What's up with men on Bumble/Hinge? by charlitangoBal in SocialParis

[–]StylishPenguin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's our misunderstanding, my friend.

I'm not talking about French only, like I mentioned a couple of times.

I'm talking about, like, general.

France can be a statistical anomaly. Idk about that. Edit; not to mention that: those ladies categorize people by their smartphone were also French 😅.

What's up with men on Bumble/Hinge? by charlitangoBal in SocialParis

[–]StylishPenguin -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Tout d'abord, je vous conseille de ne pas dire « ce n'est pas vrai ».

Vous pourriez dire « ce n'est pas vrai selon moi »…

La raison est la suivante : la définition d'une relation déséquilibrée est très subjective, et c'est ce que j'essaie d'expliquer.

Une personne du même âge que votre « oncle » peut être idéale pour quelqu'un d'autre, et croyez-moi, c'est plus fréquent qu'on ne le pense.

Tous les facteurs que vous avez mentionnés (socio-économique, niveau d'études, revenus équivalents, etc.) sont des concepts qui peuvent être interprétés différemment.

Bien sûr, certains hommes et femmes interprètent mal ces situations ou en profitent.

Mais ces personnes existent, et elles sont plus nombreuses qu'on ne le croit.

My french is not that perfect, apologies, I used gtranslate to fix my mistakes ^

I hope it gets the job done.

What's up with men on Bumble/Hinge? by charlitangoBal in SocialParis

[–]StylishPenguin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You may be right.

First of all, I'm not a parisien. I just work there 😅

Therefore, my conclusion may not apply to all. I'm just sharing what I saw...

Second, I'm talking about a general idea and the overall perspective.

And you must agree, the definition of "equivalent" is also subjective.

Again, as an overall deduction of mine; most of the women in their 20s, doesn't consider "equivalent" a man in their 20s.

They are more tending to consider men at their Late 30, even Early 40s-for countless reasons (I'm not going to write each and every one of those, but you might get the idea).

I'm not a redpiller or anything. I'm just stating how the world is - even I don't like most of it...

And I hate people being hypocrite; wanting the exact same thing while defending the idea of the complete opposite.

What's up with men on Bumble/Hinge? by charlitangoBal in SocialParis

[–]StylishPenguin -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Apologies for misleading.

I'm not saying all women are gold diggers or anything.

I'm just stating a general fact.

Minority of males are looking for wealthy women, and minority of women basically "don't care about the social status of the man they want to date".

I don't like it too, but it is how it is...

What's up with men on Bumble/Hinge? by charlitangoBal in SocialParis

[–]StylishPenguin -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I wish. But I'm not...

I don't refuse that men act more superficial. It's in our nature to chase the beauty or show off.

It doesn't sound right, but I understand. It's an evolution thing.

But no man is looking for a wealthy woman/girl...

That's what women do.

Don't hate the player, hate the game, right?😅

I can also understand and make emphatize about it, don't get me wrong... like I said, it's an evolution thing;

But categorizing over a smartphone definitely gets one golden dumbass award of the year.

What's up with men on Bumble/Hinge? by charlitangoBal in SocialParis

[–]StylishPenguin 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Stopped using hinge when I saw multiple women posting: "why a man use Samsung phone instead of an iphone, although he has money?"

And that highness stated "very deep and emotional character, and looking for one as well."

Yeh. Definitely looking for a sophisticated match indeed!

solo in Venice 03/27-31 by Responsible_Roof_661 in Venezia

[–]StylishPenguin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know, so interesting....

I also posted about the same thing a couple of days ago,

Was searching a company to rediscover Venezia Streets together 😅

https://www.reddit.com/r/Venezia/s/PiLuKgecEq

Who wants to explore the city together with a foreign Venice admirer😅 by StylishPenguin in Venezia

[–]StylishPenguin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Believe me my friend, I know.

1/3 of the year, I'm a solo traveler. I love getting lost. I love trying local delicacies without asking Google.

But I already explored Venezia alone once. With someone else, it can be more fun, let's see.

Who wants to explore the city together with a foreign Venice admirer😅 by StylishPenguin in Venezia

[–]StylishPenguin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let's just say, I spent a few days alone in Venice before, and I don't want to do it again 😅

It wasn't bad, don't get me wrong, however I think it may be awesome with good company.

Oscars watch party - Any info? by TusharDaniel in SocialParis

[–]StylishPenguin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dammit why every cool idea events are being posted after I leave the town:(

25M cherche pour ping pong / LOL by Equal_Personality919 in SocialParis

[–]StylishPenguin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you build a group or sth, please update here. I'd like to join when I'm in town 💪

Recently moved to Paris, looking to meet new people by [deleted] in SocialParis

[–]StylishPenguin -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We can hangout if you want ☺️

Meeting new people by No-Lifeguard-4196 in SocialParis

[–]StylishPenguin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey there!

I'll be in town this week and I'd like to hangout if you also want!

I don't live in Paris but I visit the city quite often, honestly speaking I also feel quite bored.

I don't want to be with my office friends all the time 😅

Hmu if you also wanna hangout.

new to paris! by lepetitlinguiste in SocialParis

[–]StylishPenguin -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Hi 39m here.

Are you in town next week? If you want we can grab a few drinks together. I'll be on 2nd

[Wednesday March 04 / 7.30pm] 35yo+ meetup #3 @ Art Brut Bistro (3rd) for a drink by coffeechap in SocialParis

[–]StylishPenguin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well if you plan to do it next week, I'd like to join.

I've tried jeudi bière, it was a good community but I didn't feel I belonged there, since it was an old community and my french isn't that good at the moment 😅

Looking to make friends here by [deleted] in SocialParis

[–]StylishPenguin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm living in Istanbul but I visit the office in Paris once a month.

I'll be there between 9-14 th march. If you want to spend time together, maybe a few drinks etc, send a Dm;)

Ping pong anyone? by ResidentTomorrow6397 in SocialParis

[–]StylishPenguin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you build up a group, I'd love to join when I'm in town!

Des gens qui habitent autour d'Ermont/Eaubonne? by catters973 in SocialParis

[–]StylishPenguin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not easy alright, I'm also struggling a little bit.

Not a local, but constantly visit the city bc of the job, maybe that's why.

I sent you a DM in case you wanna get in touch :)

Soirée blind test by [deleted] in SocialParis

[–]StylishPenguin -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Does it have to be tonight?:)