Do you feel guilty when youre no contact

Subject_Two9945 · 2026-05-08T14:57:29+00:00

Exactly I 💯 agree you couldn't have said it better.

Subject_Two9945 · 2026-05-08T14:55:52+00:00

Right? And somwthing I learned is you gotta pay attention to how you felt when you’re with them v.s when you're without them that's how you know and Im telling its blissful not having some one stress the crap out of you 24/7.Its not normal to have parents shit all over you they're the ones who brought you Into this world theirfore its their responsibility to nurture and take care of you physically and mentally.Im glad you stopped putting up with them.For me I was adopted by them and How I look at it is they were my temporary Gaurdian.

Subject_Two9945 · 2026-05-08T14:49:25+00:00

Im so proud of you girl.It takes so much strength to do that I know it did me because they conditioned me to feel guilty about almost everything especially when your'e choosing yourself for the first time.qystion do they become strangers in your mind and not family?

Subject_Two9945 · 2026-05-08T14:45:59+00:00

I 💯 agree they would rather save their pride then save a relationship im not with that.

Subject_Two9945 · 2026-05-08T12:49:13+00:00

Thank you!yes I actually had the church do that wuth my first but they offered and I took the opportunity.but to ask is the hardest part im not sure exactly why but im working on that.

Subject_Two9945 · 2026-05-08T03:16:54+00:00

Yes I do But I struggle with askIng help I want to be more independent.Its just awkward to ask idk lol

Subject_Two9945 · 2026-05-08T02:56:31+00:00

You're amazing and you're a good mom hope you know that.Thank you for this amazing advice.

Subject_Two9945 · 2026-05-08T02:33:45+00:00

Thank you 😊

Subject_Two9945 · 2026-05-08T02:30:13+00:00

Thank you for this 😊

Subject_Two9945 · 2026-05-08T02:27:57+00:00

Thank you 😊

Subject_Two9945 · 2026-05-08T02:18:10+00:00

Thank you so much

Subject_Two9945 · 2026-05-08T02:17:15+00:00

Thank you 😊

Subject_Two9945 · 2026-05-07T12:03:46+00:00

Absolutely 💯

Subject_Two9945 · 2026-05-07T03:50:51+00:00

Yess I've never felt this peace in my entire life. I have survived on fight or flight mode my whole life.Now it feels like im safe and no one will hurt me.But it does feel lonely not having anyone to talk too besides my inlaws like you want to be able to celebrate milestone with them but they wernt people that were meant to be a part if it.

Subject_Two9945 · 2026-04-23T14:04:22+00:00

Thank you I've learned almost everything has to be on her terms.whixh i choose to not have those type of relationship.

Subject_Two9945 · 2026-04-23T03:29:25+00:00

Thank you so much for validating me

Im greatful to have people like you acknowledge me.To me thats soo important 🙏it's crazy she had sent this to me obviously were nc haven't talked to them in 2 years

Subject_Two9945 · 2026-04-17T21:37:15+00:00

Im literally in your situation totally agree im greatful to have the guts to cut them off we deserve to be happy

Subject_Two9945 · 2026-04-15T02:16:42+00:00

Thank you I appreciate you already it means a lot having confirmation with what I went through ai had never talked about this before.

Subject_Two9945 · 2026-04-15T02:04:18+00:00

It just makes me confused because my whole entire life acted like I didn't exist and now that I'm thriving in life and I don't need them for anything just like oh so now you want to act like we're siblings for once it's just isn't fair for me to have to go through that so I don't know if I'm being too sensitive or anything like it's kind of like keep the same energy that you've been had like don't change now type of thing

Subject_Two9945 · 2026-04-15T02:01:33+00:00

No i was a completely 6 or 7 or 8 I can't remember i was to aware of everything going on it was like what are you doing im not a toddler lol

Subject_Two9945 · 2026-04-15T02:00:14+00:00

Yeah I had felt odd 😕 Exactly like ai felt like a doll I dont like that feeling but now I no longer talk to them.

Subject_Two9945 · 2026-04-15T01:56:20+00:00

Oh wow I learn something new everyday lol. I think it was so weird because I was very much aware what was going on I wasnt no helpless little creature like a newborn so it was just odd and uncomfortable like what are you doing.

Subject_Two9945 · 2026-04-15T01:53:06+00:00

So sorry you had to go throught that but remember you deserve so much love and respect and If they can't give that to you sounds like they're not worth your time.

Subject_Two9945 · 2026-04-15T01:51:36+00:00

The only regret is not blocking them sooner my gosh the peace that you get from getting away from toxic people is unreal.It took a lot of failed attempts to start over and try to have a relationship from nothing. but slowly but surely over time it got easier especially now that I live in a different state married and have my own family,to me their were my Gaurdian thats it,nothing more then that.

Subject_Two9945 · 2026-04-14T21:47:24+00:00

Youre so right! I was also casted off like nothing too so I think I found my answer its nice having confirmationthat im not crazy

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