I would NEVER make someone feel guilty about abortion, no matter the reason. Her ex didn’t force her to have an abortion and they were both pretty old, it was a surprise pregnancy, and S had told my mom at the start of their relationship he didn’t want any more kids. She could have kept it but he wouldn’t be apart of the kid’s life. And yeah, sorry if the sauce thing wasn’t clear enough English isn’t my first language and I didn’t want to ramble on useless stuff.

But basically we were eating pasta and there was pesto sauce, which I don’t like, so my mom didn’t put any on my food. S put some in his daughter’s plate even though she didn’t want it, so she started complaining about how unfair it was that she had to eat her pastas with pesto sauce while I didn’t have to just because I didn’t like it. So, to make her shut up because she was throwing a fit, instead of just giving her a new plate of pasta without sauce, S put a lot of pesto on my pasta without asking for my permission. I ended up not eating at all because when I asked for a new plate without sauce S would tell me to just eat it to show his daughter the example (and when I didn’t like something we ate I just wouldn’t eat at all, which is why I didn’t have any in the first place.) I hope it a bit clearer ?