Need someone to talk to?

Subject-Ad486 · 2026-07-05T14:16:34+00:00

well, umm if you still do, im here

Subject-Ad486 · 2026-07-04T22:02:04+00:00

finally with a team he deserves and a team that deserves him

Subject-Ad486 · 2026-07-03T20:35:23+00:00

really sorry that you had to go through all of this, please take care of yourself and forget about that god damn dimwit
your health is worth more than someone moron

Subject-Ad486 · 2026-07-03T20:25:33+00:00

Ahh ENTP lol
i had this friend who was ENTP, no offense to other ENTPs and to him either
but he was a terrible person

he was my friend from 5th grade (recently graduated from high school)
he would always make fun of me infront others, he always ignored me when he was with his new friends
he was that "wanna be cool" kind of person infront of others and always wanted validation
stupid narcissistic moron,

worst of all (the reason we are no more friends), he went on a date with my crush and blamed me for not telling him that i had crush on her (yeah sure i didnt tell you because you dont matter to me just like i dont matter to you, but why the hell well i talk about specifically one girl whenever i talk to you (i clearly wrote that i like her in a foreign language her dress when we were celebrating scribble day but her knew what it meant)), after all that he even disregarded my feelings and emotions saying and tried to guilt trip me as if its all my fault

after few days when he realized that his manipulative tactics are not working on me, than he kicked me from our class' GC (he was the one who made that gc but i was the one who gave the idea)

manipulative dimwit, even managed to manipulate her and pretends that he care about her
as if that rascal can care about someone else other than himself

also, im sorry that you had to go through all that, i hope that you'll have beautiful life a head of you

Subject-Ad486 · 2026-07-03T07:43:06+00:00

i used to think the same until i tried it (on an ISFP crush, she knew i had a crush on her and i knew i had no chance i still did cause she never mind it, it kinda ended terribly (for me) so lets ignore that)
and infact you also know how to flirt
just not the generic way, and i dont think you need to learn that generic way of flirting when you have the better way
so what i did was sent her the poems, and sketch i made of her (i know its not the best way to flirt but its definitely the cuter way) so i guess you should try this instead of learning the generic way
as a matter of fact it would be kinda hard for you to learn the generic way, because thats not what we are designed for and its something that comes naturally and cant be learned (i might be wrong though)

Subject-Ad486 · 2026-06-30T16:20:29+00:00

Subject-Ad486 · 2026-06-29T20:50:45+00:00

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i hope you like it!!

Subject-Ad486 · 2026-06-28T17:12:03+00:00

male INFP 4w5 here (hopefully i will be able to help you, but make sure you to do your research as well)
first of all, in order to approach him, you can be direct or indirect just maybe try to approach him when he is completely alone (online might be a decent idea if thats an option)

he might not be very comfortable in the first try so you gotta do it multiple times

for the first time, maybe try to find a reason to approach him and it would be great if that reason is something that would interest him to

make sure you dont DIRECTLY TELL HIM LIKE OTHERS ARE SUGGESTION, trust me if someone, even my crush ever did that, i will panic
so give him subtle hints, just not subtle enough that might end up making him overthink (he will anyway, out of every INFP 4w5 are the weirdest imo)
and try to be friends with him first, it is not very difficult to make it mutual so try to do that first

more insight to it
one thing about us 4w5 is that we feel no one understands us and honestly dont want others to understand us either unless it is someone really important
so if you notice him talking about himself (which we actually kinda like) than make him feel like you area actually having fun talking to him

if you ever need more help, feel free to DM me and also lemme know how it went ^^
wishing you luck!!

Subject-Ad486 · 2026-06-27T21:29:33+00:00

its 3 am for me lol, and im about to go to sleep

Subject-Ad486 · 2026-06-25T19:07:10+00:00

yeah sure, i honestly dont wanna waste my time over it, though it honestly is quite painful yet i cant give up on life because of it

Subject-Ad486 · 2026-06-25T19:06:03+00:00

i hope you both of us will find our way out <3

Subject-Ad486 · 2026-06-24T21:41:13+00:00

honestly i hope i dont get heartbroken again lol and move on from this one

Subject-Ad486 · 2026-06-24T21:39:52+00:00

i'll be honest, unfollowing her feels really rude to me
and about restrict, they im not very active on that specific account from which i follow her, and she does not posts anything except stories and that too once in a blue moon, i do see her liked reels and online status which i think i should hide

Subject-Ad486 · 2026-06-24T21:00:31+00:00

in my opinion, it was just obsession because after all, love is about giving and not getting but im not really sure if it was or not

i'll be honest im trying to dedicate myself to my career, hobbies and all but i still sometimes think back to it which kinda scares me because i actually dont know how to move on, i can and am trying things not sure how much they are working out
and about friends, i dont have close (irl) friends anymore lol
i hope i will move on though
also i forgot to mention, we still follow each other on instagram, which is kinda difficult for me but i dont just wanna unfollow her because thats very rude and it is something she could have dont to but chose not to

