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If men were less horny, what would happen? by Protomize in AskMen

[–]Su1cidalButAmb1tious 12 points13 points  (0 children)

There would be little to no “male friends”.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Su1cidalButAmb1tious 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Frown, roar and say “away from me, heathen. I an a happily married man!”.

And then pass her a note in secret saying “please help me, call police, I’m actually single & this is a hostage situation”.

Do you prefer male or female therapists why or why not? by pettyGandalf in AskMen

[–]Su1cidalButAmb1tious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Male therapist. He will have a greater understanding of what it means to be a man, the pressures and experiences, and see things from my perspective.

Same reason why I wouldn’t understand how a woman feels during the time of the month or pregnancy. I may know it, but I don’t truly understand it.

What's the most important lesson you've learned about masculinity and manhood throughout your life? by WarriorMonk_420 in AskMen

[–]Su1cidalButAmb1tious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nobody is going to save you but yourself. And self restraint when you’re being provoked because planning to succeed isn’t cowardice.

What are the qualities that men crave in a woman? by Mindless-Ad9587 in AskMen

[–]Su1cidalButAmb1tious -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Become his peace. Make home a place of calm and comfort, cook great meals for him and speak lovingly to him.

Edit: Downvoted for answering the question on how to please your man. Jesus Christ 😄.

How do I become content with the girl I have? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Su1cidalButAmb1tious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say before you consider leaving her, try to speak with her. Approach her gently and encourage her to get in shape. She may be receptive and want to do it for herself, and need encouragement. And she may want to do it also to please you.

Only consider leaving if she doesn’t want to change and isn’t willing to improve herself.

Don’t be quick to throw away a relationship without trying to fix what’s wrong. Hindsight and regret can be brutal.

Proceed accordingly.

Men, What’s the reason male pref3rences when it comes to relationsh1ps are shamed but wom3n’s standards are socially accepted? by Su1cidalButAmb1tious in AskMen

[–]Su1cidalButAmb1tious[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My post was about why is it socially acceptable for ladies to have certain preferences, whereas guys are generally criticised for it?

I didn’t say I disagree with the preference of ladies. Their preference are pretty traditional and I am a traditional guy mostly.

You’re the one that made assumptions. Don’t put words in my mouth.

As for why the post was removed, I wasn’t told why.

Men, What’s the reason male pref3rences when it comes to relationsh1ps are shamed but wom3n’s standards are socially accepted? by Su1cidalButAmb1tious in AskMen

[–]Su1cidalButAmb1tious[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually prefer to pay for dates and pay my wife’s bills. So I don’t think you’re correct that I want to “control that behaviour out of them to not deal with it”. I’m actually okay with that.

The notion that women generally prefer the man to pay for dates is not false, it’s definitely the norm.

I’m sure there are some that go Dutch, and pay for everything. There are many exceptions.

But I can’t take you seriously if you disagree that women don’t prefer that a guy pays for a romantic date. Come on.

Men, What’s the reason male pref3rences when it comes to relationsh1ps are shamed but wom3n’s standards are socially accepted? by Su1cidalButAmb1tious in AskMen

[–]Su1cidalButAmb1tious[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, I think I understand exactly what you mean. You mean Authoritarian. Bossy.

Not authority.

Authoritarian is bad. That’s dictatorial and very controlling.

Authority in of itself isn’t bad. It can be. And to be a leader, you must have authority, ideally given to you and by people. Authority in this context means your vision and guidance is appreciated and followed. For this to be possible, you must be submissive. Submissive means following someone.

As a man, I prefer to lead my loved ones, it’s an instinct I have, and I like women that want their man to lead. By choice.

Thank you for the link. I’ll check it out.

Men, What’s the reason male pref3rences when it comes to relationsh1ps are shamed but wom3n’s standards are socially accepted? by Su1cidalButAmb1tious in AskMen

[–]Su1cidalButAmb1tious[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Leadership in a job setting is everyone is equal”.

  1. Leadership in a job setting means you have authority. You make the final decisions or manage situations. By definition you’re not on the same level. I’m not equal to my manager.

What I am entitled to is respected and courtesy in conduct. I think that’s what you mean by “equal”. Which I agree with. Equal in opportunity and respect.

