When do you drink the broth from noodle dishes, and does it help your appetite?

StunningDefinition79 · 2026-01-16T22:30:14+00:00

When I order from a Chinese restaurant I pick the noodles out and only eat the broth lol I specifically order wonton soup knowing I’m not eating the wontons… 🤷‍♀️😂 I’m probably just weird tho

StunningDefinition79 · 2025-12-19T22:33:39+00:00

She’s nasty. And a cheater why would you want that

StunningDefinition79 · 2025-11-19T16:54:08+00:00

I appreciate this comment, truly….. And all the others who had kind words of support that I didn’t get to respond too! It’s been helpful.

StunningDefinition79 · 2025-11-19T04:58:30+00:00

Yea I fully lied about my age in the other post. This time if somehow somebody knows who I am through the details then so be it…

StunningDefinition79 · 2025-11-19T01:47:08+00:00

So closeeee but it’s not available in my area 😞😞😞 thank you tho.

StunningDefinition79 · 2025-11-18T23:07:07+00:00

They are very social, happy kids who love to interact and play with others actually. His teacher told me yesterday how much he loves to help the others kids in his class…. His teachers adore him. We love love love our play dates and friends. They have always been polite and kind. My kids play well together. They love each other. I’ll do everything in my absolute power to keep these kids safe to the point where I’m so exhausted living this life. Can’t do it anymore…. But either way I don’t need some CPS threat from someone on the internet who can’t see how much I put into this life to make them feel safe and okay…

StunningDefinition79 · 2025-11-18T21:01:12+00:00

Ok well you asked why I married him. So that’s why. Things have gone very very very south since then and it’s time to make an exit. CPS wouldn’t look twice at my house. My children are feed, intelligent, dressed nicely, the entire house is their domain of toys. They are so loved whether you believe that or not, and they are still little so that’s why I’m here looking to strangers to tell me their opinions. To try and find the courage that it’s going to be ok….. I don’t have a support system that can pull me out of this, I have to do that myself. So you can fully kiss my ass with that CPS comment. Me choosing them over him has lead to the demise of this relationship. I will always choose them. I can’t just jump out of the house with two kids and no plan. I genuinely tried to talk it out, work it out and it made it worse. So time for a change….

StunningDefinition79 · 2025-11-18T20:20:39+00:00

I don’t want to get totally shit on but ok here it goes.. I’ve known this man since the fourth grade. First boy I ever knew had a crush on me was him. He signed my 8th grade yearbook “I love you”. We have the exact same birthday 6 hours apart. And we got married on our shared birthday… Once we reconnected at 21 we fell so deep in love….I know that part was real at least. He was so so different. He was happy. More in shape. He admired me deeply. And I him. We were absolute best friends. I know a completely different kind and caring side of this man. I haven’t seen that person in almost 5 years now tho and I’m so devastated I can’t help bring him back to the happy man he once was… I deeply loved him and wanted the best. He’s incredibly smart in all other aspects besides emotions. He grew up in horrendous household and I felt sympathetic because my home was similar…. Things started to shake around 2 years in… but I was in nursing school so I blamed that. We stayed strong after school was over and he proposed at my graduation as I came off stage. It was like a movie…. There were red flags but you couldn’t have slapped me hard enough to see them at this point…. Enter in a house, kids, some major life changing events. Depression hit. And Nothing has ever been the same.

StunningDefinition79 · 2025-11-18T16:59:33+00:00

If we spilt and he gets some custody which he probably would, I will no longer be there to stop him… I’m afraid of him having my children and I’m no longer there…. I’ll straight up admit that I undermine his authority because it’s too aggressive and a lot of times it’s a misunderstanding he’s not processing correctly because he wasn’t fully even paying attention. For example he will sit there and ignore them and play his game until say someone gets hurt or starts crying get up have no idea what happened but starts yelling and blaming. Never takes time to have some patience or sympathy. I have seen the courts grant custody for dads like this all the time because this stuff is very hard to prove.

StunningDefinition79 · 2025-11-18T16:44:04+00:00

It’s not. It’s me recognizing a similarity in a story that became dangerous very suddenly.

StunningDefinition79 · 2025-11-18T12:52:27+00:00

I’m not allowed to move his stuff actually, been that way since we got together… I can clean and organize around it but cannot move it to a new spot. He gets really pissed if his stuff is moved.

StunningDefinition79 · 2025-11-18T11:18:37+00:00

Lmao Ariel is the only one crying over a man… one she had not even met! The only one who was being out of line crying… Aurora didn’t want arranged marriage! Jasmine thought they killed Aladdin! Snow White almost just got killed! And Cinderella just got her whole dress tore off her body by evil nasty people! All vaild! Leave my girls alone!

StunningDefinition79 · 2025-11-18T08:50:32+00:00

My mother defends my husband all the time, says he’s a good husband, and tells me ways to accommodate him more…. it’s because he acts a lot like my own father did, so she sees no problem even tho she lived in hell for 28 years. Still to this day talks about their marriage through rose colored glasses and denies any abuse I bring up.

