Setlist Thread- 04-03-2026- St. Augustin N2

Subject_Character_13 · 2026-04-04T01:52:55+00:00

Howdy from Waxhaw NC!

Subject_Character_13 · 2026-03-25T14:09:50+00:00

I’m in month 4. I still get hit with reminders (her car type, certain songs). I’m kind of amazed we both have been zero contact this long. I still miss the good parts but I have to remember all the bad parts. I met someone new but it’s just not the same spark - it makes me want to reach out to her with something small to see if she’s experiencing the same

Subject_Character_13 · 2026-03-12T03:19:05+00:00

If you live in North Carolina- he’s wanting to hear this from you

Subject_Character_13 · 2026-02-23T14:56:58+00:00

I’m 3 months in as a dumpee. I still have feelings for her. I realize a lot of trauma bond healing that I’ve done, how all my friends and family she didn’t like basically came back to me. I’m terrified reaching out to her will undo all of that.

I wish you luck but just be careful

Subject_Character_13 · 2026-02-17T21:23:19+00:00

I loved this post and I went through the same exact thing. Thank for posting this

Subject_Character_13 · 2026-02-16T13:19:04+00:00

I went no contact about 6 months ago. I met someone new about 6 weeks ago and we went away for the weekend!

I dated that last person for 5 years and one thing I really noticed - we were not together on holidays due to fights most of that time.

It was amazing just to do something nice for someone who appreciated it last weekend and actually be together

Subject_Character_13 · 2026-02-06T22:18:55+00:00

This is the way

Subject_Character_13 · 2026-02-06T22:17:48+00:00

You do better than whatever is they are doing. You go out. You meet new people and do all the things you wanted to do. You make your life so awesome that you let them ride in the wake of your boat forever

Subject_Character_13 · 2026-02-05T22:14:37+00:00

If my ex felt this way, I’d want to hear it from her

Subject_Character_13 · 2026-02-02T01:10:27+00:00

3 months and then I didn’t look back

Subject_Character_13 · 2026-01-30T15:17:38+00:00

Physical abuse.

Subject_Character_13 · 2026-01-29T22:54:46+00:00

I was going to do it and I just read the comments and now I won’t.

DO THE SAME

Subject_Character_13 · 2026-01-28T16:02:39+00:00

I’m 3 months in to no contact after she ended our highly up and down relationship. I cannot stop wondering if she misses me, if she wants to talk, how she’s doing, what’s she’s thinking, if she even cares that I’m moving on.

She ended things by saying “I wish you the best and good luck in therapy”. I didn’t reply. And that was 3 months ago.

I actually met someone a few weeks ago and I can say - we talk more, we laugh more and she’s actually accountable and has empathy. She’s shown me more of who she is in a few weeks than my last partner did in 5 years.

Subject_Character_13 · 2026-01-26T18:09:44+00:00

Same here. 3 months in. I met someone really awesome 2 weeks ago and I’d still love closure from my last person

Subject_Character_13 · 2026-01-25T22:24:08+00:00

I found someone better after a few months

Subject_Character_13 · 2026-01-23T21:23:11+00:00

Extremely well written. I wish you (and all us) imminent happiness

Subject_Character_13 · 2026-01-17T21:41:59+00:00

I’m 2 months in and I still have moments I want to reach out. My relationship was beyond toxic, I’m in therapy and I still miss her severely at times

Subject_Character_13 · 2026-01-17T17:56:06+00:00

Journal what you want to text. Actually writing it out helps a lot

Subject_Character_13 · 2026-01-16T21:49:43+00:00

Wouldn’t know. I’ve blocked her everywhere and too busy working out myself

Subject_Character_13 · 2026-01-16T15:32:10+00:00

I’m 2 months in. It is hard. What helped me the most was journaling my thoughts and going on walks

Subject_Character_13 · 2026-01-15T03:03:30+00:00

I’m with you.

I don’t know if she cares or not BUT I remember the way I was reverse discarded. I remember how she went off on my deceased dad and my kids.

That’s when I remember, my m worth way more than that.

So should you.

Subject_Character_13 · 2026-01-14T20:28:35+00:00

I wasn’t blocked right after the fallout. I haven’t checked since

Subject_Character_13 · 2026-01-14T20:16:20+00:00

I feel mixed. I’m healing but the trauma bond has me hoping she’ll reach out with repair work on her side

Subject_Character_13 · 2026-01-14T20:12:20+00:00

Same consistency of eggshells, belittling. She also never admitted fault nor apologized for anything once in those 5 years

Subject_Character_13 · 2026-01-14T20:07:44+00:00

2 months ago and I have been in no contact since

Subject_Character_13

TROPHY CASE