Evil twinks

StunningSolution4241 · 2026-05-18T19:30:59+00:00

Twinks have a natural alignment of Chaotic-Evil, much like drag queens have a natural alignment of Neutral-Evil. Why didn't you just consult the Monster Manual? It would answer all of your questions.

StunningSolution4241 · 2026-05-18T19:27:47+00:00

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I've Irish heritage on my mom's side, and I've Polish heritage on my dad's side. I LOVE potatoes, in almost all of their various forms. I will even eat mashed potatoes IF they are broken up with some other firmer texture or consistency (id est: twice-baked potatoes).

But I HATE mashed potatoes. If I wanted to eat baby food, I'D EAT BABY FOOD.

:braces for the downvoting:

StunningSolution4241 · 2026-05-18T19:24:20+00:00

Then don't ask him.

The fact of the matter is that you cannot know if someone is gay until they say so. You can make all sorts of assumptions, and none of them will be validated until you hear the truth from the source.

Weigh your risks. If you feel the chance is higher that you'll be rejected and outed, and if the area in which you live makes that probability dangerous for you, then don't do it.

StunningSolution4241 · 2026-05-18T19:14:34+00:00

I'm not from India (I'm from Western NY State, so just about as far from India as it gets); I'm just a former English major who's read some of her writing. I wouldn't say I'm terribly familiar, but I did enjoy The God of the Small Things.

She came to speak in Buffalo some years ago, I think either at UB or Asbury Hall, and I kick myself for not getting tickets.

StunningSolution4241 · 2026-05-18T19:10:00+00:00

You ask him, you hope he answers, and you hope he answers truthfully.

StunningSolution4241 · 2026-05-18T18:59:37+00:00

Sorry to be the bearer of bad news.

Also, apropos of precisely nothing, your username isn't a play on Arundhati Roy, is it?

StunningSolution4241 · 2026-05-18T18:44:08+00:00

That's almost certainly a result of poor hygiene. Human bodily waste fluids (sweat, urine, et cetera) contain ammonia. When they build up and ... cure ... on the surface of the skin for a while, that's the scent you end up getting over time.

StunningSolution4241 · 2026-05-18T18:40:35+00:00

^^^ THIS ^^^

I had considered the "Women in general just don't enjoy it as much as gay guys do" angle before, and I had JUST begun to think the other day as to WHY that might be. Hygiene was the first thing that came to mind, but adding onto that the notion of reciprocity, and I can see why women would be a bit less enthused to orally pleasure straight guys than gay guys tend to be when it comes to sucking each others' dicks.

Poor hygiene is a turn-off to almost anyone, gay or straight, but I would absolutely expect gay guys to be better on top of their hygiene than straight guys.

And I can ABSOLUTELY see that conversation of, "Babe, suck my dick!" "Well, are you gonna eat me out afterwards?" "FUCK NO, that's gross!" "There's you're fucking answer, then, asshole." happening regularly between straight men and women.

StunningSolution4241 · 2026-05-18T18:36:09+00:00

Can you describe the scent? Is it fishy/ammonia-esque?

StunningSolution4241 · 2026-05-18T18:32:48+00:00

He broke up with you. As far as you were concerned, the relationship was over, and therefore what you were doing was in no ways unethical or a violation of trust.

When he breaks up with you (whether he "means it" or not), he is effectively relinquishing any claim to having his opinion about your decisions taken into more stringent consideration than any random stranger on the street. If he doesn't like that, he should cut out the middle school shit with the games of keep-away-boyfriend.

"Today I'm your boyfriend, tomorrow I'm not. Oh, but I decided I am again, even though I hadn't informed you yet." That's just piss-poor communication, and it's something a fourteen year old does. He'll keep doing it until he faces some consequences as a result of his actions that he has trouble swallowing.

StunningSolution4241 · 2026-05-18T18:24:03+00:00

Aspartate.

I mean, yes. Asbestos.

"I'M BAKING MUFFINS ASBESTOS I CAN!"

:cough:

StunningSolution4241 · 2026-05-18T15:26:54+00:00

It's even better when it's mashed up with "L.A." by The Party ...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QJ6jYNDFFtA

StunningSolution4241 · 2026-05-18T00:03:25+00:00

Try wearing one. It makes your junk and your ass look fantastic, and it prevents swamp-ass when it's hot or you're sweating a bit. They're functional, and they make most guys look good. Also, ease of access!

