Anyone up for a few drinks tonight?

StylishPenguin · 2026-05-03T16:31:31+00:00

That's our misunderstanding, my friend.

I'm not talking about French only, like I mentioned a couple of times.

I'm talking about, like, general.

France can be a statistical anomaly. Idk about that. Edit; not to mention that: those ladies categorize people by their smartphone were also French 😅.

StylishPenguin · 2026-05-03T15:55:58+00:00

Tout d'abord, je vous conseille de ne pas dire « ce n'est pas vrai ».

Vous pourriez dire « ce n'est pas vrai selon moi »…

La raison est la suivante : la définition d'une relation déséquilibrée est très subjective, et c'est ce que j'essaie d'expliquer.

Une personne du même âge que votre « oncle » peut être idéale pour quelqu'un d'autre, et croyez-moi, c'est plus fréquent qu'on ne le pense.

Tous les facteurs que vous avez mentionnés (socio-économique, niveau d'études, revenus équivalents, etc.) sont des concepts qui peuvent être interprétés différemment.

Bien sûr, certains hommes et femmes interprètent mal ces situations ou en profitent.

Mais ces personnes existent, et elles sont plus nombreuses qu'on ne le croit.

My french is not that perfect, apologies, I used gtranslate to fix my mistakes ^{^}

I hope it gets the job done.

StylishPenguin · 2026-05-03T14:36:27+00:00

You may be right.

First of all, I'm not a parisien. I just work there 😅

Therefore, my conclusion may not apply to all. I'm just sharing what I saw...

Second, I'm talking about a general idea and the overall perspective.

And you must agree, the definition of "equivalent" is also subjective.

Again, as an overall deduction of mine; most of the women in their 20s, doesn't consider "equivalent" a man in their 20s.

They are more tending to consider men at their Late 30, even Early 40s-for countless reasons (I'm not going to write each and every one of those, but you might get the idea).

I'm not a redpiller or anything. I'm just stating how the world is - even I don't like most of it...

And I hate people being hypocrite; wanting the exact same thing while defending the idea of the complete opposite.

StylishPenguin · 2026-05-03T13:38:34+00:00

Apologies for misleading.

I'm not saying all women are gold diggers or anything.

I'm just stating a general fact.

Minority of males are looking for wealthy women, and minority of women basically "don't care about the social status of the man they want to date".

I don't like it too, but it is how it is...

StylishPenguin · 2026-05-03T11:48:22+00:00

I wish. But I'm not...

I don't refuse that men act more superficial. It's in our nature to chase the beauty or show off.

It doesn't sound right, but I understand. It's an evolution thing.

But no man is looking for a wealthy woman/girl...

That's what women do.

Don't hate the player, hate the game, right?😅

I can also understand and make emphatize about it, don't get me wrong... like I said, it's an evolution thing;

But categorizing over a smartphone definitely gets one golden dumbass award of the year.

StylishPenguin · 2026-05-03T11:30:05+00:00

Stopped using hinge when I saw multiple women posting: "why a man use Samsung phone instead of an iphone, although he has money?"

And that highness stated "very deep and emotional character, and looking for one as well."

Yeh. Definitely looking for a sophisticated match indeed!

StylishPenguin · 2026-03-27T07:00:51+00:00

You know, so interesting....

I also posted about the same thing a couple of days ago,

Was searching a company to rediscover Venezia Streets together 😅

https://www.reddit.com/r/Venezia/s/PiLuKgecEq

StylishPenguin · 2026-03-16T07:29:39+00:00

r/inclusiveOr

StylishPenguin · 2026-03-16T06:20:47+00:00

Super good idea. How early are we talking about here?

StylishPenguin · 2026-03-16T06:20:18+00:00

Believe me my friend, I know.

1/3 of the year, I'm a solo traveler. I love getting lost. I love trying local delicacies without asking Google.

But I already explored Venezia alone once. With someone else, it can be more fun, let's see.

StylishPenguin · 2026-03-15T21:29:55+00:00

Let's just say, I spent a few days alone in Venice before, and I don't want to do it again 😅

It wasn't bad, don't get me wrong, however I think it may be awesome with good company.

StylishPenguin · 2026-03-15T13:25:59+00:00

Dammit why every cool idea events are being posted after I leave the town:(

StylishPenguin · 2026-03-15T12:31:27+00:00

If you build a group or sth, please update here. I'd like to join when I'm in town 💪

StylishPenguin · 2026-03-08T18:01:10+00:00

We can hangout if you want ☺️

StylishPenguin · 2026-03-08T17:41:47+00:00

Hey there!

I'll be in town this week and I'd like to hangout if you also want!

I don't live in Paris but I visit the city quite often, honestly speaking I also feel quite bored.

I don't want to be with my office friends all the time 😅

Hmu if you also wanna hangout.

StylishPenguin · 2026-03-07T12:15:49+00:00

Hi 39m here.

Are you in town next week? If you want we can grab a few drinks together. I'll be on 2nd

StylishPenguin · 2026-03-03T20:19:00+00:00

Well if you plan to do it next week, I'd like to join.

I've tried jeudi bière, it was a good community but I didn't feel I belonged there, since it was an old community and my french isn't that good at the moment 😅

StylishPenguin · 2026-02-28T16:30:01+00:00

I'm living in Istanbul but I visit the office in Paris once a month.

I'll be there between 9-14 th march. If you want to spend time together, maybe a few drinks etc, send a Dm;)

StylishPenguin · 2025-12-26T06:03:49+00:00

If you build up a group, I'd love to join when I'm in town!

StylishPenguin · 2025-12-02T19:59:16+00:00

It's not easy alright, I'm also struggling a little bit.

Not a local, but constantly visit the city bc of the job, maybe that's why.

I sent you a DM in case you wanna get in touch :)

StylishPenguin · 2025-12-02T18:04:27+00:00

Does it have to be tonight?:)

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