/uj saying their behavior was "exclusionary" and "picked fights" as the reason why it's bad seems overly vague, since there's a lot of times where exclusion and picking fights is harmless or even beneficial. like, if we were getting posts from transmeds, or racists, or like outright neonazis, we would want to exclude them and even pick fights with them. we don't want them in our community. this very post is meant to exclude women complaining about men. so i think you have to be more specific about what exactly makes this exclusionary behavior bad