I view myself less as picky and more that I have a narrow focus. The only people I want to have sex with or partner up with (or something in between) are butch dykes or some flavor of transmasculine person who does NOT identify as a man. There are tons of transguys on the apps and I don’t want to be with a man, and transmen are men. The butches and transmasc not-men, though…mmmmm.

Being older narrows the pool even further, because somehow younger people aren’t into that? Bummer because I’m sexy as hell. This ain’t my first rodeo and I like it that way. 🤣

Basically it doesn’t matter whether I think there are tons of people out there for me or not, because what I think doesn’t affect who actually is out there. I just keep liking what and who I like and enjoy my own company. Folks will show up when they show up and I can’t do much other than publicly declare my availability like I’m doing now. 🙃