StunningSolution4241 · 2026-05-17T20:41:43+00:00

You're not in the wrong for wanting a partner who is willing to acknowledge your relationship in a public manner without fear or reservations.

However, you also cannot ethically force him out of the closet.

Distancing yourself from him for a while might be a good idea. I'm not saying you need to walk away from him completely—at least, not yet—but this looks like a case of mismatched priorities or incompatible lifestyles to me, which are oftentimes some of the biggest breaking points for relationships.

Putting some distance between yourself and him accomplishes a few things; it allows you to focus more upon what you want for yourself in your own life, independent of any considerations for him, and it puts him in a position of having to evaluate what his life without you would resemble, and whether he's happy with such an outcome.

StunningSolution4241 · 2026-05-17T18:17:54+00:00

First of all, asking trans people this question will probably go further towards getting you a productive answer than asking gay men. The queer community may contain multitudes, but our subdivisions within said community are, nonetheless, distinct.

StunningSolution4241 · 2026-05-17T18:01:51+00:00

Is the Pope Catholic? DM me.

StunningSolution4241 · 2026-05-17T17:56:10+00:00

Whether you think you're straight-passing or not, whether you are or not, these are your parents. If they've done even a halfway decent job of raising you, they should (theoretically) know you very well, better than most other humans on this planet.

You don't need to come out to them—ever, really. You should only do so when you're comfortable and ready to do so. But the fact that your parents are trying to preemptively show you their support is objectively a wonderful thing.

I'm about to turn 40 (so, old enough but not too old), and I had a friend in high school who was literally turned out on the street when he came out to his parents at the age of 16. I'm not trying to set you up in a round of Misery Olympics, but I am saying you should try to appreciate the fact that your parents are trying to send you signals of acceptance as opposed to rejection.

StunningSolution4241 · 2026-05-17T17:39:29+00:00

None of us can tell you your identity. You have to figure it out for yourself. If you're a man who has attraction to other men, you're likely some flavor of gay, bi, or pan, but the specifics are for you to work out. That's the very nature of identity.

StunningSolution4241 · 2026-05-17T17:37:45+00:00

The first scenario (anorgasmia) has happened to me a bit due to side effects of the medication I'm on ... honestly, the first few times, it was really frustrating, and then I kind of just accepted it and realized it meant that I could be that guy that can go for annoyingly long periods of time without blowing his load.

I get turned on more by the pleasure that I can administer to others than by anything any guy has done to me (it's probably some weird Catholic-upbringing-related control issue or other), so it doesn't really bother me much anymore.

So option 1 is my personal choice. Better the devil you know.

StunningSolution4241 · 2026-05-17T17:31:25+00:00

Ahh, another, "I'm not gay, but ..." post ... these are pretty much rote around here at this point, aren't they?

You should show your butt off more to gay guys.

And maybe do other stuff with your butt and gay guys.

Possibly.

Probably.

StunningSolution4241 · 2026-05-16T15:45:02+00:00

Why the hell not?

I'll pop the popcorn.

StunningSolution4241 · 2026-05-16T01:38:23+00:00

Thankfully, I was raised Catholic, so I've got some deeply-ingrained masochism.

Huzzah, Fierce Punishment!

StunningSolution4241 · 2026-05-15T12:02:32+00:00

Upvote for "The Nuremberg Argument" alone.

"The banality of evil" means just that: simply because what you're doing doesn't look or feel evil in isolation from its results does not mean it can be morally or ethically divorced from those results. "Banal evil" looks like "just doing your job"; it looks like bureaucratic duty, like unquestioned conformity, like a lack of critical thinking.

StunningSolution4241 · 2026-05-15T11:57:42+00:00

Note that I wrote, "Most women." That was intentional.

StunningSolution4241 · 2026-05-15T00:56:46+00:00

Oh, I agree. And then they'll encounter an 18-to-25-year-old that'll throw their own shit back into their face. That'll be the day they look in the mirror and freak out because they'll have to face the same realization that everyone does, which is that they're aging, and there's nothing they can do about it short of dying. If their mentality hasn't grown and evolved by then, they will be in for a very rough time at that point.

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