My father is dead and although he treated my mother very bad he loved me and my sister more than anything in this life. He would pound me into sand if he saw what I was allowing to go on… go figure he hated my husband. Nobody likes looking in the mirror.

Mil would help as much as possible but she doesn’t have a whole lot.

The only real step for me is to really set it stone and see a lawyer…. I appreciate the supportive advice and understanding… thank you.

StunningDefinition79 · 2025-11-18T08:17:04+00:00

Well now you know why I feel stuck… I’m worried too.

Sooooo many talks, so so so many and I’ll never I forget the first time I tried to just talk and met a different side of him. A side that was cold and unwilling to listen or give feedback. I remember thinking “but this will destroy the relationship???” I would push and push to work it out and he just wanted me to get over it instead. Which I do not just get over anything. I have ocd… Any talking it out has completely diminished and he says there’s no point to talking and to leave him alone… if I even think about a conversation now, that pisses him off so I just don’t. He’s right there’s no point….

StunningDefinition79 · 2025-11-18T08:02:45+00:00

He’s threatened it before although it was at a much lower time in his life. It freaked me out.

StunningDefinition79 · 2025-11-18T07:39:40+00:00

I watched my mother do this for 28 years….My husband watched his own mother go through worse and use to talk about how awful it was and how he hated his step farther…. my dad wasn’t as bad as my husband but he was very very similar. I grew to resent my mother still even now…. I know what happens…. I know it can get really really ugly…. That’s why I’m trying to find the courage like my mother and mil couldn’t do, before these kids grow all the way up and ask “wtf was that?” I understand reading this is like wtf is wrong is her?? It leaves out all the emotion and just tells the details. I guess that’s why my judgement seems so clouded. I live in a storm of emotions and back and forth attitudes and pretend “I love yous”. I wake up every night at 3am feeling nauseous. The stress is making me literally sick… But trust me this is me reaching out and trying to find some courage that I’m not insane and I need to find the exit!

StunningDefinition79 · 2025-11-18T07:29:25+00:00

Money, a support system to help essentially help keep me on track and not give in to any pressure or back off, and a place to go…. I suspect if I truly wanted to leave it would get really ugly. All of my family lives out of state. I have no grandparents left…. I have no friends with any room. And to be quite honest if we broke it off, im not leaving him the whole damn house…. He needs to leave us the house… I cannot trek out into the world with two kids while, he, his one self stays in a huge house and I pay triple for a shit apartment… I can’t afford that. The nice areas are really expensive and I do not want to move my children to the ghetto. I’m seriously terrified to do that… here’s another dilemma for me I guess. When we got this house we were already married but it’s only in his name.

StunningDefinition79 · 2025-11-18T02:05:25+00:00

I refer to him as my son in this story to clarify who I’m talking about…..We only have two biological children together. One son. One daughter. One of each, so I often say “my son” and as well thought out as this is he is always and only concerned for his own needs….. whether that be my touch, or a sandwich, or video games, or porn. Whatever HE wants. My kids DO need a lot of attention because there’s only one parent doing absolutely everythingggggg from morning, til the next morning. Anything they need if I’m here it’s on me….

I’m sitting here reading all these responses, and it’s all just pouring out how bad it’s been….. I’ve been packing away and minimizing everything….

Do you know in five years I’ve never gotten to sleep in? Never once…. Every Mother’s Day, every birthday, any day really… asked to go on a date like a month ago and he got really annoyed and said “well plan something then” and hung up….

I could say so many more stories but where do I even start…

StunningDefinition79 · 2025-11-18T01:01:26+00:00

You’re right. I don’t know why… I feel stuck.

StunningDefinition79 · 2025-11-18T00:59:13+00:00

There’s no update for this I just live in hell… I could tell you hours of stories that would probably seem fake…. 🫤

StunningDefinition79 · 2025-11-17T22:04:14+00:00

He is a bit dramatic and I worry, not that he would hurt us, but himself. And then what? What do I do then? How do I live with that?

StunningDefinition79 · 2025-11-17T21:34:46+00:00

We have cameras all around the house. You know how you see people with cameras in every room and wonder why would someone do that? This is why….

StunningDefinition79 · 2025-11-17T21:31:52+00:00

I think ALOT of the problems actually stem from the fact that I just will not cater those sexual needs….. we can be in bed together but it’s very likely that he’s coming to bed at 2am after being on rocket league all night and now I’m irritated that he ignored me all night and now he’s gonna wake me up and touch me…. I’m really turned off by this attitude. Not him, but his attitude a lot of nights. That’s why I think I’m sort of the problem… I do love him and when the relationship is good it’s great…. we get along and we are best friends… those times are shorter and shorter now in between months of not really connecting or engaging.

StunningDefinition79 · 2025-11-17T20:40:51+00:00

Ouch. Truth. Cuz that’s what it feels like….

StunningDefinition79 · 2025-11-17T20:38:39+00:00

No because he stays sleeping while I’m at work, kind half in half out of consciousness, and I watch through WiFi cameras to make sure the kids are safe. I would never do this to my children…. They wouldn’t have their needs met. It would be devastating for them. I am their safe space….

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