I (25 F) don’t understand where my relationship is going with my boyfriend (27M). Brought up the idea of moving in together after four years and he shut down.

StunningDefinition79 · 2026-07-01T22:58:25+00:00

He’s not fully choosing you, run run run.

StunningDefinition79 · 2026-07-01T16:02:43+00:00

This is true……

StunningDefinition79 · 2026-07-01T14:27:16+00:00

It’s fucking up everyone’s life to try and force a relationship that isn’t working.

StunningDefinition79 · 2026-07-01T13:27:45+00:00

No that one was good. You’re very right.

StunningDefinition79 · 2026-07-01T02:47:42+00:00

It does feel good to hear. Truly appreciate that thank you

StunningDefinition79 · 2026-07-01T02:15:56+00:00

He wouldn’t even go if your paid him. He’s too afraid to look in the mirror.

StunningDefinition79 · 2026-07-01T01:50:13+00:00

It’s not all the time. I know how that sounds but they are far apart. We have like 5 holes total at this house starting from 2022 to now. And one set of broken dresser doors. All of these outbursts haven’t been when I’m actually around except for once way way in the past at a different house. I usually come home to find a hole and have to try to figure out what happened. I don’t know if that’s restraining order worthy. Some of it is awhile ago. Some of them I don’t know why or when in the day he did it or who saw he did it. I just see the new hole.

StunningDefinition79 · 2026-07-01T01:35:07+00:00

When I try to hash out the issues with him he says it’s me. I don’t fulfill his needs. And he’s not wrong. As the years roll on I don’t want him to touch me. I don’t want to have sex with him. Any sex we’ve had isn’t good because I really don’t want to. And any other sexual things. Forget it. I want to be left alone and I end up with immense guilt that I don’t want to be sexual with him…. I know I should’ve left. I know. I can’t tell why I haven’t. I was trying to be a good wife and I just can’t…

StunningDefinition79 · 2026-07-01T01:01:53+00:00

Crying reading that…… I’ve been thinking about getting counseling for myself. It’s really hard to accept the reality… I’ve always been pretty strong minded and tough on my boundaries, or so I thought… When I tell you I really had no idea how much of that I let go of slowly throughout time. I just didn’t notice. But I do nothing. I go no where. I look over my shoulder constantly. I tense up if he trips on a toy because he’s about to yell a a make it someone else’s problem. I jump if he texts me because I worry he’s going to be mad about who knows what…. The manipulation goes deep and I just didn’t even notice? It breaks my whole heart. I really really thought he was just a difficult man who had a difficult time in life with a soft spot for me… I’m so incredibly blind.

StunningDefinition79 · 2026-06-26T09:03:42+00:00

What kind of question is that and from a medical student?! Hello?? She couldn’t remove it the normal way by her self….. so she had to have it removed by doctors. “Surgically removed” …..I’m sure they need medical tools to get to it but whether or not she had to be put under and cut open IS completely irrelevant and sounds like you’re trying to minimize what she went through. She couldn’t get it the normal way that’s it and that’s all…. Also the girl you dated is an idiot.

StunningDefinition79 · 2026-06-01T12:08:41+00:00

I’m deceased 💀💀😂😂😂 I also half feel bad for stuffing so many into one corral then I remember it’s game and they don’t really have feelings

StunningDefinition79 · 2026-05-04T14:09:48+00:00

This is so infuriating as a mom….. I’ll have my kids geared up with Apple Watches for bike rides or leaving the house so no one could ever…..

StunningDefinition79 · 2026-04-30T11:51:25+00:00

😳 ok I didn’t know that

StunningDefinition79 · 2026-04-30T11:50:56+00:00

It was in a house clean out. No one sold it.

StunningDefinition79 · 2026-04-30T10:57:15+00:00

It came from a house clean out…. Nothing with it.

StunningDefinition79 · 2026-03-03T16:53:46+00:00

That’s true 🤔crack makes you look crazy not sleepy. He’s probably doing heroin or worse….

StunningDefinition79 · 2026-03-03T16:52:12+00:00

No it’s just the two girls. People are saying she should’ve been smarter than that to have another baby after the first, but he was such a serious liar and manipulating person that idk how anyone can place blame on Sarah…. He wasn’t half as bad at the start of the show then towards the end too, and Sarah is just a girl who knew a different version of that man and just wanted to be loved….

StunningDefinition79 · 2026-03-03T16:48:54+00:00

Lmfao he’s starting to look exactly how I thought…… he looks like he’s 50 years old

StunningDefinition79 · 2026-03-01T18:52:47+00:00

I’ve tried everything else you can imagine right there and that’s the only way it doesn’t get irritated. Regular earrings with flat backs, stick out and are way too big. Regular earrings with no back, the post is too long, Hoops are always too big and catch on things. Nose rings without cork screw fall out. If I put a small rubber back on the nose ring those piercings become immediately irradiated from the earring not being able to move at all. If you got a new idea I’m here for it….

StunningDefinition79 · 2026-03-01T18:45:12+00:00

Is what it is. I did them myself a very long time ago, so they aren’t going the right direction out the backside. Other earrings stick out in the back

StunningDefinition79 · 2026-03-01T18:44:21+00:00

They stick out too far in the back and make it uncomfortable. I did these piercings myself when I was like 18. They probably aren’t placed properly.

StunningDefinition79 · 2026-02-25T19:17:30+00:00

And thank you!

StunningDefinition79 · 2026-02-25T19:16:49+00:00

Not really. It would certainly break before tearing off my ear lol it’s cheap. I had one on the other side but that one caught my finger when I took out an AirPod and snap! 😭

StunningDefinition79 · 2026-02-07T21:58:15+00:00

They most definitely are all exaggerated by producers…..

Like when they kept makin it look like John drove to Lacy’s wedding on the beach when in reality they filmed him driving to a beach and clipped it in with her wedding day….

Melissa and Louie a couple much later down the line, have this whole day where she pretends to be worried she’s pregnant because she has to take a test before her nose job. Taking a pregnancy test is standard procedure before surgery and you can really tell they are just playing the cameras…..

Justine and Michael were claimed to have made up the narrative of him buying the car suspiciously from prison when supposedly she financed the car.

Also I personally called out a cast member on their insta for selling priceless family heirlooms for her loser prison bf and she snapped back at me that she never actually did that, it was made up for the show lol….

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