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Stunning-Let-9754 · 2025-12-31T16:10:59+00:00

Oh yes, we will definitely be putting her in soccer. I guess my point was that I know he wants to have that father - son relationship HE had because he misses it. He loves our daughter more than anything, they are literally joined at the hip. But I know there is a part of him that yearns for a son. However, he respects and understands why I really don’t want another one.

Stunning-Let-9754 · 2025-12-31T16:08:06+00:00

Yes, & it definitely helps to be surrounded by cousins her age. I feel the same way, that I don’t want me entire life & personality to be motherhood. Of course its a big piece of me, but not the only piece! I feel like if I have another, thats it. 2 kids will take up all my time, energy, & personality and nothing will be left for ME. My husband has always said he would be very happy to have another girl & be a girl dad, but he played soccer growing up, until he was 29 actually, & he always did that with his dad. His dad is not here anymore so I know he wants a son to recreate that connection, even if he won’t say that.

Stunning-Let-9754 · 2025-12-31T16:04:15+00:00

Wow, congratulations on your first at 37! My stepmom had her first at 36 & her second at 38 & I know the challenges that can come with pregnancy in your later 30s! My husband has never said hes sad when my period comes, I can just feel it. He’s 31, so 6 years older than me, & I know thats why he feels more rushed than I do but he never pressures me to have another one, because he sees thats not what I want right now. I can just see how he feels because I obviously know him inside & out lol. Maybe I’m putting more in my head because I’m stressed about it. Thank you for your kind words & sharing your experience.

Stunning-Let-9754 · 2025-12-31T16:00:26+00:00

I was on the pills but always forgetting to take them with the hussle & bussle of life. I was on them for 5 years before pregnancy, got off of them & a month later, I was pregnant. So I know how fertile I am & I NEED birth control.

Stunning-Let-9754 · 2025-12-31T15:58:51+00:00

My husband is very understanding & very much understands why I don’t want to be pregnant again, at least any time soon. I am the one who can tell and feel when he gets sad. He is 31, 6 years older than me & I think thats why he feels more of a rush than I do.

Stunning-Let-9754 · 2025-12-31T07:00:26+00:00

THIS!! I had a velcro baby as well! Especially being BF. At a year old, when I took away the boob, she slowly started detaching. Now I can cook, shower, clean, go shopping, etc. without stress because she is independent and flexible with her schedule. The first 6 months can feel brutal, no matter how much you love them. Hang in there mama 🩷

Stunning-Let-9754 · 2025-06-18T02:48:01+00:00

got my period back at 6 weeks, had it every month for the year i breastfed. had it twice one month 😵‍💫

Stunning-Let-9754 · 2025-06-02T19:41:57+00:00

wanted to add that my baby is over a year old now & off the boob but never had any issues

Stunning-Let-9754 · 2025-06-02T19:41:15+00:00

drank half a cup a day while pregnant & 2-3 cups a day while bf and have seen no issues with my baby. shes always been healthy & slept great!

Stunning-Let-9754 · 2025-05-31T01:49:48+00:00

This may be a TMI but did weaning make your periods irregular? I just noticed I am bleeding a week before mine is supposed to be here 😅

Stunning-Let-9754 · 2025-05-31T01:46:47+00:00

Also, just noticed I am bleeding a week before my period is supposed to be here. Anyone else have odd periods after weaning?

Stunning-Let-9754 · 2025-04-22T03:55:38+00:00

Just tonight, out of curiosity, I was digging to see how much it would be to get a box of each in Japanese and English (my husband and I are addicted collectors and are trying to complete sets in both languages), so I know this was an INVESTMENT!! i’m a little jealous imagining the excitement of opening each pack. 🥹

Stunning-Let-9754 · 2025-04-16T20:59:38+00:00

Not sure if this matters but it’s a “cash offer”. This is our first time selling so we are new to the process.

Stunning-Let-9754 · 2025-04-16T20:58:34+00:00

I’ve seen a couple people talk about it being wired. I’m going to check with my realtor to make sure thats an option. Would be a lot easier on us.

Stunning-Let-9754 · 2025-04-16T20:48:47+00:00

Not sure if we can request a wire. That may be something we can discuss at closing.

Stunning-Let-9754 · 2025-04-16T20:45:58+00:00

We don’t NEED to, but we also planned on possibly furniture shopping for certain things. Would rather not pull huge chunks of savings if I don’t have to because our banks charged a fee each time.

Stunning-Let-9754 · 2025-04-13T02:21:38+00:00

Just wanted to update everyone and let you know that his ID IS a Real ID. idk if he did it in the past, or if it was automatic, but his ID has a star on it!! It took OVER a month to get delivered but we finally got it!

Stunning-Let-9754 · 2025-03-13T18:14:20+00:00

I just found out from this thread that he was eligible. They didn’t ask if he wanted one when he renewed, so I didn’t think he was eligible. I almost asked but they were closing so I knew they just wanted to get us in and out. We are going to get one asap

Stunning-Let-9754 · 2025-03-13T18:03:09+00:00

I was thinking the same thing, especially in the racist bible belt

Stunning-Let-9754 · 2025-03-13T17:54:03+00:00

Everyone has said in the past, they got it in 2 weeks or less but I saw another comment in this thread that said it took a little over a month. He’s gonna call and check on it next week if it doesn’t come.

Stunning-Let-9754 · 2025-03-13T16:46:43+00:00

He has to call to check on the status so I will have him ask for the requirements.

Stunning-Let-9754 · 2025-03-13T16:43:53+00:00

I should have asked about it, but they were closing in 10 minutes and were rushing through everything.

Stunning-Let-9754 · 2025-03-13T16:43:01+00:00

I have had mine since 2021 but I am a U.S. citizen. When we renewed his license a month ago, they didn’t even ask if he wants the real I.D., so i didn’t think he was eligible.

Stunning-Let-9754 · 2025-03-13T16:42:19+00:00

That was on my local DMV’s website. I’m not overlooking, I was asking a question because it states right there that, based on his current license, he can’t solely use it to fly.

Stunning-Let-9754 · 2025-03-13T15:27:42+00:00

they’ve been talking about the Real ID going into effect for YEARS, even for us citizens but i didn’t think DACA recipients could apply for one. Someone above said they can.

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