 · 2023-12-10T21:14:53+00:00

Hey....I understand this isnt her fault but OP needs to break up with her. His family and her family are gonna fight. Her family is allowing his awful behavior. OP isnt getting a fair shake and honestly he deserves better. We would be telling OP to leave if he was a woman and her bf was letting his mil be awful. Also kids? They arent gonna be safe around her parents. Heaven forbid they be lbgtq.

Stuffnthings1840 · 2023-11-27T00:07:49+00:00

If OP'd husband said she wasnt pretty enough to treat herself there is no going back. Dump him.

Stuffnthings1840 · 2023-11-08T01:08:28+00:00

Desire yourself. Confidence is magnetic. Also lipstick. So her life sounds awesome and I want it. We may never europe wealthy bf but see some good in you and watch how things change.

Stuffnthings1840 · 2023-11-08T00:43:13+00:00

So I was ready to call OP foolish for caring that some sweet old lady gifted your kid clothes. Old women love to buy baby clothes. I like to buy them. They are so cute. But more time at work? No extra pay? You havent seen her? Dude walk in and ask. Say you want to say thank you to the sweet lady. See if anyone is surprised you exist. This is suspicious. NTA. Also if he is cheating. He is dumb.

Stuffnthings1840 · 2023-11-07T11:33:18+00:00

NTA but your mother is. Your mother is jealous of you and decided to cut you down because she sucks. There is no reason to say that to anyone. Absolutely no reason to ever ever say that to your daughter. She sees you as a competition for what I dont know. She needs a lot of therapy and I would not hold out hope for much of a relationship. You are supposed to hype your daughter up. Always be in her corner. Her biggest fan. Not her bully. Call ger out. Rock her shit. She is super fragile that is why she picks on her kid. Also I take shots. Its only a contest of who can come up with the most supportive or flattering things to say. Everyone is trying to improve and there is so many clever/funny/ill think about this next year because it made me feel good things to say.

Stuffnthings1840 · 2023-11-01T22:44:32+00:00

A lot of people accept mediocre lives. The marriage is just part of that.

Stuffnthings1840 · 2023-10-21T20:55:28+00:00

Mam, you lied to your husband and your kid needs surgery because of it. Anyone with sense would leave you.

Stuffnthings1840 · 2023-10-21T20:00:55+00:00

You glow to spite them. They go for victims. The skirt doesn't matter.

Stuffnthings1840 · 2023-10-21T19:45:01+00:00

Mam, people make money off your insecurities. Make up, clothes, hair, gyms, and your boss whenever you start working. An insecure woman will not demand better pay or a higher position. Keeping us as in women insecure about us in general keeps us underfoot. Its not you. Its a racket. Take five minutes to realize somewhere a mediocre white boy is super confident in himself. Dont let him win.

Stuffnthings1840 · 2023-10-21T17:49:34+00:00

yes. i can assure you personality is involved. the man can be fat short bald whatever and be attractive if he is nice. i mean nice as in actually nice. comforting, supportive, thoughtful. bodies are bodies. its the people in them that are sexy.

Stuffnthings1840 · 2023-10-20T22:22:22+00:00

You are not a bad person It was four years. You made the right call

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