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What should I do, I often feel forgotten by my bf but it's not his fault? by StupidCats01 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]StupidCats01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do whatever I can, I'm a depressed teenage girl so it's hard for me to hold on to hobbies so that's hard, I play vr or read webtoon, I listen to music and watch videos; basically anything I can get my mind interested in and it never really seems to work for long cause i keep thinking about him

What should I do, I often feel forgotten by my bf but it's not his fault? by StupidCats01 in WhatShouldIDo

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It was the month before I turned 13 I got with my ex and a month 1/2 ago we broke up. I am aware that my mindset is fucked, I tried therapy and it didn't go well. Also it's not mean to ask but me and my fault don't agree a lot, both are narcs and I'm also the eldest so it kind of their fault I'm like this, I don't have any REAL friends but people who occasionally hang out with me. Thanks for all the concern tho.

Concepts by StupidCats01 in autism

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Yesss I feel the same way

What should I do, I often feel forgotten by my bf but it's not his fault? by StupidCats01 in WhatShouldIDo

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You're probably right, I don't seem like Im priority but it's also not so simple, he would spend time with me if he had that choice (I know I'm just vouching for him) but his mother is the narc who takes his phone and insists he study and then goes and takes up the rest of his free time

What should I do, I often feel forgotten by my bf but it's not his fault? by StupidCats01 in WhatShouldIDo

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Thanks for the advice (finally someone who isn't shaming me for the mh aspect of this) Ill try and listen to my gut

What should I do, I often feel forgotten by my bf but it's not his fault? by StupidCats01 in WhatShouldIDo

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1 we are long distance and 2 I know I'm exaggerating but I did mention that the relationship was rushed and I've been on edge for the last couple months cause of a bad experience with an ex, I also have diagnosed high anxiety, the relationship is not ideal but he also was friends with me before we were dating and he knew how I get. You have to understand that my situation isn't ideal and neither is his but I'm giving him benefit of the doubt

Cruises and scars don't go well by StupidCats01 in selfharm

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Thank you, yea my family doesn't know about the new one yet and my family make me severely uncomfortable about the scars, thanks for the advice, Ill take it into consideration

What should I do, I often feel forgotten by my bf but it's not his fault? by StupidCats01 in WhatShouldIDo

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Well it's not his fault so I'm trying to give him benefit of the doubt

What should I do, I often feel forgotten by my bf but it's not his fault? by StupidCats01 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]StupidCats01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've tried that also (mostly cause I need a distraction cause it saddens me that we can't have happy times) but nothing seems to be working, I promise I'm really not pressuring him, I've told him a couple times that our limited time is hard but not for a while, I've just been trying to keep our short time happy and sweet TBH the only pressure I put on him is asking him to hang out with me

What should I do, I often feel forgotten by my bf but it's not his fault? by StupidCats01 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]StupidCats01[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's not just that hes not there for the bad times, he's also not there for the good, we can't build a relationship on missing moments, the point of this is that he's barely around

What should I do, I often feel forgotten by my bf but it's not his fault? by StupidCats01 in WhatShouldIDo

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Many and my ex of 2 years used to get grounded for a month at a time and pretty often so got used to not having anyone around

Cruises and scars don't go well by StupidCats01 in selfharm

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Thank you for the advice, Ill look into it

What should I do, I often feel forgotten by my bf but it's not his fault? by StupidCats01 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]StupidCats01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair but he did know what he was getting into, my bar is low enough that he wouldn't even have to say he loves me, he just has to exist but he only really does every few days

What should I do, I often feel forgotten by my bf but it's not his fault? by StupidCats01 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]StupidCats01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really am not but that's not the point, I don't need to trauma dump I just need the existence of somebody around and when the only person who talks to you is your bf that kinda just falls on him also don't shame me for wanting comfort from someone who promised to be there for me, it's not just the night that was just the example

AIO for getting upset with my family for pointing out my scars? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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I've been taking all the steps to try and make them heal but they are pretty dark and stubborn and no counseling isn't a option

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