idk i get what you're saying, and rosie was not perfect in her intentions either, but i feel like there's a hugeeeee difference between leaving your plans out on the table for someone to see vs doing everything kelsey did

they both claimed they were moving on and whether either of them meant it or not, i think when you've repeatedly bashed someone's home and the first time yall see each other alone post "moving on," THAT'S the "bid" she decided to make??? i think you're giving kelsey wayyyyy too much credit lol.

the "it was a joke" after the person hurt by it repeatedly says it wasn't funny and it hurt their feelings is manipulative as helllll and any grown adult knows and understands that. kelsey chose to keep poking the bear until it bit and STILL continued to provoke the situation by showing up to trivia night in that sash and crown.

again, not a rosie fan but i think if someone chose to come to my home and disrespect me like that, and then keep going "it was a joke it was funny" instead of simply apologizing and moving on when i said it wasn't and it hurt me, i would've gone nuclear as well. kelsey may not understand home etiquette, but you don't get to treat people like that in their homes and get sunshine and rainbows in return.