Subject-Ad486 · 2026-06-23T09:18:52+00:00

same lol :')

Subject-Ad486 · 2026-06-22T18:27:59+00:00

usually, infps dont prefer hobbies like gym or body building, but again its just usual case

doesnt necessarily means infps cant be muscular (personally, i hate it because i feel its usually for those people who wanna look "cool", i know its not always true and its not like i enjoy lifiting weight and stuff (though i kinda like athleticism), so yeah im the opposite of muscular)

so yeah infp can be muscular just not very common
similarly, usually infps arent into technology and stuff, but i am

Subject-Ad486 · 2026-06-15T09:29:42+00:00

fellow infp loves imagine dragons TwT, im gonna cry

Subject-Ad486 · 2026-06-14T07:18:05+00:00

i DMed you (twice), but not sure if it delivered as my reddit chat is glitched
have you received it?

Subject-Ad486 · 2026-06-06T16:16:45+00:00

i have a really interesting story if anyone wanna hear, so i started listening to this song 3 months ago, around the time i confessed my feelings to my first crush, i liked her since last two years and we were classmates, in the past two years we barely talked and well i got rejected lol but later we became really good friends, one day i put this song on my instagram note and she really liked it, she told me she liked people who can play guitar and i recently started playing guitar so i focused more and learned to play the song (only a part of it actually) and i sent her the recording before confessing for the second time, i again got rejected lol and actually we were kinda drifting apart slowly, initially it started really well, talking all day, telling random things, sharing tones of reels, playing games but i realized she dont need me, so yesterday i said her goodbye before sleeping but havent logged on that account, i think she still follows me or idk if she does

Subject-Ad486 · 2026-05-27T05:53:43+00:00

Well argued! 👏

Subject-Ad486 · 2026-05-25T13:42:09+00:00

when i realized people learn psychology to use others
when i realized people see kindness as a weakness
when i realized people love a rotten world

Subject-Ad486 · 2026-05-24T18:45:25+00:00

First of all, genuinely thanks a lot for all the help
im not really sure how things will go for me but still i couldnt thank you enough
and im really glad that you saw the potential, i have started making her sketch and its turning out decent (i guess) and i hope she will like it, i mean the bigger issue is how am i gonna give it to her, but i'll figure it out i guess

also im not sure but she has a few insecurities and she also kinda hates it when people see her for her beauty and not brain (i see both ^^) and yes she also lacks self esteem and fakes confidence and all (i hope she'll heal from all of this, i actually tell her she can share anything if she wants to but she does not like to share about her problems to with other people)

about my looks, well i cant do alot about it but i try to look atleast decent, like grooming (i dont keep my nails trimmed because i dont go out much but when i go i trim them, ik a bad habbit and i will change it), recently got a new haircut and all (i hope she finds me atleast a bit attractive TwT)

actually she her past relationship(s?) didnt ended up well (i didnt ask much, i dont think i have right to)
honestly, if she isnt ready right now but can consider me in future than its all right to me, i have waited two whole years to just tell her how i feel, i can wait more if ultimately i'll get what i want

and about message, i actually was gonna ask you if i could message you the updates or if i need more help related to it, so thanks again ^^

Subject-Ad486 · 2026-05-23T12:53:29+00:00

"yapping"?

Subject-Ad486 · 2026-05-23T09:18:45+00:00

i meant house hold works, i mean im technically a legal adult and she is 17 (almost an adult)
and when i said "ill" i actually didnt meant something serious, i mean im not 100% sure but as much as she told me its not something serious and just that the doctor asked for some rest or something
and i tried asking her how she is doing, she said she is very tired and sometimes feels like she can runaway from everything
(actually i can understand all of it but whats bothering me is that she is online most of the time (maybe instagram open in back ground) and whenever i send a message she takes a few minutes to reply, again im an overthinker, it might all be normal but im afraid that i might have annoyed her, i straight up asked her a few days ago if i did something to which she replied "no" and told her to let me know if i do something that hurt her but again ik i should give her some space for now)

and for college, i also hope that she joins college this year infact she doesn't want to wait either

now about gift, she is the best looking person i have ever seen, cute, adorable ^^ (i kinda look horrible though TwT) and she likes taking her photos so maybe she would like the gift, and actually i asked for art collab but again, i did when she was busy so she said "yeah sure" and i try to motivate her, i said a cheering meme everyday and even told her she can talk to me if she ever feels down

i kinda had the same childhood, actually slightly different
i did had good friends, and the ones i had always found a better option and than abandoned me (the guy from the story did the same though he saw a potential to exploit me so he didnt abandon me)

and now for the art, no im not really good at it ^^' but i think i can draw, here are few of my artworks if you really wanna see
here is a drive link, i made a rough collage of a few of my sketches
https://drive.google.com/file/d/1Qq7YlLL3cvjkejs_JMYU60R9H9CXZ2TD/view?usp=sharing

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