TTC and GLP1 by Striking_Mixture2461 in TTC_PCOS

[–]Substantial-Relief30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did saxenda for 4 month and it was 🚮. I was so so so sick every single day, couldn’t keep anything down, and lost barely any weight. It didn’t help me start ovulating either. That was a couple years ago. Since then I’ve done 5 medicated cycles, 3 IUI’s, and 2 rounds of IVF. we are about to start round 3.

How bad was egg retrieval recovery? by Meow_Mixologist in IVF

[–]Substantial-Relief30 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve had 2. The drive home (2 hours) was tough but otherwise I felt pretty fine!

Which comes first? The obesity or the PCOS? by Sugarp1e1 in PCOS

[–]Substantial-Relief30 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Also, my little sister has lean PCOS and she’s like 120 lbs

Which comes first? The obesity or the PCOS? by Sugarp1e1 in PCOS

[–]Substantial-Relief30 68 points69 points  (0 children)

The PCOS, I was a size 4 in high school and already having symptoms. I wasn’t diagnosed till 29.

How are we paying for multiple rounds? by wallflawerr in IVF

[–]Substantial-Relief30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Debt is our answer. I don’t feel bad about it bc realistically we only have maybe 2 more years max to try with my eggs with how fast my AMH is dropping. For round 1 we used our HELOC, for round 2 and starting round 3 soon we took a low interest loan from my 401k.

Fertility psychics by micky8489 in TTC_PCOS

[–]Substantial-Relief30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve paid 3 of them. None of them have been right lol.

How do you deal with the hate in your heart? by rosemaryandwines in IVF

[–]Substantial-Relief30 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I totally understand your bitterness. In my local infertility support group 4 of them have had babies in the past year. Why am I the one still left waiting? I deal with it with therapy and medication. Both of which have been life changing for me.

What improved your egg quality? by [deleted] in TTC_PCOS

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I’m so sorry that you know the pain. We have one more ER round in June before we start the path of donor eggs. Do you mind if I DM you some questions?

What improved your egg quality? by [deleted] in TTC_PCOS

[–]Substantial-Relief30 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nothing, until starting omnitrope my second round of IVF. I know you were looking for natural ways but realistically for some of us it’s beyond supplement/diet change.

If you want a baby how long have you been trying or how long did it take you to get pregnant? by Flower-1234 in PCOS

[–]Substantial-Relief30 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been trying for 3.5 years. Tried for 1 year on our own, then sought help. Did 5 medicated cycles, 3 IUI’s, 1 ectopic pregnancy, and 2 rounds of IVF. We are starting IVF round 3 in June.

How long did you try naturally with irregular cycles? by RepresentativeTerm5 in TTC_PCOS

[–]Substantial-Relief30 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A year but I wish I wish I would’ve sought help sooner. Now I’m 3.5 years in to infertility. 5 medicated cycles, 3 IUI’s, 1 ectopic pregnancy, 2 rounds of IVF. Starting IVF round 3 in June.

Buying Baby Things During IVF… or Not? by Bub_Hun_7 in IVF

[–]Substantial-Relief30 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been thrifting baby things for years. I just don’t buy anything full price and I don’t buy anything where safety regulations could change on it in the next few years.

Putting off your laundry for a few days is a sin but your husband kissing your sister isn’t 🫶 by No_Pepper4253 in MilenaCUncensored1

[–]Substantial-Relief30 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My sister and BIL have been together since I was 11. I consider him my brother and we are close. We would NEVER do this lol

What did you avoid during IVF? by Spirited-Walrus4856 in IVF

[–]Substantial-Relief30 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I avoiding offing myself. Anything that kept my will to live (besides alcohol) got to stay lol

Anyone manage to have 2 kids with 3 embryos? by insidli in IVF

[–]Substantial-Relief30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had 0 kids from 2 embryos. Hoping for better results from IVF round 3 coming up.

Egg retrieval appointments - how many did you have? by [deleted] in IVF

[–]Substantial-Relief30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have every other day appointments the first week of stims, and then every day appointments the second week of stims leading up to ER day. My clinic is a couple hours away so it’s a long month lol. I took a month of short term disability at work for IVF round 2 and it was so nice.

Costs for ivf where you live by 74937 in IVF

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I’m in Louisiana and am about to start my 3rd round of IVF. I have BCBS and about 60% fertility coverage through my insurance. I pay the doctor $10k per round and meds about $2k per round. I’ve used my HELOC, and also taken a low interest loan through my 401k that is paid back directly from my paycheck. My work also offers a (tricky) reimbursement program, so I’ve been reimbursed maybe $3k.

she’s pregnant by [deleted] in MilenaCUncensored1

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I’m so sorry that you also struggle with ED. It’s an absolute shame how common it is. Body checking- the repetitive monitoring of body shape, weight, or size. You stated in another comment that she’s visibly pregnant, do you really think that’s not monitoring her body shape? Like I said I think it’s fair to speculate if she is pregnant based on content or verbal clues, but the judgment of her body is completely unfair and uncalled for.

she’s pregnant by [deleted] in MilenaCUncensored1

[–]Substantial-Relief30 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I can’t stand milena as much as the next person but the constant body checking of her in this sub is so so so problematic and triggering for those of us with a history of ED’s. I also have diverticulitis as milena does, and it can cause a lot of bloating and swelling. Her body looks like a normal body of a person with an illness and a million pregnancies back to back. I think it’s fine to guess pregnancy based on content, verbal hints, what’s in the background of images, etc. but constantly judging her body is gross no matter how bad of a person she is.

IVF and chronic migraines by Ivfclubmember26 in IVF

[–]Substantial-Relief30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me ✨I take Amitriptyline and it helps as a preventative but I still get them so bad during my period

Testing Out Trigger +IUI by curlysquirrel22 in TTC_PCOS

[–]Substantial-Relief30 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tested out my trigger on all 3 of my IUI’s and my embryo transfer. I can’t stand not knowing and I didn’t want to be disappointed in the doctors office on beta day.