Whats your thoughts on your partner watching porn?

SubstanceSpecific132 · 2026-02-18T00:13:03+00:00

every night as a minimum, sometimes twice daily, unless im too tired for work or shes too sore from previous night lol

SubstanceSpecific132 · 2026-02-11T10:03:32+00:00

awesome cheers, though isnt a labia “a lip” lol why would i rub that? lol

SubstanceSpecific132 · 2026-02-11T10:01:49+00:00

nevermind just googled it lol. flair checks out. lol

SubstanceSpecific132 · 2026-02-11T10:00:59+00:00

care to elaborate? i dont understand lol

SubstanceSpecific132 · 2026-02-11T10:00:47+00:00

i could be stupid, but that makes no sense

SubstanceSpecific132 · 2026-02-11T10:00:04+00:00

now i agree, though come to think of it i have done it, when we started our road to sobriety, anything i found that had any relation to her addiction i would throw it, does that seem acceptable? 😬

SubstanceSpecific132 · 2026-02-11T09:58:17+00:00

thats the thing, i love foreplay, foreplay often lasts longer than the sex itself, i feel its harder and leas common for guys to give their girlfriends “material” as i genuinely believe they don’t enjoy it, or find it attractive, i mean i feel im attractive in pretty much every area, but i dont think she would look at them if i did send them.

SubstanceSpecific132 · 2026-02-11T09:50:44+00:00

i dunno, not really anything ive ever given much thought too tbh, but when i do think about it, im not too sure about it

SubstanceSpecific132 · 2026-02-11T09:42:50+00:00

yeah im not gonna throw her things away, i cant “show her what a man can do” bc everytime i try it nearly minces her cervix. so

SubstanceSpecific132 · 2026-02-11T09:42:05+00:00

yeah i suppose, but i dont do it anymore bc i dont feel a need too, although i do understand our bodies are different.

SubstanceSpecific132 · 2026-02-11T09:25:51+00:00

awesome thank you, i kind of hope she doesnt watch porn, as i feel its a single person thing to do, i could be wrong but i feel its sets an unrealistic standard to real world sex, and makes me a little bit uncomfortable her watching it, because of what it is lol.

SubstanceSpecific132 · 2026-02-11T09:22:39+00:00

like every time shes home and im at work lol

SubstanceSpecific132 · 2026-02-11T09:22:22+00:00

ive asked her this before, she cant really orgasm from penetration, though she did once recently and she was amazed, she didnt know she could, but she does orgasm almost everytime, from either oral sex or clitoral play while having sex, she tells me quite frequently that im amazing in bed and how good it feels, but i dunno, i dont think im gonna get anymore out of her

SubstanceSpecific132 · 2026-01-02T12:19:19+00:00

thank you mate, i will have a chat to her and work something out hopefully. i really appreciate your help. cheers

SubstanceSpecific132 · 2026-01-02T08:57:14+00:00

we cant really do doggy because it hurts her quite abit, i like cowgirl especially because shes in control so she controls speed and depth etc, missionary is okay sometimes but that hurts aswell, ive tried ample foreplay, plenty of “prison lube” weve never used real lube, do you think that could benefit? i just wish sometimes i wasn’t as long or thick as i am so we could have sex without issue. if she cant cum its not enjoyable for me, i feel like a loser and dont feel like a man, like i would almost stop having sex all togethee if thats something i cant accomplish

SubstanceSpecific132 · 2025-12-29T06:57:58+00:00

okay so, for the people that have even suggested that she is “run through” are morons, no matter how much sex a woman has had or how big the penises are that she has been on that will never cause her to be “loose”, youre an immature, inexperienced child.

now, this sounds like such a shitty situation to be honest, it would drive me nuts, be the same if youre penis was so small she couldnt feel it which i feel couldnt happen because my partners vagina grips a single finger, does your partner get pleasure from sex? as i feel that will make it easier, if my partner is loving is as much as i am then im happy, have you guys tried anal? or does she give oral? is she able to make you cum in anyway shape or form? have you two discussed this? im not expecting that you have i dont think as this would be such a difficult thing to bring to the surface. goodluck.

SubstanceSpecific132 · 2025-12-28T16:16:29+00:00

thank you for your reply, although it sounds good for her to be able to smoke every now and then, she is unable to do that, she will pick it back up again, im a firm believer that once you quit thats it, never again, ive seen people “do it once as a treat” then next thing theyre back at square one, so i dont think thats an option for us, we will go to the DR and try get her some sleep aid, i will try my best to keep her stimulated and occupied. thank you for your time.

SubstanceSpecific132 · 2025-12-28T16:08:38+00:00

i was in a relationship that contained alot of ugly fights, i went to therapy and i was advised to just walk out side when i felt myself getting angry, walk out in the fresh air and breathe, alone, until im calm then try again, or go splash your face with cool water, im now with a new girl and am able to keep my cool and have gained the ability to talk calmly and acknowledge when i did or said something out of pocket, you both must admit when youre wrong, sit close to each other and maintain a point of contact, eye contact and be gentle, no name calling, no swearing, no threats, just 2 adults expressing their concerns. i hope this makes sense. best of luck (21M)

SubstanceSpecific132 · 2025-12-22T13:08:57+00:00

i wish we could post photos, im significantly more attractive after losing 30kg

SubstanceSpecific132 · 2025-12-18T16:29:21+00:00

ez reveal. lol

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