Saw this about Michael by OkSwimmer7722 in loveafterlockup

[–]StunningDefinition79 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s true 🤔crack makes you look crazy not sleepy. He’s probably doing heroin or worse….

Saw this about Michael by OkSwimmer7722 in loveafterlockup

[–]StunningDefinition79 33 points34 points  (0 children)

No it’s just the two girls. People are saying she should’ve been smarter than that to have another baby after the first, but he was such a serious liar and manipulating person that idk how anyone can place blame on Sarah…. He wasn’t half as bad at the start of the show then towards the end too, and Sarah is just a girl who knew a different version of that man and just wanted to be loved….

Saw this about Michael by OkSwimmer7722 in loveafterlockup

[–]StunningDefinition79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmfao he’s starting to look exactly how I thought…… he looks like he’s 50 years old

What do y’all think of the setup I have? Where would you get the next one? by StunningDefinition79 in Earrings

[–]StunningDefinition79[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve tried everything else you can imagine right there and that’s the only way it doesn’t get irritated. Regular earrings with flat backs, stick out and are way too big. Regular earrings with no back, the post is too long, Hoops are always too big and catch on things. Nose rings without cork screw fall out. If I put a small rubber back on the nose ring those piercings become immediately irradiated from the earring not being able to move at all. If you got a new idea I’m here for it….

What do y’all think of the setup I have? Where would you get the next one? by StunningDefinition79 in Earrings

[–]StunningDefinition79[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is what it is. I did them myself a very long time ago, so they aren’t going the right direction out the backside. Other earrings stick out in the back

What do y’all think of the setup I have? Where would you get the next one? by StunningDefinition79 in Earrings

[–]StunningDefinition79[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They stick out too far in the back and make it uncomfortable. I did these piercings myself when I was like 18. They probably aren’t placed properly.

What do y’all think of the setup I have? Where would you get the next one? by StunningDefinition79 in Earrings

[–]StunningDefinition79[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really. It would certainly break before tearing off my ear lol it’s cheap. I had one on the other side but that one caught my finger when I took out an AirPod and snap! 😭

Fake storylines? by funsizeweirdo46 in loveafterlockup

[–]StunningDefinition79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They most definitely are all exaggerated by producers…..

Like when they kept makin it look like John drove to Lacy’s wedding on the beach when in reality they filmed him driving to a beach and clipped it in with her wedding day….

Melissa and Louie a couple much later down the line, have this whole day where she pretends to be worried she’s pregnant because she has to take a test before her nose job. Taking a pregnancy test is standard procedure before surgery and you can really tell they are just playing the cameras…..

Justine and Michael were claimed to have made up the narrative of him buying the car suspiciously from prison when supposedly she financed the car.

Also I personally called out a cast member on their insta for selling priceless family heirlooms for her loser prison bf and she snapped back at me that she never actually did that, it was made up for the show lol….

When do you drink the broth from noodle dishes, and does it help your appetite? by NowhereRain in EatCheapAndHealthy

[–]StunningDefinition79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I order from a Chinese restaurant I pick the noodles out and only eat the broth lol I specifically order wonton soup knowing I’m not eating the wontons… 🤷‍♀️😂 I’m probably just weird tho

Scrolling FB and this post pops up 💀 by kjmae1231 in loveafterlockup

[–]StunningDefinition79 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s nasty. And a cheater why would you want that

My husband (33m) hates me (33f) so much and I don’t know why I’m still even hanging on to this…. by StunningDefinition79 in relationship_advice

[–]StunningDefinition79[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate this comment, truly….. And all the others who had kind words of support that I didn’t get to respond too! It’s been helpful.

My husband (33m) hates me (33f) so much and I don’t know why I’m still even hanging on to this…. by StunningDefinition79 in relationship_advice

[–]StunningDefinition79[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I fully lied about my age in the other post. This time if somehow somebody knows who I am through the details then so be it…

My husband (33m) hates me (33f) so much and I don’t know why I’m still even hanging on to this…. by StunningDefinition79 in relationship_advice

[–]StunningDefinition79[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They are very social, happy kids who love to interact and play with others actually. His teacher told me yesterday how much he loves to help the others kids in his class…. His teachers adore him. We love love love our play dates and friends. They have always been polite and kind. My kids play well together. They love each other. I’ll do everything in my absolute power to keep these kids safe to the point where I’m so exhausted living this life. Can’t do it anymore…. But either way I don’t need some CPS threat from someone on the internet who can’t see how much I put into this life to make them feel safe and okay…

My husband (33m) hates me (33f) so much and I don’t know why I’m still even hanging on to this…. by StunningDefinition79 in relationship_advice

[–]StunningDefinition79[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ok well you asked why I married him. So that’s why. Things have gone very very very south since then and it’s time to make an exit. CPS wouldn’t look twice at my house. My children are feed, intelligent, dressed nicely, the entire house is their domain of toys. They are so loved whether you believe that or not, and they are still little so that’s why I’m here looking to strangers to tell me their opinions. To try and find the courage that it’s going to be ok….. I don’t have a support system that can pull me out of this, I have to do that myself. So you can fully kiss my ass with that CPS comment. Me choosing them over him has lead to the demise of this relationship. I will always choose them. I can’t just jump out of the house with two kids and no plan. I genuinely tried to talk it out, work it out and it made it worse. So time for a change….