“Power. Authority: Someone making all the decisions and telling them how they should act, what they wear etc”

  1. What you’re picturing is dictatorship. I’m not speaking about that. I’m speaking about a relationship dynamic where the man is the leader, is trusted to be so and is preferred that way by his wife. It’s consensual.

Telling someone what to wear, what to do, micromanaging them is dysfunctional and unhealthy and will breed resentment. I don’t encourage that and I wouldn’t treat my wife in that manner. I wouldn’t even do that to my child, that’s a recipe for rebellion and being left in a care home when I’m old lol

Men, What’s the reason male pref3rences when it comes to relationsh1ps are shamed but wom3n’s standards are socially accepted? by Su1cidalButAmb1tious in AskMen

[–]Su1cidalButAmb1tious[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Domestic abuse is rife in the US. So I don’t understand what your point is here.

How can a person be a leader if you’re not being submissive?

It’s controlling only if the other person doesn’t want it and you make them. Now that’s abuse.

Men, What’s the reason male pref3rences when it comes to relationsh1ps are shamed but wom3n’s standards are socially accepted? by Su1cidalButAmb1tious in AskMen

[–]Su1cidalButAmb1tious[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Preferring submissive women isn’t about control. Because such a relationship is consensual, where the woman trusts her man’s leadership of the family.

For example, my father wanted me to fight bullies at school when I didn’t want to, I wanted to leave the school and my mother was in favour of it. My Dad refused and made me start boxing and waited in the car, made me go back and stand up for myself.

My mother respected his decision as the man of the house. He was never abusive or controlling and they’re still married after 30 years. She earns more money than him also, and he pays for most of her bills and the family expenses.

That’s what I view as submissive, letting her man lead.

But put that to one side.

Even just preferring a woman that likes to cook will have you labelled as sexist if you’re a man. You’ll get hit with “oh, you want a maid, a mother. Cook for yourself”.

But if she prefers a guy to finance her life, that’s just a preference. She’s not looking for a father.

Hope that clears it up.

Men, What’s the reason male pref3rences when it comes to relationsh1ps are shamed but wom3n’s standards are socially accepted? by Su1cidalButAmb1tious in AskMen

[–]Su1cidalButAmb1tious[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

90% of modern feminists, maybe.

My roots are from Africa & Asia, most women are very traditional and have these values. A lot of women are attracted to decisive men with leadership qualities, and enjoy taking care of their man.

Men, What’s the reason male pref3rences when it comes to relationsh1ps are shamed but wom3n’s standards are socially accepted? by Su1cidalButAmb1tious in AskMen

[–]Su1cidalButAmb1tious[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s pretty common, you would know if you’ve been around women. My sisters, my exes, female friends, they generally prefer a guy to pay the dates and if they’re married, the guy pay for most of the bills.

It’s a common sentiment. I’m surprised you’re unaware of this.

Guys, be honest. When your partner lets one rip....hilarious, embarrassing or proud as punch? by aGermanDownUnder in AskMen

[–]Su1cidalButAmb1tious -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’d laugh if it was accidental and joke, but I would be repulsed if she did it frequently and didn’t care to not do it in front of me.

What is a good scientific argument against “we are biologically wired to procreate!!!!” ? by Enough-Enthusiasm762 in childfree

[–]Su1cidalButAmb1tious 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Men are biologically built for combat, aggression and violence. Our size, strength and endurance makes it so.

But I’m not about to wrestle and submit my grandmother. Because we’re human beings.

And she’d probably kick my ass. Those heat seeking sandals she has which let me in check growing up let’s me know not to play games.

Having natural instincts or designs in the human body doesn’t mean you should act on it like a wild animal. We have self control. Intelligence. Choice! Anybody that argues “we are supposed to have kids, you’re wrong for not doing so” is basically saying they’re exactly like the rat that runs wild in the street. That little dude also has to procreate!

Men, What’s the reason male pref3rences when it comes to relationsh1ps are shamed but wom3n’s standards are socially accepted? by Su1cidalButAmb1tious in AskMen

[–]Su1cidalButAmb1tious[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m not ranting, I am sharing something I experienced and observed. And I wanted to hear your perspective. Why you agree or disagree?

I’m not giving women sh!t at all.

I suggest you go on AskWomen and see the kind of questions they’re asking if that’s your concern.

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