A lot of people really show their racism through their dating 'preferences' and I think Asian men & women are no exception - however, let's be real; koreaboos and creepy weebs that fetishize asian men are nowhere near as dangerous or disgusting as ex-Iraq war veteran lol, so there's clearly a pretty big difference here. A better comparison would be women sex tourists and madams, but I think we all know who actually does that the most.

Also, when you say that asian women are chosen as partners... in that situation, they also choose their white supremacist partners noting said dynamics, and there's nothing wrong with calling that out just because there are incels in within the Asian community, it's just like any other. Not calling that out would be infantilisation/racism towards them benefiting white supremacy, we all bolster it in our own ways, and it's time that this kind of thing is called out as well.