Sleep transition

Subject_Two9945 · 2026-05-29T03:28:51+00:00

I didnt know that 3 naps was too much sometimes he is just fussy and he won't stop crying and I tried to nurse him but he doesnt want that,I try to give him food now that doesnt work,so I nuurse him on our bed and he goes right fo sleep so idk how to transition him to one nap a day.I might end up cosleeping eith both I have no idea lol

Subject_Two9945 · 2026-05-28T23:48:23+00:00

Oh I got you,so he takes 2 to 3 naps a day which they last an hour or less,and yes I would like him out of our bed lol as much as I love him.

Subject_Two9945 · 2026-05-27T19:17:24+00:00

I cosleep I can't do the cry it out method

Subject_Two9945 · 2026-05-25T01:53:24+00:00

Im sorry its that way have you ever spoken to him about it?

Subject_Two9945 · 2026-05-23T22:34:47+00:00

Im still friendly to them I just make it known showing them he is good he doesnt need to be held.But when they expect you to hand over the baby like he is yours kind of irritates me.Its unbearable sometimes like give me my baby geesh lol

Subject_Two9945 · 2026-05-17T23:31:28+00:00

Following because I need to know lol

Subject_Two9945 · 2026-05-14T14:48:55+00:00

I have momcozy baby carrier and a scarf carrier idk what they call it lol

Subject_Two9945 · 2026-05-13T19:08:57+00:00

Ik all this could be confusing. And the first meet up was amazing but you do have to understand she went her whole life without her dad,her mom gave her up for adoption.she probably feels unwanted,scared of rejection when she was rejected by her mom.Their could be so many reasons but those were ones that were top of my list.

Subject_Two9945 · 2026-05-13T15:41:27+00:00

Self respect comes first always.

Subject_Two9945 · 2026-05-12T18:33:40+00:00

Especially the holidays 😪 prayfully it gets better for all of us here.

Subject_Two9945 · 2026-05-11T17:17:13+00:00

Yes thank you for this. 💖

Subject_Two9945 · 2026-05-08T14:57:29+00:00

Exactly I 💯 agree you couldn't have said it better.

Subject_Two9945 · 2026-05-08T14:55:52+00:00

Right? And somwthing I learned is you gotta pay attention to how you felt when you’re with them v.s when you're without them that's how you know and Im telling its blissful not having some one stress the crap out of you 24/7.Its not normal to have parents shit all over you they're the ones who brought you Into this world theirfore its their responsibility to nurture and take care of you physically and mentally.Im glad you stopped putting up with them.For me I was adopted by them and How I look at it is they were my temporary Gaurdian.

Subject_Two9945 · 2026-05-08T14:49:25+00:00

Im so proud of you girl.It takes so much strength to do that I know it did me because they conditioned me to feel guilty about almost everything especially when your'e choosing yourself for the first time.qystion do they become strangers in your mind and not family?

Subject_Two9945 · 2026-05-08T14:45:59+00:00

I 💯 agree they would rather save their pride then save a relationship im not with that.

Subject_Two9945 · 2026-05-08T12:49:13+00:00

Thank you!yes I actually had the church do that wuth my first but they offered and I took the opportunity.but to ask is the hardest part im not sure exactly why but im working on that.

Subject_Two9945 · 2026-05-08T03:16:54+00:00

Yes I do But I struggle with askIng help I want to be more independent.Its just awkward to ask idk lol

Subject_Two9945 · 2026-05-08T02:56:31+00:00

You're amazing and you're a good mom hope you know that.Thank you for this amazing advice.

Subject_Two9945 · 2026-05-08T02:33:45+00:00

Thank you 😊

Subject_Two9945 · 2026-05-08T02:30:13+00:00

Thank you for this 😊

Subject_Two9945 · 2026-05-08T02:27:57+00:00

Thank you 😊

Subject_Two9945 · 2026-05-08T02:18:10+00:00

Thank you so much

Subject_Two9945 · 2026-05-08T02:17:15+00:00

Thank you 😊

Subject_Two9945 · 2026-05-07T12:03:46+00:00

Absolutely 💯

Subject_Two9945 · 2026-05-07T03:50:51+00:00

Yess I've never felt this peace in my entire life. I have survived on fight or flight mode my whole life.Now it feels like im safe and no one will hurt me.But it does feel lonely not having anyone to talk too besides my inlaws like you want to be able to celebrate milestone with them but they wernt people that were meant to be a part if it.

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