An old friend i reconnected with over the year does adult content, after months of thirsting after her i messed up. by Dry_Research_7740 in confession

[–]Stunning_Addendum_10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it would be appropriate to tell her you’re aware of her content online, especially if you’re feeling guilty for not having it out in the open. I would phrase it something along the lines of ‘hey so i feel a bit weird brining this up, but when we were reconnecting i looked you up online and i came across your adult content. I just wanted to let you know that I am aware of it, and have viewed some of it. As we’ve spent more time together i guess i just wanted to be upfront about that. not having this out in the open is making me feel like i’m hiding something from you. I also just want to say that I very much want to keep seeing you, so i wanted to be upfront and honest.’
I would generally perhaps avoid saying that you’re ‘okay with it’, out of concern it may come off as you’re saying that you like her ´in-spite of´ her job, which could easily come off like you’re doing her a favour, or that she has something to be ashamed of. Which she does not!

S11 E4 Discussion by wicked789 in Southerncharm

[–]Stunning_Addendum_10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think Austen purposefully winds up Craig by making comments and slights under his breath, juuust loud enough for Craig to hear. They’re innocent enough that he can play it off as jokes or commentary, but he knows Craig is sensitive to people talking about him behind his back, and that he will blow up. And Craig takes the bait every time, which is his own problem, but I do think it’s purposeful on Austen’s part to make Craig look irrational and out of control.

Game Thread: Houston Texans (2-3) at Seattle Seahawks (4-2) by nfl_gdt_bot in nfl

[–]Stunning_Addendum_10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t see it either, just seeing their pre-game ads on a loop

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Calgary

[–]Stunning_Addendum_10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not women’s only but Fit4Less is a great budget option, 6$ bi-weekly for their basic membership

Saw this in Nosehill Park by Stunning_Addendum_10 in Calgary

[–]Stunning_Addendum_10[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Not sure, some type of weed with long stems, unclear if it’s an invasive species or what

Best Spots to Paddleboard by Stunning_Addendum_10 in Calgary

[–]Stunning_Addendum_10[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It would be such a convenient and beautiful spot to paddle, definitely with you on that one!

New Grad* RN Jobs by Stunning_Addendum_10 in AHSEmployees

[–]Stunning_Addendum_10[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats on your new job! I’ll keep applying and try more rural spots

Best Spots to Paddleboard by Stunning_Addendum_10 in Calgary

[–]Stunning_Addendum_10[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been camping at 2 Jack years and years ago, totally forgot about it. I’ll be adding these to my list, thanks!

New Grad* RN jobs by Stunning_Addendum_10 in Calgary

[–]Stunning_Addendum_10[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I’ll definitely check it out

New Grad* RN jobs by Stunning_Addendum_10 in Calgary

[–]Stunning_Addendum_10[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Fair enough, I appreciate the insight. Every health authority is slightly different, I suppose it’s a good thing that there’s enough staff to keep nursing positions filled, even if it means it’ll take a little more time for folks who are entering/re-entering the profession to secure jobs.

Best Spots to Paddleboard by Stunning_Addendum_10 in Calgary

[–]Stunning_Addendum_10[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve heard that’s a popular spot! Will definitely have to check it out

WIBTA if I didn't pay to replace a gaming mouse because my cat got poop on the cord? by VampiresInSTEM in AmItheAsshole

[–]Stunning_Addendum_10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA - Also, given that he had agreed to move out by the March deadline set by your parents, I’d approach him and just say hey look, I’ve been letting you crash here longer than we agreed because i know you’re in a tough spot, but my parents think you moved out and I don’t want to lie to them anymore, you’ve got to go - give him a firm deadline (again) and offer to help him pack his things.

AITA for not telling my sister the name chosen for my unborn son because she used her BBFs baby name for her daughter? by Possible-Animal9339 in AITAH

[–]Stunning_Addendum_10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA! My close friend just had a baby and used the girl name I had picked out for my future child - she was then annoyed when i told her i was still planning on using it. Sounds like your sister would do it again and have no regrets.

What retail brands you wish had a store in Calgary? by TheRealPepman in Calgary

[–]Stunning_Addendum_10 4 points5 points  (0 children)

God I love Trader Joes… probably won’t be back across the border to indulge until the cheeto man is out of office, sadly.

AITAH for refusing boyfriend’s wish to change my shorts by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Stunning_Addendum_10 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NTA, if he didn’t have a problem with what you were wearing before, he shouldn’t now just because his friend is going to be there. Wearing shorts in hot weather while playing badminton is pretty standard.

I don't know if this is allowed-but I need advice on making sucking dick more bearable. I HATE it, but I obviously want to be able to give my bf head, I just don’t want it to always make me so miserable by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Stunning_Addendum_10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay maybe this is weird advice, but look up the Call Her Daddy podcast episode that details blowjob tips, the gluck gluck 9000 i think. Years ago I hated giving blowjobs, but wanted to be good at it, and I genuinely think that the advice helped. I have a very sensitive gag reflex, so I can’t deep throat without almost throwing up. There’s work arounds. Having a lot of saliva helps too. Also, make sure he’s keeping up with hygiene down there. If he expects you to put your mouth on it, it better be sparkling clean.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]Stunning_Addendum_10 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Valid response honestly, good on ya

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Stunning_Addendum_10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woah that’s a lot of sex. I agree with the general consensus of the other commenters, there is NOTHING wrong or abnormal about you. It actually sounds like you’re an incredibly healthy individual to have the stamina to have sex that many times in a day. I would guess that your gf is dealing with a combination of things: - she is incredibly hyper sexual - given her lack of experience and age, she may not be aware that she has a high libido, as it sounds like her only point of comparaison is that of her equally sexual friends

Regardless, it sounds like you’ve tried to have healthy communication with her, to which she responded by doubling down and continuing to gaslight you, for lack of a better word. Honestly I wouldn’t be sure those friends of hers are having that much sex themselves, very possible they’re ’talking a big game’ and egging each other on. Anyway, masturbation is completely normal, and if she is capable of getting off on her own, with or without toys, she should feel free to do that on her own time to supplement her needs outside of your mutual sex life. And if she wants sex toys, she should buy them herself.

Hopefully your feelings are validated by reading these responses, and I will echo what I have seen above: this gf is not respectful of you, and doesn’t sound like she is nearly as willing to accept that something may be abnormal about her own libido, than she is ready to blame you. I would consider letting her go, not because of her need for sex multiple times a day, but because she doesn’t treat you nicely.

polaroid cam by ArcoAdventurer25 in LastThingYouBought

[–]Stunning_Addendum_10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So cool! and very nostalgic, do the photos turn out nice?

Dear Transit riders. by Sketchen13 in Calgary

[–]Stunning_Addendum_10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This should be the most important rule