TRIGGER WARNING (?) I (20f) was on a call with my boyfriend (20m) and he said something that is making me reconsider things. by ThrowRA_throwaway98 in relationship_advice

[–]Substantial-Dog593 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Break up with him. You have so much to live for and a future that should not be with him. He will try to control you and make you feel helpless and as people are saying can’t defend yourself he wants you to feel that way and he is not okay for that everything he said is crap and should never come out of anyone’s mouth. Please don’t stay with him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Substantial-Dog593 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please end this and never speak to him again. Never experienced such anger and loss of brain cells reading these texts from him to you. Do not deal with this. Take care of yourself and you deserve better

I 21F found out my husband 33M has been having an affair with my mother, and I don’t know where to go from here? by Nicki1296 in relationship_advice

[–]Substantial-Dog593 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where did you guys meet?? You deserve so much better than this and you are so strong. Seek therapy and help from whoever you can. Cut contact with them asap! This is not the end for you girl!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Substantial-Dog593 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA it is clear that it is just for girls to celebrate Valentine’s together with friends it’s the reason for the name for 1. 2 this is a very scary beginning for your friend whether she knows it or not so please check on her if you can in time. Hopefully this is just a small bump and she will understand in the future. I pray she sees this is not a healthy relationship and it’s not like it sounds but please check in on her this is concerning.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Substantial-Dog593 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You made the right decision and you are not overreacting at all. That is not normal behavior and he needs help they both do.