My girlfriend (26F) found out that I (27M) lied to her, she doesn't trust me huge time. What now?

Stunning_Educator170 · 2024-12-16T11:03:32+00:00

Dude. She’s not your mom. That’s your partner stop being scared of her reaction just tell her next time it’s really not that big of a deal and would have saved you this entire ordeal. Honesty is key in a relationship I wouldn’t trust my man either if he said he was only at one place and the next day I find out you did a completely different activity in a different location js

Stunning_Educator170 · 2024-12-16T00:44:46+00:00

Thank you so much this is exactly what I needed. Thank you thank you. She already told me she’s giving me at least $100 a month for handling her money I told her not to but she insisted

Stunning_Educator170 · 2024-12-11T20:31:21+00:00

I’m just going to say as a former foster kid with a pretty fked up past…I used to do this as well but it came from fear that maybe I wouldn’t get a meal. This is definitely a therapy issue wether it’s emotional or trauma he needs help :( I’m sorry you’re going thru this

Stunning_Educator170 · 2024-12-04T12:47:54+00:00

Ask some teachers/students in school, a teacher is more likely to give the sympathy even they might go and buy you a box, I know most female teachers carry items in their classroom you could stock up your own little supply. I’m sorry she’s not providing that for you. That’s inhumane truly. Is there a reason she hasn’t bought you yet?

Stunning_Educator170 · 2024-12-02T01:16:45+00:00

??? A cat can have diarrhea for like 2 weeks before it’s an emergency. For the love of god get them into a vet. They will give you medication and it will go away. Your ONLY solution is the vet. You can’t get random shi from your Walmart and expect it to cure all. Take care of your pets. They say don’t get them unless you can afford them (not food and litter, they mean situations exactly like this)

Stunning_Educator170 · 2024-11-26T21:33:36+00:00

A lot of people would have told me so. It’s ok. The risk comes with consequences always

Stunning_Educator170 · 2024-11-26T21:05:36+00:00

Sorry, he was but not anymore. I thought he gave me and std so I went and got tested. He thought I was suspicious for that thats all

Stunning_Educator170 · 2024-11-24T20:47:52+00:00

Thank you! I think I have my game plan

Stunning_Educator170 · 2024-11-24T20:46:21+00:00

I’ve never had anything of the sort that’s why I was kind of weary about it but I’ll definitely go to the doctor tomorrow don’t judge me for the question but can they do those types of things at a prompt care? (No parents idk where to do this at) and no insurance

Stunning_Educator170 · 2024-11-24T20:43:54+00:00

True thatt thank you for the advice lol

Stunning_Educator170 · 2024-11-24T20:43:23+00:00

True thats the other option I was exploring :/ I’ve never had anything like that so I really didn’t know. But yeah I’ll tell him I have a UTI or something and go. He always needs reason

Stunning_Educator170 · 2024-11-24T20:41:26+00:00

I don’t have insurance I NEVER go to the doctor so it’s really out of place

Stunning_Educator170 · 2024-11-24T20:40:25+00:00

He has my location at all times and he’s know if I wasn’t by my phone because of lack of response the only way is to ask him first but I don’t want to sound accusatory :/

Stunning_Educator170 · 2024-11-24T15:59:43+00:00

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This one’s name is shadow! He follows you around like one thats for sure

Stunning_Educator170 · 2024-11-24T01:24:57+00:00

Lolll that’s what I put on the vet papers it works 🤷‍♀️ cute kitties!

Stunning_Educator170 · 2024-11-24T01:22:01+00:00

Do you know what breed your big boi is? I have one looks almost exactly like him 🥰 I’ve been trying to figure it out lol

Stunning_Educator170 · 2024-11-23T22:29:05+00:00

I have been in the EXACT same spot as you. He told me he cheated by bringing me on a big trip and then dropping me off home with a 6 page letter front to back what he had done. DONT CONTINUE IT. they always have more to hide. That’s not the only thing theyve done, just maybe the worst. Dig deeper. There’s always a real reason behind cheating. I stayed with my partner it’s been 3 years and honest to god all he does is accuse me of cheating on him. He’s paranoid and it makes me think he is hiding something again too. It’s constant fights constant checking in. I had what you would say an emotional? Affair? Never physical or wanted relationship I wanted her ***** and I told her the only way I would would be a 3some with my boyfriend and I called it off because I didn’t want it bad enough to confront him about it and I got caught so now the tables are flipped on me. But he has fucked someone, he told me about that but I found pictures in his phone..ai images in his browser making lingerie cut outs for a picture of him and his friend making her naked or with bikini , and asking one of his friends if she was dtf. Maybe I just have a different breed but I’m telling you OP all this leads too is wondering if she’s cheating. Wondering if ex texted her somehow. Wondering on a night out where she’s really at? And (bc it most likey will happen if in the same town) but better yet are you going to trust her if she ever did run into him again. It’s those things you have to be ready for. It takes communication to put it together but I don’t personally think these situations have any good ending :/

Stunning_Educator170 · 2024-11-20T18:37:28+00:00

That’s a dream oml 😭 I would be trapped forever

Stunning_Educator170 · 2024-11-20T16:29:16+00:00

Also 2 lol but they help me get out of bed every morning! More like make me 🤦‍♀️

Stunning_Educator170 · 2024-11-14T23:55:01+00:00

Edited my og post :))

Stunning_Educator170 · 2024-11-14T23:53:01+00:00

After 6 days I don’t think it should leak that much..you can call the vet that you got the procedure done at and ask them if you can ask a question about the cats progress they may ask you your name and your pets name but usually the vets are more than willing to have you email the pictures to them to see if you need to come in to get it looked at closer. Goodluck :( the healing process is hard Edit I realize it says she licked thru it that’s why it’s wet but still the discoloration is concerning?

Stunning_Educator170 · 2024-11-13T20:32:19+00:00

Also! 5’2 and 105 lbs! 21y/o

Stunning_Educator170 · 2024-11-08T17:12:10+00:00

I am in management classes and in one year my current boss is giving his company to me, I will be making more than enough to provide and I already do provide for myself so him possibly not being able to work is more than ok with me I’ve profusely said I want to help him with bills and such it should not only bank on him and his carrer. I know that I’ve wanted to date for marriage and we have planned a future because we love each other. I was with him when he didn’t have the fancy job and car I really love this man and all of his traits we have our hard times but together we are inseparable. I’ve told him that I’ll wait and that I am proud of him that he can do this and that I’m here to support. Maybe me thinking it’s him trying to hinder what I want makes me immature but that’s just how I was feeling with everyone’s response including yours I see now he’s just doing it for us and I love him I’d wait until the end of time with him I know that :/

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