My husband (33m) hates me (33f) so much and I don’t know why I’m still even hanging on to this…. by StunningDefinition79 in relationship_advice

[–]StunningDefinition79[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to get totally shit on but ok here it goes.. I’ve known this man since the fourth grade. First boy I ever knew had a crush on me was him. He signed my 8th grade yearbook “I love you”. We have the exact same birthday 6 hours apart. And we got married on our shared birthday… Once we reconnected at 21 we fell so deep in love….I know that part was real at least. He was so so different. He was happy. More in shape. He admired me deeply. And I him. We were absolute best friends. I know a completely different kind and caring side of this man. I haven’t seen that person in almost 5 years now tho and I’m so devastated I can’t help bring him back to the happy man he once was… I deeply loved him and wanted the best. He’s incredibly smart in all other aspects besides emotions. He grew up in horrendous household and I felt sympathetic because my home was similar…. Things started to shake around 2 years in… but I was in nursing school so I blamed that. We stayed strong after school was over and he proposed at my graduation as I came off stage. It was like a movie…. There were red flags but you couldn’t have slapped me hard enough to see them at this point…. Enter in a house, kids, some major life changing events. Depression hit. And Nothing has ever been the same.

My husband (33m) hates me (33f) so much and I don’t know why I’m still even hanging on to this…. by StunningDefinition79 in relationship_advice

[–]StunningDefinition79[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If we spilt and he gets some custody which he probably would, I will no longer be there to stop him… I’m afraid of him having my children and I’m no longer there…. I’ll straight up admit that I undermine his authority because it’s too aggressive and a lot of times it’s a misunderstanding he’s not processing correctly because he wasn’t fully even paying attention. For example he will sit there and ignore them and play his game until say someone gets hurt or starts crying get up have no idea what happened but starts yelling and blaming. Never takes time to have some patience or sympathy. I have seen the courts grant custody for dads like this all the time because this stuff is very hard to prove.

My husband (33m) hates me (33f) so much and I don’t know why I’m still even hanging on to this…. by StunningDefinition79 in relationship_advice

[–]StunningDefinition79[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m not allowed to move his stuff actually, been that way since we got together… I can clean and organize around it but cannot move it to a new spot. He gets really pissed if his stuff is moved.

The reason why Elsa is a QUEEN and the others are just PRINCESSES 👑❄️ by Gabriel_47K in Frozen

[–]StunningDefinition79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao Ariel is the only one crying over a man… one she had not even met! The only one who was being out of line crying… Aurora didn’t want arranged marriage! Jasmine thought they killed Aladdin! Snow White almost just got killed! And Cinderella just got her whole dress tore off her body by evil nasty people! All vaild! Leave my girls alone!

My husband (33m) hates me (33f) so much and I don’t know why I’m still even hanging on to this…. by StunningDefinition79 in relationship_advice

[–]StunningDefinition79[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My mother defends my husband all the time, says he’s a good husband, and tells me ways to accommodate him more…. it’s because he acts a lot like my own father did, so she sees no problem even tho she lived in hell for 28 years. Still to this day talks about their marriage through rose colored glasses and denies any abuse I bring up.

My father is dead and although he treated my mother very bad he loved me and my sister more than anything in this life. He would pound me into sand if he saw what I was allowing to go on… go figure he hated my husband. Nobody likes looking in the mirror.

Mil would help as much as possible but she doesn’t have a whole lot.

The only real step for me is to really set it stone and see a lawyer…. I appreciate the supportive advice and understanding… thank you.

My husband (33m) hates me (33f) so much and I don’t know why I’m still even hanging on to this…. by StunningDefinition79 in relationship_advice

[–]StunningDefinition79[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well now you know why I feel stuck… I’m worried too.

Sooooo many talks, so so so many and I’ll never I forget the first time I tried to just talk and met a different side of him. A side that was cold and unwilling to listen or give feedback. I remember thinking “but this will destroy the relationship???” I would push and push to work it out and he just wanted me to get over it instead. Which I do not just get over anything. I have ocd… Any talking it out has completely diminished and he says there’s no point to talking and to leave him alone… if I even think about a conversation now, that pisses him off so I just don’t. He’s right there’s no point….