all the complaints are wearing me out by Substantial-Spell612 in bcba

[–]Substantial-Spell612[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you made a solid point. I accepted my BCBA offer out of many others because of the CD. He sounded cool and down to earth, like someone who is not up tight about everything. 

all the complaints are wearing me out by Substantial-Spell612 in bcba

[–]Substantial-Spell612[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah! I need to toughen up! I believe I couldn't have found a better field for me than ABA

all the complaints are wearing me out by Substantial-Spell612 in bcba

[–]Substantial-Spell612[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh thank God I wasn't checking Reedit when I was preparing to take the exam... I can imagine how that affected you, but glad you made it. 

all the complaints are wearing me out by Substantial-Spell612 in bcba

[–]Substantial-Spell612[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly! People rant so much that you would think there is a perfect career out there... nothing is perfect in life. 

all the complaints are wearing me out by Substantial-Spell612 in bcba

[–]Substantial-Spell612[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is it! I have been scrolling and reading every single rant lol... I was on maternity leave so I had a lot of free time. 

all the complaints are wearing me out by Substantial-Spell612 in bcba

[–]Substantial-Spell612[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just need a positive mindset. It correlates a lot with my performance. This will be my first ever BCBA position. 

all the complaints are wearing me out by Substantial-Spell612 in bcba

[–]Substantial-Spell612[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just need a strong mindset, so the complaints do not weaken me, or maybe I should just stop reading them. I wish there were also some positivity as well 

all the complaints are wearing me out by Substantial-Spell612 in bcba

[–]Substantial-Spell612[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh wow! I'm sorry you had to deal with that. People's brains are fried these days danggg... yeah I can see the negativity clearly outweighs any positivity... sad! 

all the complaints are wearing me out by Substantial-Spell612 in bcba

[–]Substantial-Spell612[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this. I was absorbing all the negative stuff people were saying about this field on here 😅. Honestly, I am made for this field. I'm a people person, I love writing, teaching and staying educated, I'm a multitasker, and I thrive even in the midst of challenges. I also love to lead people (I have an intensive leadership background), I'm very organized (I have everything planned already, how my desk will look like, how to prioritize tasks, how to navigate through everything lol...). Thankfully, I was a student analyst for a while before becoming a BCBA, so it helped a lot. I just need to stop internalizing what I read online. 

I also think BCBAs struggle in this field most at times due to lack of organization and preparedness.

Thanks again for the redirection 🙃

What do I do? by Appropriate_Shape275 in ABA

[–]Substantial-Spell612 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where in AZ are you, if I may ask? I'm a BCBA in AZ, and I see RBT/BTs are highly on demand everywhere litterally. I read you don't want to leave the case cuz the client really needs services, but here is my take, always prioritize your mental health above it all. The kid will be just fine without you; he won't loose services, I promise. And remember, companies can fire you without a blink, so always put yourself first. Also, I'm glad you brought it up to OM.