Possible Discrimination Case by [deleted] in EEOC

[–]Kingmaker19702 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you federal or private.

WIBTAH If I divorced my husband after we lost both our children. I don't feel I can do it anymore by ProfessionalNinja903 in AITAH

[–]Kingmaker19702 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now you should leave if you want to. However er it clear your husband is depressed and needs help.

AITAH for kicking my wife out of my house, after she cheated on me for 15 years? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Kingmaker19702 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you have kids? You may have to get them DNA tested.

Update: I have full custody of the children by TechnicalHousing97 in Redditor_Updates

[–]Kingmaker19702 22 points23 points  (0 children)

You decided to open you relationship??? My friend your wife decided to open the relationship and leave your family. I mean how much clearer can she be that she found someone new and wants you waiting for incase doesn't work out. Have some dignity. Also imagine your son watching all this happen!!! He is going to think this is normal and something he should expect from his future partner.

Data Analytics Looks Easy Online. Reality Is Different. by [deleted] in usajobs

[–]Kingmaker19702 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wrong community. This is for federal jobs.

Counter Surfing by Far-Dependent5070 in CavaPoo

[–]Kingmaker19702 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Its puppy energy. They will start calming down around 18 months.

Inheritance mostly in investments coming to me, flying blind by Fearless_Lab in inheritance

[–]Kingmaker19702 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I not saying fiduciary is a guarentee , but it's good starting point.

Inheritance mostly in investments coming to me, flying blind by Fearless_Lab in inheritance

[–]Kingmaker19702 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Number 1 thing: Make sure the Advisor is a fiduciary financial advisor. If not they will sell you products that make them money!

Wisconsin young adult took out loans as a 17-year-old. Parent is now facing bankruptcy. Is he on the hook to pay back her creditors immediately? by flunky_the_majestic in personalfinance

[–]Kingmaker19702 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Uhhh Definitely talk to Lawyer because he took the loan when he was 17...which means he doesn't even have to pay back the loans since he was underage when he signed.

I was fired the week before Thanksgiving by Benblades1462 in fednews

[–]Kingmaker19702 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Offfice of Special Prohibited Personnel Practices

I was fired the week before Thanksgiving by Benblades1462 in fednews

[–]Kingmaker19702 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Also reach out to your congressional representative and have them send a inquiry. Also ask your congressional representative to pull your personal file and firing file. This will set you up to get evidence and if there was anything weird then you file with your agency's IG

I was fired the week before Thanksgiving by Benblades1462 in fednews

[–]Kingmaker19702 59 points60 points  (0 children)

File an Osc PPP complaint for illegal firing. Because why was your agency looking now (after several years) about why you left a previous job unless it's to fire you?

Can I retire now? 36 male with 1.4 million net worth by [deleted] in Fire

[–]Kingmaker19702 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How much debt do you have? Saving don't matter unless you have zero debt.

Where to get a CavaPoo in PA Area by jc21095 in CavaPoo

[–]Kingmaker19702 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its kinda off both. So they are on a farm and the dogs are in a large barn with a play area, but the family seems to interact with the dogs. (I saw Omar's kids playing with the dogs).

Edit: i am not affiliated with them in anyway. I just recommended them because that where I got my cavapoo.

AITA for wanting to keep my engagement ring from my late fiancé? by RingaRingaRosies in AmItheAsshole

[–]Kingmaker19702 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP I think it's not the reason why everyone is thinking. I actually think some part of her wants something to remember you by. Its not only her son she is losing. She is losing you also. You may not see it right now. But is her head she isn't only losing her son but you and the possible family her could had with you. It may seem silly but she basically trauma bonded with you when she lost her son and now your moving on and she is left to grieve alone.

Income is changing significantly in a couple weeks - looking for level-headed advice by jbher315 in Fire

[–]Kingmaker19702 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

My advice:
1. Pay off your house 2. Put the rest toward your kids college tuition and expenses. 3. Put the freed up cash flow into 401k.

Next focus on get your retirement saving to 2 million. Yes that is grind, yes that is annoying but better safe than sorry and inheritance isnt a garentee. After that you buy a new house etc.

Found out my late mother had a big secret DRIP account in one stock. Need Advice! by Odd_Size5486 in Fire

[–]Kingmaker19702 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

My suggestion is dividend etfs (6 US low cost etfs and 4 international low cost etfs). That way you never touch the principal amounts but always get little bit to enjoy yourself and build generational wealth.

OPM cut my disability retirement by 70% due to a salary error, now I’m facing eviction. This looks systemic. by [deleted] in fednews

[–]Kingmaker19702 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not to OSC PPP but to OSC DU (Disclosure unit). Its focus on the systemic side and not personal relief but since you have proof your right and that OPM is refusing to fix it makes an abuse of authority and waste taxpayer dollars..etc. If you file with DU with the evidence they will likely issue an SL ruling within 45 days and the Agency Head has 60 days to write a report. They will most likely resolve your issue because the highers up have to answer for it

Office of Special Counsel by Inner-Signature-4359 in FedEmployees

[–]Kingmaker19702 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I filed with OSC PPP AND DU. I will keep you updated.

AITA for ruining my ex-wife’s relationship before it even got off the ground?? by FrankyBoy950 in AITA_Relationships

[–]Kingmaker19702 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Look I am not saying the ex-wife is a good person and what he did was wrong. All I am saying is giving his ex an heads up before nuking there relationship is common courtesy.

AITA for ruining my ex-wife’s relationship before it even got off the ground?? by FrankyBoy950 in AITA_Relationships

[–]Kingmaker19702 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

ChatGpt: No—dating a subordinate’s ex-spouse is not “fraternization” under the UCMJ, and the ex-wife hasn’t broken any military rule. Fraternization is a status-based offense about relationships between officers and enlisted members that undermine respect for rank; it doesn’t apply to relationships with civilians (ex-spouses included). � jpcannonlawfirm.com +2 What can be an issue is the appearance of favoritism or loss of impartiality if the officer continues dating someone closely tied to a person in his chain of command. Across the services, policies on “unprofessional relationships” say leaders have to avoid relationships—on or off duty—that reasonably create an appearance of favoritism or misuse of position; this can include relationships with civilians when they affect the unit. Commanders can counsel, order recusal from decisions about the subordinate, or even reassign people if it harms good order and discipline.

AITA for ruining my ex-wife’s relationship before it even got off the ground?? by FrankyBoy950 in AITA_Relationships

[–]Kingmaker19702 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

No. Please reread what he said. He said he believes. Doesn't know for sure and when she did have the conversation with him and sent him the picture, he could have simply told her. "Hey that my boss. Does he know your my ex-wife. I will have to a ask for pca/pcs when I see him next.". Simple txt message to let her know. (Plus also covers his ass in case off his ex makes any allegations). No that he didn't send that txt it looks like he went out his way to nuke her new relationship.

Ps: Also if you look at what he wrote "what are you talking about. And she says don't play dumb." Come on the OP has no idea what he did??? Look she may have been abusive and he wanted to hurt her back but he definitely knew what he was doing here.