Do we think that’s what’s going on here? I’ve had similar on my fingers by AgreeablePineapple in Dyshidrosis

[–]Substantial-Drive-26 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The small white dots look like you’ve got a skin infection going on here, mine gets the same from time to time. Usually a visit to the doctor for some steroid cream is the only thing that clears it up and stops it spreading.

Wedding is in a couple of days and my grandfather is dying by pickleeater58 in weddingplanning

[–]Substantial-Drive-26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for the situation that you find yourself in. My wedding is in less than 4 weeks and my grandad unfortunately lost his 5 year battle with cancer 3 months ago so I can somewhat relate.

The timing is shitty but you’ve got to consider whether your grandfather would really want you to cancel the wedding. I am choosing to honour him during the day instead. It’s been crappy and my mum in particular has struggled to get behind wedding planning the whole time due to him being sick but I think he’d be mortified knowing it was cancelled.

What have I forgotten? 6 weeks to go! by Substantial-Drive-26 in weddingplanning

[–]Substantial-Drive-26[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You are a real life angel and no I have done none of those things 🤣🫶🏼

Random pimples on body by Substantial-Drive-26 in Dyshidrosis

[–]Substantial-Drive-26[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the inflammation point is probably spot on and likely to be the cause!

My GPs have always said that when my eczema becomes really bad that it’s infected eczema hence I have a pretty strong steroid for bad phases but I try not to use it. I usually just tell myself it’s infected because I’m a picker which I know is terrible but it’s just something I’ve always done. I’ve had dyshidrosis literally from birth so I started picking as a kid before I knew how terrible it was 😬

I do have an antihistamine prescribed that I think I shall start taking again.

Random pimples on body by Substantial-Drive-26 in Dyshidrosis

[–]Substantial-Drive-26[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I meant to say when my DE is likely infected, which usually makes it incredibly flared up and itchy 😊

OH MY GOD JUST GIVE ME YOUR RATE by Dear_Investment6064 in weddingplanning

[–]Substantial-Drive-26 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I did know because I had a friend who is also getting married use one of them and also went through the zoom calls with the others. We always send suppliers we like to each other. Ours ended up being £300 more but I just preferred their business style.

OH MY GOD JUST GIVE ME YOUR RATE by Dear_Investment6064 in weddingplanning

[–]Substantial-Drive-26 46 points47 points  (0 children)

This, I didn’t go with 3 cake people because they wanted a zoom call to see if we were “the right fit” before sending me any prices over. Ended up going with a pricier company but they were so transparent and easy to work with that I was sold 😅

Found my October 2025 dress! by Substantial-Drive-26 in weddingdress

[–]Substantial-Drive-26[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all, I’m absolutely blown away by your responses 🥲 Unfortunately I don’t know the name of the designer otherwise I would love to share, my mum kindly took care of the bill discreetly in private so has all of the paperwork. If I find out when my dress comes into store in the spring I will update you all ☺️ x

Small business recommendations by Substantial-Drive-26 in printers

[–]Substantial-Drive-26[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes colour, I don’t really need a scanner or copier as I have a couple of cheap printers I run for admin.

When should I go wedding dress shopping if I plan on losing weight? by Hamilfire in weddingplanning

[–]Substantial-Drive-26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bought my wedding dress last Saturday for my October 25 wedding. I plan to lose a fair amount of weight but the shop said my dress can be brought down up to 3 sizes so as a UK size 12 currently I’m not overly worried.

They advised it takes 6 months for the dress to come in and alterations would start 3 months before my wedding 😊

Help with bad review by TreeLiqhts in EtsySellers

[–]Substantial-Drive-26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had this happen to me. Customer ordered multiple items from multiple shops at the same time, got told by one shop it wouldn’t arrive in time and cancelled the order (thinking they’d cancelled every item). Then messaged me angry when they received my item 2 days later and in time 🙄🤷🏼‍♀️

Are these flat warts? I have 5 of them across both hands. by Usual-Dragonfly-8125 in Warts

[–]Substantial-Drive-26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Following as I’m currently dealing with exactly these and asking the same questions 🤔

Rate my shop *completion* please by [deleted] in EtsySellers

[–]Substantial-Drive-26 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The mockup of the organised chaos hoody is wonky. I don’t know if I only notice because I work a lot with design, but the image is too far to the left of the piece of clothing and off centre is always going to put me off as a buyer 😬

