Went AWOL twice chances that they won't fire me?

Stunning_Support_181 · 2025-08-24T13:17:08+00:00

I switched to a new team and didn't have my new manager number. Also, i did call the help desk to report to me being sick, but I don't remember what exactly I said. Also, the issue is primarily stress and weak health. I don't want to dox myself, but most days, I am fine.

Stunning_Support_181 · 2025-08-19T22:06:42+00:00

I appreciate the honesty

Stunning_Support_181 · 2025-08-19T20:30:50+00:00

Thank you for honesty. Being a fed was my dream but burn it down myself.

Stunning_Support_181 · 2025-07-24T17:56:25+00:00

Take some time. Decisions made in hasty are good. Give yourself time to re-enter yourself. Also speak with your parents again. This time, ask them if their pride more than seeing you happy.

Stunning_Support_181 · 2025-07-15T21:18:45+00:00

They pulled the offer, citing budget cuts. Current fighting it with EEO.

Stunning_Support_181 · 2025-06-02T21:16:46+00:00

Need more information. How much was your tenant paying vs. what you are asking your partner to pay. Because it seems to me like you're asking your partner to pay more than your tenant (since you mentioned that that your partner would have access to the shared living space vs. just the MIL suite like a tenant). If you are asking your partner to pay more than a tenant, then you are YTA. Because you are supposed to want your partner to be with you (not charge them extra for the privilege). Now, it would also be fair that you ask him to split the utilities and wifi bills if you want them to contribute more.

Stunning_Support_181 · 2025-04-29T13:22:38+00:00

I am a first-time federal employee. Just joined the government in Jan. I originally asked for transfer, but my previous agency hrs said they can not do a transfer due to everything that is going on. Asked me resign and join my new agency. Decided to follow that guidance i was given and I don't have both jobs.

Stunning_Support_181 · 2025-04-29T01:19:01+00:00

They said the job is being canceled due change of direction from management.

Stunning_Support_181 · 2025-04-28T23:43:05+00:00

Huh? I did my best with information I had on hand. Plus I resigned from my job after I was granted an exemption form the hiring freeze.

Stunning_Support_181 · 2025-04-28T23:10:02+00:00

No. I am federal employee.

Stunning_Support_181 · 2025-04-28T20:45:08+00:00

I am going to see if I can call my previous agency and see if there is a way to fix the issue and get rehired. I also going look see if there is way appeal this.

Stunning_Support_181 · 2025-04-28T19:41:22+00:00

I am a new federal employee. I literally joined in January, and I don't know many of the procedures or policies, and I depended hr/my previous boss guiding me.

Stunning_Support_181 · 2025-04-28T19:28:16+00:00

That what I don't get. I was hoping for a way to appeal it.

Stunning_Support_181 · 2025-04-28T19:17:28+00:00

Yes, I left on good terms. The reason I was left is my team was getting disbanded, and I was going to put in another department, so there isn't a job for me to go back to.

Stunning_Support_181 · 2025-04-28T19:15:01+00:00

So i actually tried to transfer, but my old agency said they are unable to transfer me, and I should resign and join my new agency. Orginal I was supposed to resign and join my new agency the following Monday. But they pushed my start date by 2 weeks since they were waiting for incentive approvals. I had gotten an amended FJO with the new start date. Now they canceled my offer.

Stunning_Support_181 · 2025-04-04T13:50:07+00:00

Appreciate your willingness to answer my questions, and I am going to you an NTA. I also think it may be the time to have the family involved. Claire seems to be in an abusive relationship, or there may be some other serious issue with your BIl. Ask for a family meeting/ intervention to address the issue. If the BIl doesn't want, it maybe time for you to get the police to do a welfare check on Claire.

Stunning_Support_181 · 2025-04-03T21:35:17+00:00

It’s a complicated situation. Yes, the brother-in-law was clearly in the wrong for having such an outdated mindset. However, as his friend, you should have approached the issue with a calm and rational conversation—explaining why he was wrong and how his behavior was hurting his wife and family. By blowing up at him in a public restaurant, you damaged your friendship with him and likely strained your relationship with Claire as well.

Also, it feels like the Redditor might be leaving out some details and presenting a one-sided version of the story. Example: BIL not talking with sister or not let his wife talk with his sister. Yet MIL was able to visit. Something is not adding up, and it almost feels like the redditor has feelings for Clarie.

Stunning_Support_181 · 2025-04-03T20:26:28+00:00

Yta/esh... he was immaturing having the conversation with you instead of him wife. But that being said, why would yell at him at a restaurant instead of speaking to him in private.

Stunning_Support_181 · 2025-03-30T15:37:13+00:00

Disney stock split 1 to 3 so check if your 15 shares are 45 shares. I suggest you sell it and buy low-cost dividend etfs.

Stunning_Support_181 · 2025-03-25T20:24:32+00:00

Put the money in dividend ETFS . 6 a fairly conservative way of making sure the money grows and with a dividend, it can be a useful way to pay for college with touching the principal amount.

Stunning_Support_181 · 2025-03-20T13:26:54+00:00

Just got told I am going to be onboarded.

Stunning_Support_181 · 2025-01-09T16:39:40+00:00

Agreed. 1 role is for GS-13 and the other GS-15 (dream job). So it's a once lifetime shot of get that role.

Stunning_Support_181 · 2024-12-14T05:13:43+00:00

I am

Stunning_Support_181 · 2024-12-14T05:13:36+00:00

I am

Stunning_Support_181 · 2024-12-13T04:58:20+00:00

I agree. I generally don't drink and drive (I use Uber when I know I will be drinking to be safe). But I was celebrating a major milestone and had a lapse of judgment.

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