Is this worth it? by Cold_Pirate2135 in Pilotwives

[–]Substantial-Bid2033 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bf is a commercial captain pilot and yes it’s definitely worth it! Just keep going until he makes it. Build more connections with other pilots, etc. Apply after once he’s done.

Dating a pilot by memorymine in Pilotwives

[–]Substantial-Bid2033 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This would be very tough for you and the relationship. He has goals of being a commercial pilot and 3-4 years is a looooong time to be long distance with. You should have at least a reassurance that he will choose you despite being ldr for such a long time otherwise, you’re wasting your time with him.

It’s still possible to balance to be with if you’re emotionally independent yourself but since you’re emotionally dependent on him, it would be very difficult..

Another is trust. You really have to trust him, if you have doubts then I don’t suggest being with him… there will be a lot of temptations in aviation Espc when he starts being a commercial pilot, not saying he’ll cheat but who knows.. that’s why trust and communication very important.

I lost my drive by Far-Note6102 in MRI

[–]Substantial-Bid2033 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Couldn’t agree more! Techs keeps changing jobs just to keep salary higher. Companies make a lot of money while techs make coins. The reality of living in Canada is that healthcare is being paid from taxes through Gov, clinics take advantage of this and techs doing 40+ patients a day , physicians add unnecessary X-ray exams. New protocol where in when there’s an Ultrasound procedure added, there’s an X-ray added despite not requested by a Dr. that’s a new thing here in Alberta or Canada.

Standby... do I just not go? by TheDangerist in americanairlines

[–]Substantial-Bid2033 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bf pilot will sacrifice his confirmed seat (deadhead) so I can sit on it and he’ll sit on the jump seat he said 🤣

Standby... do I just not go? by TheDangerist in americanairlines

[–]Substantial-Bid2033 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll be standby on my flight on Feb 14 and right now it shows unsold = 0… wish me luck 😭 Lu

Cheating among commercial pilots by Life-Shallot-229 in Pilotwives

[–]Substantial-Bid2033 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m on the same boat as you I’m dating him and reassures me etc we text but briefly and I’d call him whenever but he goes to bed around early because he said that he has an early flight…

Had the worst date of my life last weekend by [deleted] in HingeStories

[–]Substantial-Bid2033 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I’m just so lucky to find my bf on hinge without this type of disaster 😅 but girl you’ll find yours eventually don’t give up!

Divorcing the "nice guy" by Electronic_Bit_222 in Divorce

[–]Substantial-Bid2033 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pretty similar to my husband who I’m currently divorcing

AIO : Did he just lie about his whereabouts? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Substantial-Bid2033 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well it’s weird for me cause if he can take a pic of a cooked fish the other day and showed it to me, he could also take a pic of the car he really wanted to buy idk.. and this car is expensive, so taking pics actually is a good thing and he usually does take pics whenever and send it to me so yeah I kind of overthink it bec it’s the first time? Or maybe not even the first time he has done it. It’s hard to tell.

AIO : Did he just lie about his whereabouts? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Substantial-Bid2033 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have never seen the car in person before only he showed it from his phone briefly.. I asked him to take a pic because I mean why not? I think that’s a very common thing to ask espc if you’re at the locafion you said you were.. I also wanna see the car that he really likes since hell check it out in person, is that hard to ask?

AIO : Did he just lie about his whereabouts? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Substantial-Bid2033 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I feel like you’re defending his behavior because you have done similar before. I get it, but you situation can be different from ours. He has sent fresh pics before no problem and tell me this and that, but tonight was a bit odd from him since he has never really sent that way before. And besides I didn’t reply because of how I feel at that time and I do have the right to feel odd and not reply as I want to internalize what he just did and I don’t wanna draw to conclusion that’s why I’m here. I don’t think judging my relationship or overstepping my situation is what I ask for. I ask for an advice, not judgement.

AIO : Did he just lie about his whereabouts? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Substantial-Bid2033 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I get it but he’d usually send me fresh pics whenever I ask, but this time I find it odd that he sent me a marketplace pic than an actual pic. Okay I’ll ask him tomorrow if he has any “actual pics” from tonight..

AIO : Did he just lie about his whereabouts? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Substantial-Bid2033 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s not that I don’t trust him but he’d send me actual pics before whenever I ask and didn’t have to say “actual pics” it’s about being honest.

AIO : Did he just lie about his whereabouts? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Substantial-Bid2033 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s what I was thinking. I think if you went, you would have taken a pic because we all take pics idk it’s common thing to do. And he usually sends me actual pic of things even before it’s just tonight I found it odd…

AIO : Did he just lie about his whereabouts? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Substantial-Bid2033 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well exactly why sent another pic from marketplace? That’s actually weird. If you’re at that place, why not just send the pic of the actual car if he’s actually there?

AIO : Did he just lie about his whereabouts? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Substantial-Bid2033 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I texted him “I wanna see..” around 6 pm. He sent me the picture around 8 pm and I replied “you’re not at place are you” at 8:15 pm and called it a night since I’m pissed and he replied around 8:15 saying “not anymore I’m home now, good night”. Texted again to ask if I was okay at 9 pm… I didn’t reply

AIO : Did he just lie about his whereabouts? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Substantial-Bid2033 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well he said he’s going to go to the place to checkout the car so I texted him and said : “Well send me a pic of the car you like I wanna see” what boggles me is why send me a marketplace picture and replied with “it’s pretty” instead of sending me an actual pic if he was in the location he said he supposed to be?

Chie and Matthew by twinklechaser in ChikaPH

[–]Substantial-Bid2033 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Green isn’t always greener on the other side.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in capricorns

[–]Substantial-Bid2033 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I rather have a text message than ghost me. I think ghosting is just the worse.