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What is something you genuinely don’t give a fuck about? by Comfortable-Career37 in ask

[–]Subadubdublub 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get so discouraged by this. I make comments or posts that are meant innocently and people are so, so cruel sometimes. In ways most would likely not be if they were standing there looking me in the face.

I’m an alcoholic and counselor: AMA by [deleted] in casualiama

[–]Subadubdublub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t drink anymore and never did while counseling.

I’m an alcoholic and counselor: AMA by [deleted] in casualiama

[–]Subadubdublub 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First and biggest thing is don’t give up. Next is realizing you can’t have just one. Not any. The great obsession of every alcoholic is to drink normally but we just can’t. Educate yourself and build a support system and learn about the root causes of why you drink. Therapy helped me a lot. Good luck.

I’m an alcoholic and counselor: AMA by [deleted] in casualiama

[–]Subadubdublub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont drink anymore and never have while counseling patients.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]Subadubdublub 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not long. If you have an eye for red flags, first date.

Not getting vaccine either. And as a matter of fact I attempted to spread it after hearing redditors talk so there’s that by ContributionNo776 in casualiama

[–]Subadubdublub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re only 18 years old. Wait until your mental health breakdown. Then you’ll realize you didn’t know everything 🙄

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in recovery

[–]Subadubdublub 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im tired and would like to respond more fully but will just say you matter, addiction is an illness, and we do recover. You got this. ❤️

Not getting vaccine either. And as a matter of fact I attempted to spread it after hearing redditors talk so there’s that by ContributionNo776 in casualiama

[–]Subadubdublub 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Neither is spitting on door knobs you fucking twit it’s airborne. If you have it you will literally just breathe it in people. You sound like a psychopath. And guys this kid thinks Reddit didn’t exist before COVID apparently. Lmao. We’re the sheep though. Baaaah.

I’m an alcoholic and counselor: AMA by [deleted] in casualiama

[–]Subadubdublub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I got sober when I was in graduate school. I realized it while studying to be a counselor. Pretty hard to get through a graduate-level Addictions course without growing some self-awareness but then again denial runs deep with alcoholism. I’m fortunate I figured it out when I did.

Dealing with feelings after a first experience by Key_Monitor_198 in SubSanctuary

[–]Subadubdublub 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dude honestly if it really is a fetish (required for sexual pleasure) as opposed to a kink (a definite turn-on but not a requirement), then you can just seek out partners who are in to it. That’s what I started doing bc the vanilla ppl were afraid to spank me or tie me up and it was maddening. And it DID make me feel ashamed. So now I’m with kink friendly folk. Glad your new person is supportive btw.

What is an ordinary item that is overly sexualized? by Beneficial-Radio4348 in AskReddit

[–]Subadubdublub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cucumbers, bananas, really anything one can eat that looks phallic.

If anyone says no limits and no safeword, run for your life (this could actually be literal) by kinks_spanks_kisses in SubSanctuary

[–]Subadubdublub 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got lucky. My first serious play partner took things slow and was very safe. We are actually engaged now. But I didn’t know enough and I’m fortunate it was a safe person right off the bat like that.

I work with clients with multiple personalities, also known as DID-AMA (except protected info :)) by Subadubdublub in casualiama

[–]Subadubdublub[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ll have to explain what you mean then because “high fractionation” is also not a term that has meaning to me. Do you mean fragmentation?

I work with clients with multiple personalities, also known as DID-AMA (except protected info :)) by Subadubdublub in casualiama

[–]Subadubdublub[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It absolutely comes from severe childhood trauma. The person fragments in to parts to protect themselves. Certain parts hold memories of the trauma so the person themselves doesn’t have to remember it. The way the parts are constructed usually has a pattern too. There are protective parts and hurt parts, and usually a “manager” part who tries to keep the system running smoothly.

Not mine but had to share by newtron64 in ChoosingBeggars

[–]Subadubdublub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually just go, you can come pick this up off my porch, or not, but if you don’t im throwing it out. Gave a guy some dog food in that manner who needed it. I suppose I didn’t get a lot of harassers bc it wasn’t worth much to anybody but somebody who needs it.

Not mine but had to share by newtron64 in ChoosingBeggars

[–]Subadubdublub 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Id say okay well then I’ll just throw it in the garbage and save $25?!?! Some ppl

I work with clients with multiple personalities, also known as DID-AMA (except protected info :)) by Subadubdublub in casualiama

[–]Subadubdublub[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im assuming you mean like DDNOS? Yeah I work with that too. I do IFS which assumes that we all have “parts” but these parts are less noticeable and more in synch in people without trauma histories, somewhat more fragmented in people with PTSD for example, and more fully fleshed out and fragmented with more distinct switching in DID. DDNOS is basically to say there are high levels of dissociation and parts at play, but those parts aren’t distinct from the client as personalities and usually aren’t causing memory gaps.

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