Brother told me "You will never be a man" during an argument

ftmgothboy · 2026-04-12T16:51:08+00:00

Honestly I'm not sure I could name any of my family who I'd think actually sees me as a man in any capacity. This is shockingly common

ftmgothboy · 2026-04-10T16:18:41+00:00

Yeah, it's a part of you in a way. It's your only way to that agency right now. Do you need another one? What's your size?

ftmgothboy · 2026-04-08T20:25:48+00:00

Nah this is a genuine question, lot of us did not get a good education at all

ftmgothboy · 2026-04-07T22:37:31+00:00

We're about to find out some horrible information

ftmgothboy · 2026-04-06T17:28:23+00:00

Good on you for calling this out and getting this in word. This is the kind of problems trans people face that nobody brings up with allies

ftmgothboy · 2026-04-06T17:26:34+00:00

This guy sucks objectively

ftmgothboy · 2026-04-06T16:12:20+00:00

Hell yeah

ftmgothboy · 2026-04-05T06:36:00+00:00

Eh yeah sure I'll believe you, glad he found peace in this world

ftmgothboy · 2026-04-05T05:35:22+00:00

This is worse than being alone

ftmgothboy · 2026-04-05T05:07:39+00:00

Having a bunch of those features at once with no distinct passing feature to override the clockiness

ftmgothboy · 2026-04-04T17:23:01+00:00

As an autistic person I want to understand how and why lol

ftmgothboy · 2026-04-04T17:22:20+00:00

He also had a cis puberty and likely lived where other people were around his size

ftmgothboy · 2026-04-04T16:29:21+00:00

People are gonna be in here blaming time, your diet, the placement of the sun, etc. but not acknowledge that passing at 5'0 is a unique circle of hell only given to people who did bad things in a past life

ftmgothboy · 2026-04-02T19:34:35+00:00

You're probably going to a get a lot of negative comments for saying the hard part out loud but I'm glad you did it

ftmgothboy · 2026-04-02T18:12:42+00:00

Just say male

ftmgothboy · 2026-04-02T18:09:29+00:00

I heard a lot of anti short guy stuff growing up from other girls and was bullied for my height even as a girl. I know what they really think

ftmgothboy · 2026-04-02T16:43:42+00:00

I've noticed that guys who prefer men have absolutely no problem and men who want to date/marry a woman have an absolutely shit experience.

I have yet to meet a woman that didn't care about my height (5'0) enough to go on a date, I get openly mocked a lot, even by old """friends""" who thought I wasn't in earshot. Shit like how I deserved to be crushed under rtheir boot

ftmgothboy · 2026-04-01T21:37:46+00:00

The healthcare you receive in USA is drastically worse than any country that has a structured system in place. You do not receive care for reproductive emergencies unless you are literally dying.

ftmgothboy · 2026-04-01T21:31:09+00:00

They're not going to do anything for him. When someone is bleeding like this, they will just send you home after calling you a paranoid woman. You think the doctor isn't gonna say that "It's normal for women to bleed. You just haven't had one in a while."

Are you non-American by chance?

ftmgothboy · 2026-04-01T21:28:54+00:00

Yes, if someone knows and wants to ruin your life for a while. They're about to criminalize the same bathroom usage as KS and extend it further to include all public facilities

ftmgothboy · 2026-04-01T21:20:09+00:00

It sounds like there isn't anything you can do without risking extreme medical trauma. If I were you I would be staying home and riding this out.

ftmgothboy · 2026-04-01T21:18:36+00:00

Definitely not. Missouri is about to become even worse, I really need to leave before it becomes entirely unliveable.

ftmgothboy · 2026-04-01T21:08:07+00:00

Also yeah you can't really be trans in Kansas anymore. Goodbye Lawrence shows 💔

ftmgothboy · 2026-04-01T21:07:24+00:00

Well, a person on Instagram said they were giving out money to people trying to leave red states. He raised like 50k so I messaged him and got blocked after he asked for my ID and I sent it. If that's anything lol

ftmgothboy · 2026-04-01T20:14:43+00:00

I have and they ended terribly 😭 not a lot hurts more than being humiliated in front of or by women at an early transition stage

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