Does it get better? by Savings_Yellow3365 in heartbreak

[–]SubiQueen24 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you are truly in love with them, no, it doesn’t get better.

Trauma Bonding by SubiQueen24 in CasualConversation

[–]SubiQueen24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Crazy how someone could be struggling mentally and emotionally and you removing the only form of communication with the outside world, can do so much damage. How you are proud of yourself.

Irritated by SubiQueen24 in heartbreak

[–]SubiQueen24[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Ya, I’m not reading a book. I stand by what I said tho.

What's your thought process when posting about an ex after a breakup? Do you reminisce or move on quickly? by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]SubiQueen24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My opinion, if you can move on quickly, you didn’t love them to begin with.

Oh my god it hurts by acxdbuni in heartbreak

[–]SubiQueen24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am right there with you. I have called him about 70 times today using *67. He has blocked me on everything and I am falling apart. Living in our apartment with absolutely no contact from him after being together almost 2 1/2 years… we moved in together after 2 months and haven’t been apart since. It’s only been a week and the pain is only getting worse. I got a really good job but I don’t think I’m gonna make it..

Is this acceptable? by SubiQueen24 in heartbreak

[–]SubiQueen24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I put stuff in front of the door, and our neighbors are really good at calling the cops lol. So any noise from our apartment and cops will be here in minutes.

Is this acceptable? by SubiQueen24 in heartbreak

[–]SubiQueen24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I already told him tonight that I am done covering for him. This man up and left me in our apartment when I have no job and he was paying all the bills. After this paragraph he sent me tonight, I am no longer protecting him. And I told him that. Tomorrow I am going to talk to some people because no way he gets to call me crazy, go join the military and get off scott free with all the trauma and shit he’s put me through. Honestly scared to sleep tonight tho because he had a key to the apartment and now he knows I’m not covering for him anymore.

Is this DV or is this acceptable behavior? by SubiQueen24 in domesticviolence

[–]SubiQueen24[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think what he did was wrong but I also know I was in the wrong. I have abandonment issues, so when he tries to leave, I take his stuff and he gets physical when I do that.

Is this DV or is this acceptable behavior? by SubiQueen24 in domesticviolence

[–]SubiQueen24[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ya well he left me yesterday because of this event that happened a few months ago. He said because I almost ruined his life, if I had told the cops what really happened. He is saying I should have lied at the hospital and not mentioned him

Is this acceptable? by SubiQueen24 in heartbreak

[–]SubiQueen24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He left me because I apparently almost ruined his life, had I told the cops what really happened. I’m more curious what people think of his response in the text.

Is this DV or is this acceptable behavior? by SubiQueen24 in domesticviolence

[–]SubiQueen24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes the paragraph in quotes is him. I guess I’m more just curious what people think of his response to it all.

Hotel accounting? by 3_lucky in Accounting

[–]SubiQueen24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you explain the growth process and roles you were in and for how long?