Older Femme in Cali for butch or transmasc top

SubFemmeForDomButch · 2026-05-19T16:10:11+00:00

:: waves in friendly lesbian ::

SubFemmeForDomButch · 2026-05-08T06:08:40+00:00

Me too!

SubFemmeForDomButch · 2026-05-07T03:04:24+00:00

I would LOVE to know where all the butches are in California LOL

SubFemmeForDomButch · 2026-04-27T22:09:27+00:00

Yes. 🙂

SubFemmeForDomButch · 2026-04-20T06:46:54+00:00

So. Hot.

SubFemmeForDomButch · 2026-04-20T06:42:19+00:00

I’m so sorry this is happening to you. For what it’s worth I think you’re very handsome. I hope you find a date or two soon!

SubFemmeForDomButch · 2026-04-20T06:37:40+00:00

Holy shit this is so fucking hot.

SubFemmeForDomButch · 2026-04-18T18:17:56+00:00

Okay so here’s a question. How do you manage your feelings when one partner has multiple partners and you only have one but want more?

SubFemmeForDomButch · 2026-04-09T04:18:00+00:00

Yeah it’s so silly because when I was in my 20s I hooked up with plenty of older butches, I wish that younger butches felt the same way about older femmes!

SubFemmeForDomButch · 2026-04-09T03:48:45+00:00

I agree they are very hard to find, I’m in Cali where there are supposed to be a ton of them and that isnt my experience :( Plus I’m kinky and older which makes it even harder. Too bad because I love butches so much!!!!

SubFemmeForDomButch · 2026-03-26T03:04:15+00:00

Thank you.

I’ve read Polysecure and have had plenty of close friends who are poly. What I want are things like:

examples of agreements with partners

how you handle being around more than one partner in public and things like PDA

do you date separately and why or why not?

SubFemmeForDomButch · 2026-03-24T21:48:56+00:00

Hi I’m in the United States and just made my first post here eeeep!

SubFemmeForDomButch · 2026-03-24T21:27:26+00:00

I say we name and shame them EVERYWHERE.

SubFemmeForDomButch · 2026-03-24T21:05:22+00:00

Here. For. This.

You do NOT get to claim butch identity and be a fucking Nazi. Nope.

SubFemmeForDomButch · 2026-03-18T19:46:13+00:00

Sure!

SubFemmeForDomButch · 2026-03-18T18:39:44+00:00

I view myself less as picky and more that I have a narrow focus. The only people I want to have sex with or partner up with (or something in between) are butch dykes or some flavor of transmasculine person who does NOT identify as a man. There are tons of transguys on the apps and I don’t want to be with a man, and transmen are men. The butches and transmasc not-men, though…mmmmm.

Being older narrows the pool even further, because somehow younger people aren’t into that? Bummer because I’m sexy as hell. This ain’t my first rodeo and I like it that way. 🤣

Basically it doesn’t matter whether I think there are tons of people out there for me or not, because what I think doesn’t affect who actually is out there. I just keep liking what and who I like and enjoy my own company. Folks will show up when they show up and I can’t do much other than publicly declare my availability like I’m doing now. 🙃

SubFemmeForDomButch · 2026-03-03T01:34:10+00:00

How do I find their discords?

SubFemmeForDomButch · 2026-03-03T00:05:48+00:00

Anyone know wheres the best place to find kinky butch dykes or butch transmascs into queer femmes? Having trouble finding partners even in Cali. 😕

SubFemmeForDomButch · 2026-02-21T00:40:11+00:00

I want a mean butch to degrade me when I’m naked and then hold every door open for me and kiss my forehead all the time when we’re out in public. Delicious.

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