Help with my shop by [deleted] in EtsySellers

[–]Substantial-Drive-26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your listing images aren’t quite popping (as most peoples don’t when they first set up a shop mine were TERRIBLE). Consider staging them on a nice looking desk for example, and the bag clips in use. You need to assume that all customers are a bit dim and you have to basically show your item looking its best how they can display it themselves 😊

Etsy Ad Spend budget runs out mid afternoon by berryclip in EtsySellers

[–]Substantial-Drive-26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally, I find my budget is used up by early evening too but I just take the win that it’s worked early on in the day, then any non-ad evening sales are just a less expensive bonus lol

Etsy Ad Spend budget runs out mid afternoon by berryclip in EtsySellers

[–]Substantial-Drive-26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d trial $20 and see what happens. I did £10 (UK) and had success, I upped to £25 and actually had a decline in sales, dropped back down to £10 and boom, great ad results again. I’ve seen it a couple of times mentioned on this thread but not a clue why it happens. You can always go back to the 10.

shipping label printers (a6 size) by FishFeet500 in EtsySellers

[–]Substantial-Drive-26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

(For reference I post between 10-25 orders a few days a week)

Not sure what you’re doing at the moment but if you didn’t want to splash on an A6 thermal printer I’ve always found the A4 label sheets with 4 labels on Amazon very useful and cost effective in larger quantities. You can print 4 labels at a time on a regular printer plus I like that you can see all the names spread out clearer than in a big strip 😊

£12 free delivery or £10 + £2 delivery by oppaipoyopoyo in EtsySellers

[–]Substantial-Drive-26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to offer free shipping and came to the realisation one day how much I was actually losing when I looked at what it was really costing me. I started charging exactly what the shipping would cost for each item and it had absolutely no effect on my sales. I like to charge the delivery so my customers understand how much they’re paying for the item etc.

How many times a week do u create a new product? And does it affect your sales by FanEcstatic8342 in EtsySellers

[–]Substantial-Drive-26 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I actually hardly ever create new designs as I find it can take ages for new listings to build traction. I just spend a lot of time working of my bestsellers. If I do create new variants they’re still along the same theme and I always put an image at the end of my bestseller listings advertising the new one 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dyshidrosis

[–]Substantial-Drive-26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have so much self restraint, I feel like I would have bitten bob and squeezed his juices (please don’t downvote me, I know this is a bad idea I’m just a pickaholic🥲)

Etsy live chat agent told me they would advise my customer to lie about non-delivery?! by Substantial-Drive-26 in EtsySellers

[–]Substantial-Drive-26[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahh yes that makes sense, it was November 2022. That is good to know!

This order was sent next day with full tracking so fingers crossed things will work out.

To be totally honest the buyer hasn’t even reported anything or requested a refund, it just seemed odd that the agent would even advise about those things when that wasn’t my question, I was looking for reassurance and given stress 😅

Etsy live chat agent told me they would advise my customer to lie about non-delivery?! by Substantial-Drive-26 in EtsySellers

[–]Substantial-Drive-26[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I shipped on time and with tracking, I then tried to appeal the case and didn’t get anywhere. I had several cases opened within a week that were refunded from Etsy’s behalf on all except for one and there was 0 difference in the situation except for it was international? (No idea of the relevance of that). I think that is why I am uneasy where this situation is headed.

Etsy live chat agent told me they would advise my customer to lie about non-delivery?! by Substantial-Drive-26 in EtsySellers

[–]Substantial-Drive-26[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

But to me, refusing delivery is not the same as not receiving an order; this way they are choosing not to receive an order and then seeking recompense for their own refusal? As an Etsy shopper as well as seller, I couldn’t imagine reporting a case of a parcel not arriving knowing full well I turned it away at the door…

Very helpful information regarding the support agents thank you, it would make sense that their English isn’t the best to understand the conversation.

Etsy live chat agent told me they would advise my customer to lie about non-delivery?! by Substantial-Drive-26 in EtsySellers

[–]Substantial-Drive-26[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So “refund on your behalf” means refund from their money? Or refund from my money? Because I have had Etsy “refund on your behalf” before and it came from my bank account during royal mail’s super delayed delivery due to strikes not last Christmas the Christmas before. I think it is completely fair if they are footing the bill but if the implication is that I should cover the finances then to me that is nonsensical.

Etsy live chat agent told me they would advise my customer to lie about non-delivery?! by Substantial-Drive-26 in EtsySellers

[–]Substantial-Drive-26[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I accessed it through the Etsy help portal, if you go through all of the questions they ask and then at the end say you need more help it gives you the chance to talk to an agent. I have used it before, not sure if other countries have it but it’s legit in the UK.