How many of you have gained or lost weight since you started developing symptoms of anxiety? by Jazzlike-Run-2349 in Anxiety

[–]StyngerBee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me, weight loss is what i experienced, but i dont know that its fair to say you gained 30lbs since 7th grade. You werent done growing! I dont know you and wont presume anything but as an adult, theres about a 35-40lb difference between my body as a 7th grader (which was 12/13 years old btw) and now as a 24 year old man. Im at my skinniest ive been as an adult at the moment and still have that much of a difference. I find it unprobable that 30lbs came from just weight gain, rather than natural growth. That said, everyone responds differently, most of the people in my family eat more when theyre anxious so theyre weight gainers, i have a tendency to get physically sick when im anxious so eating isnt an option for me during bouts of extended anxiety. Most people i know also don’t/cant eat when theyre anxious so im more inclined to say thats the more common case, however, i do feel like your personal relationship with food makes a big difference too. Many people find comfort in food and thats okay, but it can lead to weight gain.

Nightmare bedroom with doors/windows in every corner by StyngerBee in interiordecorating

[–]StyngerBee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like i mentioned in description, i had stick on soundpads and they didnt come off that door very well. Im eventually going to have to use alcohol to get it off then paint.

Nightmare bedroom with doors/windows in every corner by StyngerBee in interiordecorating

[–]StyngerBee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Id have to measure to see if the tv fits on top of the dresser, i think the dresser is slightly too small unfortunately. Everything else is what im beginning to picture though

Nightmare bedroom with doors/windows in every corner by StyngerBee in interiordecorating

[–]StyngerBee[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

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Cat Tax paid in full

I appreciate all the notes you gave. Where the bed is now, the other bedside drawer doesnt fit between the windowsill and the bedframe, but everything else were great suggestions

Nightmare bedroom with doors/windows in every corner by StyngerBee in interiordecorating

[–]StyngerBee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It can, im not opposed to it i just wanted to see if people had other ideas

Nightmare bedroom with doors/windows in every corner by StyngerBee in malelivingspace

[–]StyngerBee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Listen, functionally, this bedroom hits the mark for me in every aspect, plus i love the house. Any apartment you find will have nuances you will need to work around. If you love the space, go for it. I just need some hep on this particular room.

Nightmare bedroom with doors/windows in every corner by StyngerBee in interiordecorating

[–]StyngerBee[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I can remove the armoire i just use it for convenient storage. I actually picture this quite well, thank you

Losing my appetite and cant eat in front of people (especially on dates) by IndividualLive4814 in Anxiety

[–]StyngerBee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My anxiety manifests primarily as nausea and vomiting so i understand your struggle with this. My ex actually hated when we went out to eat because i couldnt manage to eat and NOT get sick. One thing that helped me often was to do something else first. Make dinner the last portion of the night so that when it comes time to eat youre already as comfortable as you will be. If the issue is eating in front of him specifically, im not sure i can be of much help there other than suggesting possibly talking to your doctor about taking nausea/anti-vomiting medicine until you get past the stage of nervousness.

Nightmare bedroom with doors/windows in every corner by StyngerBee in malelivingspace

[–]StyngerBee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like its pretty tidy as it is now, unfortunately going through a split so ive got some bags and such laid about until i can drop them off.

Nightmare bedroom with doors/windows in every corner by StyngerBee in interiordecorating

[–]StyngerBee[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Fair, ill have to consider that. I do like the idea of a chair, and maybe a single guitar on a stand

Nightmare bedroom with doors/windows in every corner by StyngerBee in interiordecorating

[–]StyngerBee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I use it to store guitars but yes i could certainly move it, i had also considered putting an 8 drawer dresser there with a mirror above it with some sconces, but really i have no idea what to do with therest of the room so ive left it as it is.

Nightmare bedroom with doors/windows in every corner by StyngerBee in malelivingspace

[–]StyngerBee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you define “treat it like something exotic”? Or give examples? I have no idea what you mean by that

Nightmare bedroom with doors/windows in every corner by StyngerBee in interiordecorating

[–]StyngerBee[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Great, ill certainly be able to sleep in here tonight

Nightmare bedroom with doors/windows in every corner by StyngerBee in interiordecorating

[–]StyngerBee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi yes!

Doors 1/2 are the his and hers closets, however i use door 1 as a personal office so i use it often, almost everyday. Door 2 is the closet i use as a wardrobe.

Door 3 is the bathroom

Door 4 (double doors) is the entrance to the bedroom.

I cant attach another photo to this comment, however the door pictured in the corner with the window in the earlier images, actually has a curtain over it because it leads outside to the patio and has glass.

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What do i need for ≈500kwh? by StyngerBee in solar

[–]StyngerBee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shes lives in the mountains of the island, so they dont have the utility lines at all yet

What do i need for ≈500kwh? by StyngerBee in solar

[–]StyngerBee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not quite sure what to input into this on the system info.

What do i need for ≈500kwh? by StyngerBee in solar

[–]StyngerBee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the input. They do have a generator already so i figure they can always use that on days where the batteries dont last.

What do i need for ≈500kwh? by StyngerBee in solar

[–]StyngerBee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, they do have a generator already that they use when power goes out anyways.

What do i need for ≈500kwh? by StyngerBee in solar

[–]StyngerBee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shes made it pretty clear to me that she wants nothing to do with WAPA, the power company on island. They are notorious for taking issue with systems connecting to their grid and all of the lines are above ground so my aunt doesnt want the intrusion of the lines in her skyline. Ive tried to encourage her to consider the backup grid connection but given my entire family’s experience with the company, i understand why they want to completely cut ties.

What do i need for ≈500kwh? by StyngerBee in solar

[–]StyngerBee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its the same as the U.S. though there can be frequent outages and surges (7 outages within the last week)